Wedding planning can be a rollercoaster of emotions and decision-making, but one bride-to-be’s choices have her family questioning her priorities. She and her fiancé have decided to make their beloved pets, Mika the dog and Tibby the cat, the flower girl and ring bearer at their wedding. However, her family is not too pleased with the decision, as they believe her niece and nephew, Ava and Liam, should take on those roles. Ava and Liam, dubbed ‘rainbow babies’ after their parents’ painful series of miscarriages, are the center of attention in the family. But the bride-to-be and her fiancé consider their pets as family members too, and their decision has sparked quite the debate.
The Rainbow Babies’ Background

Family’s Obsession with the Twins

Wedding Planning Begins

Furry Friends as Wedding Party Members

Pets’ Emotional Significance ❤️

Fiancé’s Support for the Idea

SIL’s Disapproval

SIL’s Argument ️

Tradition vs. Personal Choice

Bride-to-Be’s Response

Fiancé’s Opinion

Couple’s Preference

Second Thoughts?

Seeking Opinions

Furry Friends vs. Miracle Babies: Who Will Win the Wedding Roles?
This bride-to-be is caught in a family dilemma as she and her fiancé have chosen their beloved pets as the flower girl and ring bearer for their wedding. Their decision has ruffled some feathers, as her family believes the roles should go to her niece and nephew, the ‘rainbow babies’ who hold a special place in the family’s heart. The couple feels a strong emotional connection to their pets, but are now questioning if their choice will offend the family or go against tradition. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this furry predicament…
Pets vs. ‘Miracle Babies’: Who Should Be in the Wedding? ❤️

“NTA. Make it a day to remember. Don’t let people second guess you. “
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Consider if your pets will enjoy the experience or find it stressful

Bride chooses pets over niece and nephew for wedding roles

“NTA. How did she ‘just happen’ to have a photo of Ava in a flower girl dress? And why them over the other grandchildren? You know if you let them, the wedding will be all about them and not you and your fiance. But how are you planning on getting a cat to go down the aisle?”

Pets at wedding: NTA for excluding niece/nephew, but consider stress.

NTA for excluding kids from wedding; stick to your decision!

Engaging caption: NTA. Your wedding, your choice. Family drama? Fur babies unite!

Consider your pets’ comfort and include your niece and nephew.

NTA. Celebrate your relationship and do whatever quirkiness you like!
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SIL wants kids in wedding? Tell her to renew vows!

Commenter supports bride’s choice and asks about ring delivery.

NTA. Disliking the term ‘rainbow baby’ and addressing entitled parents.

NTA, SIL overreacts. Kids might not enjoy, playing ‘rainbow baby’ card.

Wedding, your choice!

Your wedding, your rules! Don’t let others dictate your choices!

Choose your own wedding roles! Don’t let anyone guilt you!
