Weddings are supposed to be a time of joy and celebration, right? Well, not always! One bride-to-be is causing quite the stir by insisting that her brother’s husband must apologize to her and her fiancé before he can attend their wedding. The reason? She believes her brother-in-law is being ‘heterophobic’ towards her and her soon-to-be hubby. ❤️ Let’s dive into this dramatic tale and see if we can figure out who’s in the wrong here.
The Straight Couple’s Struggle
Brother’s Husband’s True Colors?
The Shocking Accusations
Comparing Fiancé and Ex
The Aftermath ️
Family’s Reaction
Brother’s Ultimatum
The Final Word
A Wedding Ultimatum: Apologize or Stay Home!
This bride-to-be is standing her ground, demanding an apology from her brother’s husband for his drunken, heterophobic remarks. Despite her family’s pleas to let it go, she’s not backing down. Will her brother’s husband apologize, or will this wedding be missing some key family members? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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NTA. Your wedding, your rules. Heart-to-heart with BIL suggested
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Bride-to-be’s decision is biphobic, not heterophobic. Preach!
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Set boundaries and cut out toxic family members.
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A powerful message on inclusivity and boundaries.
Supportive comment receives no replies. Keep fighting, NTA!
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Respect is key, NTA. Sexuality is a red herring.
Support for not inviting brother’s husband due to past behavior.
Wedding day happiness matters, apology owed. #NTA
Bride-to-be considers banning brother from wedding over husband’s drinking.
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Bi erasure and a**hole behavior. NTA wins.
Commenter points out potential wedding trigger, OP values brother’s relationship.
Homophobia isn’t a tribe or ethnic group ♂️
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Stand firm and enjoy your special day without drama
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Play it safe and cut him out of the wedding
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Apologize for drunk words, not for being excluded from wedding
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Accepting only supportive guests is reasonable
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Defending against bi-phobia and insults towards fiancé. NTA
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Stand up for yourself and your community!
Supportive commenter defends bride-to-be’s decision to ban brother’s husband.
Supportive gay man advises bride-to-be to stand up for herself.
Cutting toxic people out of your life is self-care
Supportive gay commenter encourages bride-to-be to stand up for herself.
Bride’s brother-in-law is biphobic and wants her to pick sides ♀️
Standing up to biphobia, but is the brother being fair?
