Weddings can be a time of joy and celebration, but they can also bring out the worst in people. One bride-to-be tried to extend an olive branch to her future mother-in-law (MIL) by inviting her to a lingerie shower, but things took a turn for the worse. The MIL’s shocking behavior has left the bride questioning whether she should even be invited to the wedding.
Olive Branch Extended ️
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MIL’s Backup and Body Shaming
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Size Matters to MIL
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Insecurity and Wedding Dress Shopping
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The Lingerie Shower Gifts
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MIL Gets Kicked Out
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Fiancé Loses His Temper
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MIL’s Giggles and Half-Hearted Apology
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Wedding Invitation on the Line
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Change or Miss the Wedding ⚠️
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Proud of Herself
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Bride’s Stand Against MIL’s Behavior
After the bride-to-be’s lingerie shower was ruined by her MIL’s outrageous gifts, she took a stand against the woman’s behavior. Despite feeling proud of herself for standing up to her future mother-in-law, she later discovered that her actions had angered the woman’s husband, who now doesn’t want to attend the wedding. With emotions running high and relationships on the line, will the bride’s stand lead to a change in her MIL’s behavior, or will it only cause more heartache? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Double win for the bride, kicking out toxic in-laws

Bride stands up to MIL’s condescending behavior over lingerie gift.

Sassy comment suggests sending used panties to FIL

User agrees with bride, expresses disgust over used panties, advises setting boundaries.

MIL’s husband not even related, NTA, invite someone who cares

User finds lingerie party concept weird and strange.

Fiancé and mom agree: MIL is the a**hole. NTA.

Lingerie shower gone wrong, MIL invited, gifts were raunchy. ESH.

MIL’s condescending behavior leads to uninvitation. NTA wins.

Curious commenter asks about lingerie shower tradition
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Giving a ripped nightie and used panties is disgusting! NTA

Cutting off toxic MIL = less drama

NTA commenter calls out bride’s behavior as ‘trashy’

MIL’s behavior was gross and uncalled for. NTA wins.

Is inviting parents to a lingerie shower tacky? ESH thinks so ♀️

Lingerie shower with MIL? No thanks, major cringe

Curious commenter discovers new bridal shower trend.

Is a ripped nightie an appropriate gift for a lingerie shower?

Wedding gift overload? Commenter questions lingerie shower tradition

Bridezilla’s MIL disrespects her, gives used lingerie, and behaves badly. TA.

Respect is earned, not unconditionally deserved. NTA

Fiance’s support shows MIL is in the wrong

Wedding drama: cutting off MIL or hoping for reconciliation?

Confusion over lingerie shower leads to family drama. ESH.

Standing up to fat-shaming MIL, NTA wins this round

Set boundaries before the wedding or MIL will ruin it

Stand firm and play b****h games, win b****h prizes.

MIL drama at a lingerie shower: NTA uninvite her ♀️

Setting boundaries with MIL over lingerie shower, commenter supports OP.

Beware of the monster-in-law and consider uninviting her

NTA. Have a backup plan for MIL’s antics. Ask fiancé for past experiences.

Redditors suspect OP posted similar story before, deja vu anyone?

Body shaming bridezilla gets put in her place.

NTA shuts down MIL in a fiery comment

Wedding day is about you. Derailers not invited. Gross behavior.

Father-in-law’s fury brings support for bride-to-be. All the best!

Fiance’s mother acted inappropriately at lingerie shower. NTA for uninviting.

Uninviting MIL from wedding over lingerie shower drama. NTA ♀️

Set severe boundaries with MIL, kick her out of wedding
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No invite for toxic in-laws, glad fiancee has your back

Wedding invitee’s cruel behavior warrants no-contact until maturity

Bridezilla or justified? Commenter supports bride’s decision to uninvite MIL.

MIL’s ‘jokes’ not so funny. Better off without her at wedding

Lingerie shower with MIL? NTA, but awkward. Uninvite MIL.
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User defends bride, calls MIL a ‘warped and despicable creature’

Awkward lingerie invite to MIL, commenter asks the obvious question

Lingerie party with MIL? NTA, it’s a crazy Oedipal nightmare

Awkward lingerie shower invite leads to MIL drama ♀️

MIL drama at a lingerie shower. NTA for uninviting her.

Husband bails on MIL drama. Trash took itself out

MIL’s inappropriate behavior could ruin the wedding. NTA.

Wedding drama leads to uninviting family member. NTA wins.

Cutting toxic family members? NTA but proceed with caution

User applauds bride for standing up to MIL’s inappropriate gift.

Is the MIL troll real? NTA if not. Slow clap if yes.

Uninvite them both and leave that sh*t on the doorstep

Supportive comment, encouraging bride to uninvite MIL from wedding

User questions if MIL apologized enough to avoid uninvitation

Regift or buy a muumuu? NTA strikes again!

NTA commenter suggests throwing panties at immature MIL

Cutting toxic people out of your life is always the solution #NTA

NTA. Recording calls for evidence is a smart move

Support for calling out MIL’s behavior and uninviting her from wedding
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Supportive comment calls MIL a ‘toxic waste of skin’
