Bride Forgets Babysitter for BFF’s Kids: Wedding Disaster or Honest Mistake?

Picture this: you’re the Maid of Honor at your best friend’s destination wedding, and she insists that your kids be the ring bearers. You agree, trusting her to find a babysitter for the reception. But when the big day comes, she forgets, leaving you and your husband to deal with the consequences. This is the unfortunate story of one woman who found herself in a tough spot during her best friend’s wedding. After the event, the bride asked for her honest opinion, and she let it all out. But was she wrong for telling the truth? Read on to find out!

Destination Wedding Dilemma ️

Kids as Ring Bearers?

Babysitter Promises

Wedding Stress

Babysitter Blunder

Husband to the Rescue ‍♂️

Lonely Reception

Bride’s Response

Third-Wheeling Woes ‍♀️

Bridesmaids’ Support

Financial Guilt Trips?

Coffee and Confessions ☕

Honesty Hurts

Guilt Trip Accusations

Bride’s Reaction

Bridesmaids Turn

The Aftermath: Was She Wrong for Being Honest? ‍♀️

After spilling her heart out to her best friend, the bride ended up in tears, feeling worthless and like a horrible friend. The rest of the bridesmaids, who initially supported her, changed their tune and now believe she should have kept her feelings to herself. Was she wrong for telling the truth, or should she have just let it go? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

Bridezilla or honest mistake? Commenter says NTA.

Bride’s manipulative apology earns NTA judgment from commenter.

Bride’s friend gives honest feedback, advises apologies for lasting friendships

Honesty is the best policy, even for weddings.

Bridesmaid rightfully upset after bride forgets babysitter promise. NTA

Friend’s apology seems insincere, don’t buy into manipulation tactics.

Friend forgets babysitter, gets defensive when called out. NTA.

NTA stands her ground against emotional manipulation.

Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts

Bridesmaid uses guilt as a tool, but OP is NTA.

Honesty isn’t always the best policy, but NTA in this case

Wedding expenses and childcare caused a rift between friends. NTA.

Friend asks for honesty, can’t handle it. ‍♀️

Toxic friendships are not worth it. You’re NTA, move on.

Honesty hurts: NTA commenter calls out manipulative friend

Honesty is the best policy – NTA for telling the truth

NTA for not staying at the reception, friend failed to arrange babysitter

Bride defends herself, but is asking for wedding reviews normal?

Conspiracy theory or valid point?

Bridesmaid speaks out, betrays friends’ confidence, and causes awkward situation.

Calling out manipulative behavior. NTA wins the day.

Friend accused of toxic behavior and manipulation.

Wedding was a bore, NTA but bride is full of herself

Friend tries to guilt trip OP for calling her a bad friend.

Ouch! Harsh self-criticism with no defense from commenters.

Friend asks for honest opinion, can’t handle the truth.

OP’s friend group seems toxic and unsupportive.

Honesty is the best policy!

Friend tries to manipulate after being called out for bad behavior

Friend plays victim to manipulate, OP NTA for calling out.

Bride treats kids like performer monkeys, NTA for calling out

Honesty hurts: Commenter calls out bride’s mistake and insincerity

Friend guilt trips and bride manipulates, everyone’s an a-hole. ‍♀️

Weddings are overrated and this commenter is not holding back

NTA. Honest opinion given, hope she learns from it. Eff em.

Friend breaks promise, commenter calls entitled brat, former BFF

Friend uses DARVO tactic, but commenter is in the right.

Bridezilla alert! Commenter calls out selfish bride.

Honesty is the best policy, but can it cost friendships?

Supportive comment calling out bride’s behavior and suggesting distancing.

When your friends don’t have your back

Destination weddings can be expensive and stressful for guests. NTA.

Friend forgets babysitter, uses kids as props. NTA calls out guilt-trip.

Friend asks for honesty, can’t handle it. NTA

Honesty is the best policy. NTA stands firm.

Being a good friend doesn’t mean being a doormat

Friendship dynamics and AH behavior in bridesmaid drama.

Honesty is the best policy. NTA for giving truthful feedback

Bride’s lack of apology raises red flags for commenter.

NTA commenter defends bride’s honest mistake and advises against resentment.

NTA tells spineless bridesmaids to suck it up.

Friendzilla: Manipulative bride causes financial distress for her friends. NTA.

NTA, honesty is key. Water works and insults are manipulative

Honesty isn’t always the best policy ‍♀️

Bride criticized for forgetting babysitter, commenter defends her (NTA)

Bridezilla called out for selfishness, denies being a bad friend

Weddings can be awful, destination weddings are the worst. NTA.

Friend promised sitter, bride disrespected guests. NTA.

Friendship over? Commenter advises finding new friends

Honesty hurts: NTA asked for truth, not absolution

Bridezilla forgets babysitter promise, friend calls her out. NTA.

No sugarcoating: commenter says bride is emotionally immature

Friendship red flags: Exhausting, manipulative ‘best friend’

Standing up for what’s right!

NTA comment: Honest critique of self-centered bride’s destination wedding.

Bride puts friend in tough spot, is friendship worth saving?

Friend flakes on babysitting, gets called out for it

Friendship warning: Beware of manipulative guilt-trippers.

Honesty is the best policy, even with best friends!

Best friend got everything she wanted but still blames OP?

Friend asked for honesty, played victim when given. NTA

Toxic friend tries to manipulate, but commenter sees through it