Picture this: you’re in a relationship, and you’ve been dating for over a year. You trust each other, and you’re even living together. Then, one day, you decide to discuss finances, and you reveal that you won some money 15 years ago, which helped you purchase your home and get through nursing school. But instead of being happy for you, your partner accuses you of deception and becomes a gold digger! If you think this sounds like a nightmare, you’re not alone. Read on to see how this unfortunate situation unfolded…
The Mysterious Money Win
Moving In Together
Financial Discussions
Lucky Timing
Confusion
Trust Issues
Deception?
Red Flags
Savings Talk
Birthday Present?
Backup Plan
Jealousy
Wasted Money?
Risk Averse
Crazy Rant
Disgusted
House Misconceptions
Anger and Delusion
When Love Turns to Gold Digging
Our unlucky-in-love protagonist (35f) and her boyfriend (35m) were discussing finances when she revealed that she had won some money back in 2009, which helped her buy her house and put herself through nursing school. Instead of being supportive, her boyfriend accused her of deceiving him, saying she led him to believe she was more business savvy than she was. The situation took a turn for the worse when he started asking about her savings and even hinted that she should buy him an expensive car for his birthday. Realizing that he was a gold digger, she decided to break up with him. But the drama didn’t end there! He went on jealous rants, claiming he could have tripled the money she won and that she was wasting it by not investing in high-risk stocks. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this wild situation…
Partner’s jealousy and insecurity over girlfriend’s financial stability. NTA
NTA. Are financial red flags signaling a gold digger?
Protect your assets! NTA. Kick him to the curb.
Stand up for yourself, you deserve better! NTA.
Partner’s insecurity over girlfriend’s success threatens relationship
Girlfriend’s boyfriend has multiple red flags . NTA.
Financially responsible nurse wins money and boyfriend can’t handle it ♀️
Questioning boyfriend’s motives and character, NTA verdict.
NTA. Boyfriend blaming her for his own assumptions about her wealth ♀️
Dump him. You deserve better than a delusional, ungrateful taker. ♀️
Girlfriend accused of deception over finances, but commenter says NTA
Boyfriend explodes when he finds out girlfriend has money NTA, but she needs to get out safely
Winning money doesn’t mean losing privacy or independence. NTA
NTA. Boyfriend projecting & overreacting to financially savvy decisions.
Beware of those selling courses on getting rich
Girlfriend not at fault, leave toxic partner
Girlfriend’s financial stability questioned by small, audacious boyfriend
Cut him loose . NTA, betrayal was him expecting wealth.
Dating for only 1.5 years, no big obligation owed
Savvy investor accused of deception by jealous boyfriend
Girlfriend not at fault for boyfriend’s assumptions about her finances
NTA defends against boyfriend’s financial stability accusations
Boyfriend upset girlfriend isn’t as wealthy as he thought
Trust issues? Boyfriend should pack up and leave
Protect yourself and kick him out. NTA
Certified hobosexual? Lucky escape! NTA
Supportive comment calling out gaslighting boyfriend.
Protect your assets and reconsider the relationship. NTA
Girlfriend called out boyfriend’s immaturity and needs to leave him
Protect yourself and leave. Red flags everywhere
NTA, boyfriend disappointed at not being able to buy expensive cars
Don’t let him dull your shine , keep shining bright!
Encouraging advice to leave toxic relationship,
NTA defends herself against insulting BF
Dump him before he dumps you and takes half
NTA for being financially smart and boyfriend’s jealousy is sad
Girlfriend accused of deception over financial stability, but not guilty.
RN defends OP’s financial decisions, warns of boyfriend’s intentions
Supportive comment urges breakup and safety measures.
Investing in high yielding stocks instead of car for bf
Sassy reply questions boyfriend’s financial savviness
A commenter shares a wild story about a couple at a music festival and supports the poster for leaving her financially abusive boyfriend.
NTA! Dump this b*m and move on
Boyfriend accused girlfriend of deception over wealth. NTA.
Dump him! NTA for seeing through his intentions.
Financial stability is a blessing, don’t let it ruin relationships
OP’s boyfriend seems to be a gold digger ♀️
Partner can’t handle reality of working for a living
Girlfriend accused of deception over financial stability, but she’s NTA
Don’t let his insecurity sabotage your happiness
Defending financial choices and questioning double standards
A financial disaster of a boyfriend accusing girlfriend of deception
Questioning boyfriend’s financial stability while advising the poster to leave.
Red flags and deception – time to dump him!
Consult an attorney for tenant rights and take precautions to stay safe
User shares personal story and advises to leave boyfriend
Don’t let anyone devalue your financial independence and stability.
Beware of partners who make unrealistic financial promises
NTA – Boyfriend wants to mooch off you. Kick him out!
Praise for OP’s financial savviness and dumping dead weight
NTA. The boyfriend’s behavior is a red flag . Glad OP is leaving.
Financially savvy girlfriend proves she’s better off without boyfriend.
Girlfriend gets support after breakup with financial stability obsessed boyfriend
Girlfriend advised to leave controlling boyfriend
Hilarious response to a boyfriend’s financial deception
NTA, gold digger BF needs to be kicked out ASAP
Don’t let assumptions ruin a good relationship. NTA
Protect your finances and run from the gold digger
Privacy matters, trust issues maybe?
Suggesting illegal eviction? That’s not a good idea
Protect your assets and run away from this controlling guy
Sarcastic remark highlights boyfriend’s lack of credibility in finance.
Dumping an obnoxious bag of gas . Congrats on being savvy NTA!
Last Updated on February 28, 2024 by Diply Social Team