Birthdays are supposed to be a time of celebration, but for one 19-year-old, it’s become a dreaded event. Every year, her mom insists on playing a video during her birthday party, but it’s not just any video – it’s a clip of her younger sister ruining her 11th birthday. Despite her pleas to stop the tradition, her mom continues to play the video, leading to an explosive confrontation at her most recent party.
Birthday Girl’s Simple Request
The Infamous Video
An Unfair Tradition
The Tantrum That Never Ends
A Joke That’s Gone Stale
An Ultimatum Issued
The Broken Promise
The Dramatic Exit ♀️
Sister’s Pride in the Video
The Aftermath
Mom Wants an Apology
Sister’s Attitude Unchanged ♀️
The Verdict: Was She Justified in Walking Out?
After years of enduring the same embarrassing video at her birthday parties, this 19-year-old finally reached her breaking point. She warned her mom not to play the video, but when her mom broke the promise, she made a dramatic exit. Now, she’s being called ungrateful and dramatic, while her mom demands an apology. Was she justified in walking out, or should she have just dealt with it? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
OP warned her mom not to play the video, but she did anyway. NTA
NTA. OP’s sister ruined her birthday and filmed it for fun
NTA sets boundaries for birthday party, leaves when they’re crossed
Take control of your birthday and set boundaries with family
NTA, setting boundaries with intrusive parents on birthdays is important.
Standing up for yourself at your own birthday party
NTA for feeling upset about sister’s past behavior and current attention-seeking
Setting boundaries is important. NTA for standing up for yourself
Seven years of unfulfilled promises? Definitely NTA
Respectful NTA comment suggests birthday girl should skip inviting you next year
Standing up for yourself: NTA comment gets support.
Asserting boundaries on your birthday is important . Mom owes apology.
Setting boundaries is important. NTA for enforcing them
Destroying the video might be a nuclear option, but worth it
Stand your ground! Don’t let bullies make you feel guilty
Disrespectful birthday girl could ruin future events
Setting boundaries and following through: NTA
Breaking tradition: NTA walks out of own birthday party
Mother and sister broke promise, NTA, toss cake on sister
Witnesses prove NTA, but what’s wrong with the party guests?
Respectful NTA stands up for sister’s birthday wish
Sister ignores preference, birthday girl walks out. NTA wins.
Stand your ground and show her your resolve!
Commenter defends birthday girl, throws shade at her mom
Take back your day and set boundaries. You deserve it!
Mother and sister TA, commenter NTA. Birthday video hurtful
Setting boundaries and following through: NTA for walking out
OP sets boundaries, enacts power move by leaving. NTA.
Birthday girl walks out on party due to overplayed song
Embarrassing video ruins birthday party, commenter suggests drastic solution
Setting boundaries is important, NTA.
NTA, but under pressure. Stand up to Mom and be proud
Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself, NTA
Commenter supports OP’s decision with strong language
OP not in the wrong for asking about video backup
Respectful NTA comment calls out family’s humiliating birthday tradition
Birthday girl stands up to family’s disrespect, NTA
Standing up to toxic family dynamics
Creative solution proposed to diffuse family tension
Celebrate your birthday your way, make new family with friends
Savage NTA comment shuts down sister’s birthday song suggestion
Sibling rivalry and parenting choices spark fiery comment
NTA stands their ground after being humiliated at their own party
Sister plays unwanted music at party, NTA walks out
Mom’s bad parenting on display: NTA stands up for herself
Supportive reply to comment about a funny video gift
Don’t blame the victim for reacting to intentional provocation
Setting boundaries with family is tough, but NTA. Stick to them
Savage comment shuts down childish family drama
Setting boundaries and consequences. NTA wins this game.
Destroy the evidence! NTA comment suggests drastic measures
Setting boundaries and sticking to them. NTA
Setting boundaries with a narcissistic parent is tough . Therapy can help.
Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is healthy. Don’t apologize.
Birthday girl stands up for herself and keeps her promise
Taking charge of your emotions and standing up to bullying
Daughter walks out of party after mom breaks agreement
Slightly petty but satisfying revenge plan for broken promises
No party, no video, no apologies
Birthday girl ignored warning, gets what she deserves.
Defending yourself and deleting the video
Keeping promises is important, NTA for sticking to yours
Toxic family dynamics ruining birthdays . Cut them off ♀️
Breaking promises is not funny. NTA stands up for self.
When it comes to jokes, it’s all about consent.
Celebrate your birthday with loved ones who truly care
Mom ignored reasonable request, became AH according to comment.
Enforce your boundaries, NTA!
Setting boundaries and sticking to them. NTA
Sibling favoritism and a ruined birthday party
Friend breaks promise, commenter advises to prioritize own wishes
Last Updated on June 4, 2023 by Diply Social Team