Imagine planning a fun night out on your 19th birthday, only to have your mom ask you to leave the house so she can have her man over for a steamy night. That’s exactly what happened to one young woman, who was understandably upset by her mom’s request. The birthday girl wanted to come home and sleep in her own bed after a night of celebrating, but her mom had other plans. Let’s dive into this bizarre and uncomfortable situation.
Birthday Plans

Mom’s Request

Staying Firm

Mom’s Persistence

Not My Problem ♀️

Mom’s Threat

Uncomfortable History

Home Sweet Home

The Ongoing Battle

Understanding, but…

Some Clarifications

Legal Drinking Age

Moving Out Plans

Working and Studying

The Boyfriend’s Situation ️

Mom vs. Birthday Girl: The Showdown
This young woman’s 19th birthday plans were thrown into chaos when her mom asked her to leave the house so she could have a romantic night with her boyfriend. The birthday girl stood her ground, insisting she wanted to sleep in her own bed after a night of celebrating. Despite her mom’s persistence and even threats to be loud and disruptive, our heroine remained firm in her decision. Ultimately, she decided to stay elsewhere but still feels her mom was in the wrong for making the request in the first place. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this awkward and dramatic situation…
NTA for not wanting to hear mom’s loud sex on birthday

NTA. Mom prioritizes herself on your birthday

“NTA- this was my childhood too. I came home on my 18th birthday to hearing my mother having sex with her husband. I turned around and sat in our backyard crying for hours because of how I couldn’t even feel comfortable in my own home and on my birthday nonetheless. It was like 6pm in the afternoon and they were in the living room. It’s insane to me to make your children feel uncomfortable in their own home. After that I planned my escape. I moved 900+ miles away a decade ago and I’ve never returned nor will I return to their home.”
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“NTA I would be traumatized if one of my parents said this to me. Some things need to be kept private for one. I would have asked if the guy has his own place? If he doesn’t I’d question that too. Assuming he’s the same age as your mom he should have a place too.”

NTA: Mom’s steamy night on daughter’s birthday, kids have definitely heard

NTA. Mom needs a cheaper motel or boyfriend needs his own place.

Single dad empathizes with OP’s mom’s inappropriate behavior

Mom wants loud sex, threatens to be louder if resisted.

NTA. Mom prioritizes steamy night over daughter’s birthday. Inconsiderate and rude.

NTA and disturbed at the Y T As.

Mom’s steamy night traumatizes child, NTA for being upset
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NTA: Mom’s double standard and dangerous behavior is unacceptable

NTA. Spot the American: mocking comments about 18-year olds moving out.

Disturbing comment about mom’s behavior sparks outrage and disgust

Hail for the petty queen

“It’s not okay for your mom to ‘exile’ you ON YOUR BIRTHDAY just to have sex, this is a quite inconsiderate. She has been doing this since you were young? That’s totally messed up. Plus the fact that the man she is banging would probably have his own place, why can’t she go there? NTA”

19yo hears mom having sex since 10, definitely NTA

Parents charging rent? Americans are weird af

Mom’s wild behavior leaves 19-year-old searching for independence
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NTA. Mom’s house, but exiling on your birthday?

NTA, but Mom should communicate her plans better
