Imagine working hard to buy your younger sibling the perfect birthday gift, only to be accused of being selfish and cruel. That’s exactly what happened to one dedicated sister who decided to go above and beyond for her brother’s 13th birthday. But as the saying goes, no good deed goes unpunished.
The Perfect Birthday Gift?
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The Financial Breakdown
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A Change of Heart
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A Surprise Gift
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A New Plan
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The PC Arrives!
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Mum’s Reaction
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The Unexpected Gift
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The Gift Swap Proposal
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The Gift Givers
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The Accusation
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The Dilemma
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A Birthday Gift, a Gaming PC, and a Family Feud
In a classic tale of sibling love and parental politics, one sister finds herself in a family feud over a gaming PC. After working extra hours to afford the perfect gift for her brother’s 13th birthday, she’s accused of being selfish and cruel. Her mum, who had originally agreed to split the cost, backed out and bought a hoodie and jeans instead. Now, she wants to swap gifts and take credit for the PC. The sister, however, insists it’s a joint gift from her and their dad. But with accusations flying and emotions running high, it’s clear this birthday gift is more than just a game.
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