Ever planned a trip to visit a friend and their newborn, only for things to go spectacularly wrong? This is the story of a woman who flew four hours to meet her BFF’s baby, only to be caught in a whirlwind of miscommunication, accusations and hurt feelings. Let’s dive into this dramatic tale of friendship, motherhood, and the boundaries that sometimes get blurred in between.
The Arrival: A Sore Throat and a Newborn Baby
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Day 2: The Miscommunication Begins
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The Awkward Visit with the Boyfriend
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Day 3: The Accusation of Waking the Baby
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The Misunderstanding Escalates ️
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Day 4: The Request for Boundaries
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The Unexpected Text and a Glimmer of Hope
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Day 5: The Accusation of Partying Without Her
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The Confusion and Hurt Feelings
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Day 6: The Final Call and Accusations Fly
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The Aftermath: A Friendship on the Rocks
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The Unraveled Friendship: A Tale of Misunderstandings and Broken Trust
In an emotional rollercoaster of a visit, our protagonist found herself caught in a web of miscommunication, accusations, and hurt feelings. From waking up with a sore throat and being accused of waking the baby, to being called obsessive and jealous, the visit was far from the joyful reunion she had anticipated. Despite her best efforts to mend the situation, she was left confused and hurt, with a friendship hanging by a thread. Let’s see how the internet reacts to this dramatic saga of friendship, motherhood, and crossed boundaries.
NTA. Friend’s new mom behavior is insufferable. OP was more flexible than a gymnast at an orgy. ♀️

NTA: Give her space, let her apologize for her behavior

NTA. BFF drama: Baby visit gone wrong!

Is she suffering from postpartum depression? NTA

A self-centered drama queen ghosted OP after spending money to visit her and her child. NTA.

Friend flakes on planned visit. NTA, reconsider the friendship.

NTA. Supportive friend suggests postpartum mood disorders, receives gratitude.

NTA. With friends like that, who needs enemies?

Concerned about friend’s behavior, but facing accusations of stalking.

Ashleigh: Not a friend, but many other things!
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NTA. OP, is this really a close friend?

NTA: New mom’s irrational anger at BFF’s visit gone wrong!

NTA: Friend’s manipulative mind games and contradictions crossed the line.

Friendship is a two way street. You tried your best

NTA – She wasn’t being reasonable even if she’s just a baby

NTA – Concerned friend seeks help for friend’s mental health

Friend turned away visit, maybe it’s better to move on.

NTA. She kept delaying your visit, then got mad at you for having fun?

WTF? I would have quit trying way before you. NTA!

NTA. Friend didn’t respect your time and effort to visit.

Understanding the possible impact of postpartum depression on Ashleigh.

Best friend drama: Enemies would be even worse!

“NTA – She seemed to avoid you. Maybe postpartum depression?”

Friend’s selfishness and insensitivity leads to strained relationship.

NTA. Drama-seeking friend leaves OP hanging. Exhausting and attention-seeking.

Friend’s hormonal outburst causes drama. You’re NTA!

Unconscious drama and unmet expectations can strain relationships.

Manipulative friend ruins baby visit, cut ties and move on!

NTA, take a break and demand an apology!

Friendship on the rocks: NTA dealing with a nightmare friend

Friend flip flops on plans, leaving OP confused and frustrated.

Friend cancels plans, expects flexibility, and flips out. NTA.

Mixed signals and blow-ups: NTA for not wanting to visit!

Dealing with baby visit insanity like a true saint!

NTA. Over-the-top guilt trip for not meeting friend’s baby.

Cut toxic friends out of your life.
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Concerned about friend’s behavior, possible PPD. NTA.

NTA, but concerned about possible postpartum psychosis.

Ashleigh drama: NTA, block her and move on!

Friendship fallout: Unreasonable, rude, and no great loss.
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Standing up for yourself against a toxic friend.

Toxic friend avoids new mom, NTA for cutting ties

NTA, you tried. She wasted your time and money.

Block her! She’s not your friend and she’s completely unreasonable.

Concerned about friend’s mental health, suggest postpartum psychosis resources.

Insane cry for help? NTA sparks intense debate!

NTA: The demented game of BFF drama and trashy treatment.

Setting boundaries with a pushy friend. No more unprepared visits!

Let her go, she’s going through a rough time

Delayed flight for a baby meetup that never happened? NTA!

Cut ties. She’s been mistreating you for a while.

NTA. Toxic friend test failed. Cut ties and move on.

Supportive friend tries to navigate delicate situation with new mom.

Cut ties with ASHLEIGH- she’s unreliable and disrespectful.

Cut ties with the manipulative and unstable friend. NTA!

No apology needed! Time for a sincere friend or none!

Ashleigh’s unacceptable behavior towards you makes you NTA!

Friend’s odd behavior raises concerns about mental health. NTA.
