What would you do if your best friend ditched the skydiving birthday plans you made for her, just to cover a shift for her crush at work? This is the dilemma faced by a woman who had planned a perfect day for her best friend Lucy’s 18th birthday, only for Lucy to bail at the last minute. The day was meant to include coffee, skydiving, dinner at Lucy’s favorite restaurant, and a night at a hotel downtown. The plans were made months in advance, and everyone was on board… until Lucy’s crush asked her to switch shifts with him. ♀️
Lucy’s Dream Birthday Plan
The Perfect Day Planned
Coffee, Skydiving, Dinner, and Hotel
Lucy’s Shift Switch Dilemma
Rescheduling? Not an Option! ⛔
Refund? Nope!
What Now? ♀️
Lucy Plays the Victim
Birthday Girl’s Choice
Crush Over Friends?
Skydiving Plans Grounded by a Crush
Despite months of planning and hundreds of dollars spent, Lucy’s 18th birthday plans are now up in the air as she chooses to switch shifts with her crush instead of going skydiving with her best friends. Her friends are left to decide whether to go on without her or cancel the non-refundable plans. Lucy’s choice has left everyone questioning her priorities and wondering if a crush is worth sacrificing long-lasting friendships. ♀️ Let’s see what people think about this heart-wrenching situation…
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