Picture this: it’s Friday, and your coworkers are planning to hit the bar after work. You don’t enjoy drinking or hanging out with them, so you come up with a white lie to get out of it. You tell them you’re two years sober, and suddenly, you’re in the middle of a heated debate. Is it a harmless fib or an insensitive appropriation of a term that means a lot to those in recovery? Let’s dive into this juicy story.
The White Lie Strategy
Dodging the Drinking Scene
The Sober Card: A Foolproof Excuse?
Busted!
Confession Time
Accusations Fly!
Defense Mode Activated ️
The Big Question
Edit: Gratitude and Reflection
A New Approach
Supporting a Fellow Coworker
Mixed Reactions
The Great Sober Debate: Harmless or Hurtful? ❌
Our protagonist found themselves in a pickle after using the term ‘sober’ to avoid after-work drinks with coworkers. But when a coworker who’s genuinely in recovery overheard, she accused them of insensitive appropriation. Now, our storyteller is left questioning whether their white lie was harmless or hurtful. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this controversial situation…
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