We all have that one family member who’s a bit of a wild card, but what happens when their antics go too far? One aunt (25F) found herself in a sticky situation when her nephew (10M) continued to wreak havoc on her belongings. After her brother accused her of favoritism, she decided to send him a list of all the items her nephew had destroyed over the years, along with the estimated cost. Was this a justified move, or did the aunt cross a line? ♀️
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A Ticking Time Bomb

A Villa and a Rose Garden

The Ultimatum: Both Kids or None

Accusations of Favoritism ♀️

The Audacity of Alex

The Damage Report

Car Mirror Casualty

Silent Treatment

Aunt’s Damage Report: Justified or Crossing the Line?
When her brother accused her of favoritism, this aunt decided to take matters into her own hands and send him a list of all the items her nephew had destroyed over the years, along with the estimated cost. From antique vases to car mirrors, the damage was extensive. Now, her brother is furious, and the two aren’t speaking. Was the aunt’s move justified, or did she cross a line? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this explosive family drama…
NTA: Brother’s destructive son, dad enabling, Aunt calls him out

Commenter defends OP’s decision to confront nephew’s destructive behavior.

NTA. Teaching consequences, not gender preference. Parents need to address behavior.

NTA
Alex questions OP’s list of destroyed items. OP defends.

Suggesting a solution: Have the parents be responsible with Michael

NTA: Honest response to a destructive nephew. Protect your belongings!

10-year-old’s destructive behavior: cry for help or normal mischief?

He asked for it

He asked. He found out.

“NTA: Setting boundaries with destructive nephew, respecting child-free lifestyle.”

NTA. Honest response to destructive nephew, but bigger issue ignored

Send bills for damages? Genius move!

NTA: Brother’s angel needs testing. Is he just acting out?
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NTA: OP’s wife’s things were mostly on the list.

Concerned about nephew’s destructive behavior, questioning brother’s influence.

NTA: Aunt demands payment for nephew’s destructive behavior. Fair or not?

NTA: He asked and got a list
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NTA: Kid misbehaves, no villa trips for him!

NTA: Brother mad he lost argument

Curious about the estimated total loss for damaged items? NTA

NTA: Teaching manners is important, not just ‘boys will be boys’

NTA: Parents failing both kids by not addressing behavior issues

NTA. Brother needs to address nephew’s behavior and be accountable.

Kid needs therapy ASAP! NTA for setting boundaries.

NTA – Protecting your property from destructive nephew

Nephew’s behavior blamed on immature father. NTA!
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