Adopted Woman Finds Biological Sisters, But Refuses to Meet Parents

Imagine finding out you have four full sisters after taking a DNA test, and then learning the bitter truth about your biological parents. That’s exactly what happened to a 30-year-old Chinese woman who was adopted from Mainland China and grew up in the UK. After connecting with her sisters, she discovered that their parents had abandoned them all in search of a son. Now, the sisters want to meet their long-lost brother and parents, but our protagonist is having none of it.

The DNA Test Discovery

Four Sisters Found!

Connecting with Sisters

Her True Family ❤️

A Bitter Birth Story

The Abandoned Girls

A New Family Member Appears

The Parents’ Motive?

A United Front? ✈️

Unreasonable or Justified?

Bitter Feelings

To Meet or Not to Meet: The Family Dilemma

Our protagonist found her biological sisters through a DNA test, but the discovery of their shared past has left her bitter. Their parents abandoned them, seemingly in pursuit of a son. Now, with the sisters excited to meet their long-lost brother and parents, our protagonist is torn. While she’s open to meeting her brother, she refuses to meet the parents who abandoned them. Her sisters feel she’s being unreasonable, but is she? As the emotions run high, the internet weighs in on this heart-wrenching family dilemma.

Respectful decision to not meet bio family. NTA

Finding biological family can be complicated and emotional

Adopted person shares regret after meeting biological family

Respectful NTA comment suggests setting boundaries before meeting biological parents.

NTA for not wanting to meet biological parents due to abandonment.

Adopted woman shares impact of China’s one-child policy and orphanages

NTA refuses to meet parents, suggests confronting them to heal.

NTA. Meet your brother, but f**k your bio parents

No obligation to meet biological parents. Family is who you love ❤️

NTA. Valid reasons not to meet parents who abandoned you.

NTA for not wanting to meet parents due to cultural abandonment

Heartwarming comment supporting the woman’s decision to not meet parents ❤️

Heartbreaking truth of abandoned children left to weather conditions

Abandoned sisters deserve better. Heartbreaking.

Sibling supports decision not to meet biological parents.

Adopted woman shares story and advice on meeting birth parents.

Biological parents abandoned her, NTA for not wanting to meet.

Heartbreaking story of abandonment and a strong woman’s resilience

Adoptee finds love in new family despite cultural gender preference

Respectful comment supports woman’s decision to not meet biological parents.

NTA for not wanting to meet biological parents who abandoned you

Respectful comment defends personal decision to refuse meeting biological parents.

Surviving abandonment under one child policy, NTA for refusing.

Respectful comment supports woman’s decision to not meet parents

Woman finds biological sisters but refuses to meet parents. NTA.

Survivor of sexist one-child policy cuts off biological parents. NTA

Curious commenter wonders about the marriage prospects in China

A shocking story of gender discrimination.

Choosing not to meet bio parents, NTA, great relationship with siblings

NTA. Biological parents are heartless and should be in jail

Woman refuses to meet parents who threw away 5 baby girls

Heartbreaking gender discrimination, but no obligation to meet parents.

Valid feelings. No need to meet bio parents for sisters’ sake

Adoptee sets boundaries with biological family, receives support from commenter.

Adopted woman refuses to meet parents who wanted a son

Adopted woman refuses to meet parents who discarded her. NTA

Adopted person shares personal experience and reasons for not meeting bio family

Biological parents abandoned daughters, NTA for not meeting them.

Respect her decision, but glad sisters can have a relationship

Valid feelings, but siblings have a right to meet.

Curious commenter asks about age of bio parents and possible reasons.

Supportive commenters validate woman’s decision to not meet biological parents

Biological sisters found, but NTA for not wanting to meet parents

Adopted woman chooses not to meet biological parents. NTA

Adoptee refuses to meet biological parents who abandoned her and siblings

Adopted woman finds sisters but refuses to meet abusive birth parents

NTA. Adoptee speculates on parents’ motives and sets boundaries with sisters.

NTA. Commenter explains cultural bias against girls in China.

Heartfelt support for adopted woman who found biological sisters. NTA.

Adopted woman refuses to meet bio parents, and commenters support.

Sisters’ views on gender bias questioned in adoption reunion.

Adopted woman sympathizes with NTA’s bitterness towards biological family

Adopted woman’s sister shares similar experience, explains cultural context.

NTA. It’s understandable to not want to meet your biological parents.

Supportive comment for adopted woman who found biological sisters

Supportive comment, condemning the parents with shocked emoji.

Choosing not to meet biological family, NTA. Your story, your choice.

NTA. Commenter praises OP for not meeting birth parents. Offers support.

Respectful advice on meeting biological parents, with supportive tone

Curious about bio parents’ reaction, NTA for not meeting them

Feeling bitter about being a product of cultural biases. #NTA

NTA. Emotional response understandable given abandonment. Complicated situation.

Adoptee finds siblings but refuses to meet parents. NTA

Setting boundaries after finding biological family. Supportive comment.

Reunited with sisters, but refuses to meet bio parents. NAH.

Adopted woman refuses to meet parents, but finds sisters. NAH.

NTA finds biological sisters but refuses to meet abusive parents

Sisters abandoned for being girls, NTA for refusing to meet parents

Validated for not wanting to meet bio parents. Don’t feel ashamed.

NTA. Your feelings are valid and your sisters should respect that

Adopted person supports OP’s decision to not meet birth parents