Imagine being adopted and having a great relationship with your parents, only to have them suddenly distance themselves from you as they try to have a biological child. That’s the heart-wrenching situation one young woman found herself in. When her parents, who had become distant, invited her over for dinner, she was thrilled. However, the dinner took a shocking turn when they asked her to carry one of their last embryos and help pay off her student loans in return.
The Adoption Story

Parents’ Desire for a Biological Child

Hurtful Word Choices

Doting Parents Turn Distant

The Shocking Dinner Request

Feeling Like an Incubator

Grandfather’s Passing

Grandma’s Generous Offer

Parents’ Apology and Plea

Family’s Mixed Reactions

The Moral Dilemma

The Emotional Rollercoaster
This heart-wrenching story has left many wondering if the young woman and her grandma are in the wrong for not helping the parents with their IVF treatments. While some family members believe she’s being too harsh, others may argue that her parents’ actions have been hurtful and insensitive. As the debate rages on, it’s clear that this family’s struggle is far from over. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotionally charged situation…
NTA: Parents’ selfish request and manipulation is completely unjustified
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Parents obsessed with IVF, neglected daughter, now using her as cashcow

NTA. Don’t let their reproductive issues become your financial burden.

NTA: Parents’ obsession with IVF, requested surrogate, mental breakdown. Move on.

NTA. Parents crossed boundaries, dangled loans, called you greedy

NTA, parents’ request is outta line. Grandma is the voice of reason

NTA for prioritizing existing relationship over parents’ IVF treatments

Adopted child’s nightmare: parents demand IVF funding. NTA!

“Consequences of their actions biting them in the a**. NTA!”

NTA. Your parents’ choice, not your responsibility.

Grandmother’s money, your choice. Set boundaries and secure your future

NTA, parents need therapy. They’re trashing your amazing relationship

Parents ask adopted daughter to carry their child ♀️

NTA. Wise decision. Your life, your choice.

NTA: Grandmother chose you over your hurtful parents. Create beauty

Supportive comment, family drama. Grandma’s got your back!

NTA. Parents asking for money for IVF is unfair and selfish.

Curious about the parents’ adoption story and the comment’s authenticity

Heartbreaking situation Family dynamics turned upside down

Heartbreaking situation. NTA. Keep the money and treat yourself

NTA. Parents being selfish and unrealistic in asking for surrogacy.

Supportive commenter defends adopted daughter’s decision.

NTA. Maintaining distance after their insensitive request is completely understandable.

NTA: Parents crossing boundaries and using you for IVF funding

NTA. Parents want money and expect you to fund IVF? Run!
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NTA: Parents behaving horribly. Keep distance until they come to senses

Outraged adopted child stands up to parents’ unethical demands
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Is it normal to ask your child to birth their own sibling?

Parents demand money for IVF, but OP refuses. NTA!

Commenter criticizes mother’s desire for IVF at 46.

“NTA.” – Supportive comment, no replies yet.
