Adopted Daughter Refuses to Fund Parents’ IVF Treatment

Imagine growing up knowing you’re adopted, but still having a great relationship with your parents. Then, out of the blue, they decide they want a biological child and start treating you differently. That’s what happened to this 23-year-old woman, whose parents’ quest for a biological baby has led to some seriously hurtful requests. Let’s dive into her story…

Adopted and Happy

Parents’ Sudden Change of Heart

Hurtful Words

The Struggle for a Baby

A Shocking Dinner Invitation ️

The Real Reason for the Invite

Feeling Like an Incubator

Leaving in Tears

Grandma’s Generosity

A Financial Solution

Parents’ Desperate Plea

Standing Her Ground ✋

Family Pressure

The Money Dilemma

A Heartbreaking Dilemma

This young woman’s world was turned upside down when her once-loving parents became fixated on having a biological child. After a series of hurtful requests and a shocking dinner invitation, she’s left questioning her relationship with her family. Now, with her grandfather’s inheritance in the balance, she’s faced with an impossible choice: help her parents fund their fertility treatments, or stand her ground and risk being labeled as greedy. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation…

Empathetic commenter supports daughter’s decision to not be a surrogate.

Daughter says no to funding parents’ IVF treatment. NTA verdict.

NTA. Don’t let them guilt-trip you for their reproductive issues

Adopted daughter supports OP, condemns parents’ obsession with IVF

NTA. Parents crossed a major boundary by asking you to carry their child, dangled your student loans as an incentive, and called you greedy for not giving them YOUR money. Surrogacy is insanely expensive in the US. Don’t let anyone tell you it’s not YOUR money.

Family’s entitlement shocks commenter, grandma is the only ally

Choosing not to be a surrogate or fund IVF treatment. NTA.

Adopted child empathizes with OP’s nightmare. NTA.

Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents’ IVF treatment. NTA wins.

Don’t let them use you or your money. NTA

Grandmother should pay loans directly and put leftover in trust fund

Daughter refuses to carry parents’ embryo and pays loans. NTA

Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents’ IVF treatment, NTA explains why.

Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents’ IVF treatment. NTA and therapy needed.

Grandma chose you over your entitled ‘parents’

Supportive comment and grandma’s approval bring hope

Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents’ IVF treatment. NTA

Curious commenter questions adoption details and surrogacy laws.

Supportive comment encourages OP to prioritize her own well-being ❤️

NTA. Infertility is emotional, but neglecting and estranging is heartbreaking. Keep money.

Daughter refuses to be surrogate for parents’ IVF treatment. NTA

Adopted daughter not obliged to fund parents’ IVF treatment. NTA

Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents’ IVF treatment. NTA, rightfully outraged.

NTA commenter advises to run away from greedy parents

NTA stands up to parents’ unreasonable IVF request

Red flags raised as parents ask daughter to be sistermom

Daughter refuses parents’ entitled IVF request, NTA wins

Mother’s desire for IVF at 46 raises eyebrows

NTA: Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents’ IVF treatment. Enough is enough.

NTA. Empathetic response to parents’ obsession with surrogate daughter.

NTA tells parents they treated her poorly, not funding IVF

Daughter refuses to fund parents’ IVF treatment, keeps the money

Adopted daughter refuses to carry ‘real’ child for parents. NTA.

Adopted daughter refuses to bear biological child for parents’ IVF treatment. NTA.

Surrogacy misconception addressed with NTA judgment

NTA: Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents’ IVF treatment

Adopted child shares experience, advises against IVF at parents’ age.

NTA for refusing to fund parents’ IVF treatment. Grandma rocks!

Grandma’s decision, not Dad’s. Asking to carry embryo is horrible

Heartwarming support for OP in a difficult family situation

Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents’ IVF treatment. NTA.

Adopted daughter refuses to carry child for estranged parents

NTA, save an innocent child from selfish, unhinged parents.

NTA refuses to carry parents’ embryo for student loan payment

NTA, don’t waste money on IVF. Grandma and OP not AH.

NTA. Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents’ IVF treatment.

NTA. Commenter suggests parents get loan, not adoptive daughter’s responsibility.

NTA refuses to carry sibling, parents blinded by hope

Supportive commenters empathize with OP’s difficult situation ❤️

A commenter expresses anger and advises to use the money for personal use and to not let the parents guilt-trip.

Adopted daughter stands up to coercive and selfish parents. NTA!!

Condolences given, NTA verdict, and advice to prioritize self-care.

Protect yourself financially, don’t expect inheritance or help.

Stranger surrogacy safer? NTA daughter refuses to fund IVF.

Surrogate agencies prefer unrelated and experienced surrogates. NTA.

NTA suggests parents use surrogate money for IVF treatment

Cutting ties with biological family over IVF funding request

Supportive comment advises to prioritize own life and avoid blame. ❤️

Heartbreaking treatment by parents, child’s perspective on their age gap

Adopted parents tried to use inheritance to force surrogacy. NTA

NTA raises valid concern about parents’ future expectations.

NTA suggests a way to avoid pressure from parents

NTA. Commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation and advises against funding.

US surrogacy laws unfair to childless women, NTA commenter agrees.

Surrogacy not an option, commenter changes judgment to NTA.

Adopted daughter receives support for refusing to fund parents’ IVF. ❤

NTA refuses to fund parents’ IVF treatment, not an incubator.

NTA shuts down parents’ selfish IVF request with brutal honesty

Heartbreaking comment. Adopted daughter not wrong for refusing IVF funding.

Supportive comment, encouraging love for grandma

NTA. Parents shouldn’t pressure child for elective surgery money. Outrageous behavior.

Cut them out of your life because you deserve better

Mother defends daughter’s decision to not fund parents’ IVF treatment.

Supportive comment. Family should accept adopted child.

Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents’ IVF treatment. NTA.

Controversial comment on IVF treatment and adoption

Heartbreaking comment on parents’ IVF treatment rejection

No contact with bad, irresponsible parents. NTA

NTA for refusing to fund parents’ IVF treatment and be their incubator.

Parents dangled a carrot, now want daughter to give up life. NTA

Adopted daughter not obligated to fund parents’ IVF treatment. NTA

NTA: Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents’ IVF treatment. Period.

Parents turn daughter into a tool for IVF funding NTA

NTA. Asking your child for money and to be a surrogate is unreasonable. Grandma can decide if she wants to fund their treatment.