We’ve all heard of re-gifting, but how about re-gifting a wedding gift… at another wedding? Meet ‘Jane’, a high-flying financier, and her friend from pre-K who works at a non-profit. When Jane got married, her friend didn’t hesitate to spend over $4k on the wedding, including a lavish trip to Spain. But when it came time for her own wedding, Jane’s ‘gift’ was a shocking surprise…
A Friendship Forged in Pre-K
The Big Wedding Splurge
The Financial Divide
The Bridal Shower Gift
A Pandemic Wedding
The Wedding Day Drama Begins
The ‘Joke’ Gift
The Confrontation
The Aftermath ️
The Divided Friends ♀️
A Friendship Teetering on the Edge: The Fallout of a ‘Joke’ Gift
In a shocking twist, Jane’s ‘joke’ gift – the $200 cash our protagonist had given her at her own wedding – has left their friendship in tatters. Despite the bride’s outrage and demand for an apology, Jane has remained silent. With their mutual friends split down the middle, it seems this wedding day drama is far from over. The question remains: Was the bride justified in her anger, or did she overreact? Let’s see what the internet thinks…
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NTA. Classless friend re-gifts wedding gift to ‘even the score’
Confused by a weird joke at a friend’s wedding. NTA.
NTA – Where’s the real gift? This ‘joke’ is insane
NTA: Jane’s rude behavior at your wedding deserves no apology
Bride re-gifts wedding money, claims it evens the score.
Commenter wants a Le Creuset oven as a wedding gift
Unmet gift expectations lead to a friendship on the rocks
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NTA. Friendships are about give and take. You’re not wrong.
NTA! Stand your ground and don’t let the haters win!
NTA, but Jane’s self-centered attitude is causing tension
NTA. How weird.
“NTA. All those people bitching about your wedding? Trash! “
NTA and your ex-friend is a gift-giving grudge holder
Assess your friendship objectively and see it under a new light
Re-gifting a wedding gift? NTA, that’s just plain weird
Explaining the joke: a sentimental gift turned into an absurdity
Sister’s insulting gift on wedding day, demand apology and return!
INFO: Envelope not sealed, contained same money. Insulting gesture, not about money. ♀️
Re-gifted cash insulted OP, but commenters find it hilarious
NTA – Regifting Le Creuset? That’s a friendship breaker!
Cutting out entitled people from your life ✊
A**hole accuses friend of being cheap for re-gifting wedding gift
NTA: Don’t invite these hypocrites to your wedding!
“NTA and the ultimate gift fail: re-gifting your own present! “
NTA. Calling out a friend for re-gifting wedding presents
Friendship quantified. Ugly. You’re not the a**hole.
Next level regifting? Not the a**hole in this situation!
NTA. Choosing to spend money on friends’ weddings is toxic
Friendship on the rocks: Re-gifted wedding present sparks fallout ♀️
Flying across an ocean for a wedding vs. complaining about travel
Cut ties with Jane . Move on and forget the drama.
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Friends criticizing wedding, NTA for not apologizing.
NTA: Lesson learned, don’t waste $ on ungrateful friends.
Confused about the score and gifts, NTA (Not the a**hole)
“NTA If Jane thinks regifting $200 makes things even, she’s wrong.”
Don’t let pettiness ruin your wedding memories. Be objective. ESH.
INFO: The distinctive envelope had a beautiful Chinese wedding design
Heartwarming story of a generous wedding gift and true friendship ❤️
Cutting ties with a toxic friend. You’re definitely NTA
NTA. Reach out and hear her side of the story
NTA. Tacky behavior! Guests should be polite for once
Curious about the wedding location? Find out in the comments!
Find new friends, these ones aren’t worth the drama
Bizarre wedding gift situation leaves friend feeling hurt and unappreciated
“American wedding traditions and their costs are weird, but anyway…”
Westchester is not upstate!
Friendship on the rocks: Jane’s entitled expectations and passive-aggressive comeback
Weddings are too expensive, I’d rather spend on bills and rent
Confusion over ‘even the score’ sparks curiosity among readers
Friendship on the rocks: NTA, passive-aggressive friend won’t reconcile
NTA – No harm in keeping score, just don’t escalate.
NTA. Jane’s an a**hole, not a friend.
Re-gifting a wedding gift? That’s crazy and disrespectful! NTA
Passive aggressive gift-giving gone wrong
NTA, but why stop there? Ask for the oven and tickets!
Weddings reveal true friends. I lost 2 during mine.
Re-gifting at a wedding? NTA, demand an apology and reassess friendships.
Wedding drama: ESH, but Jane’s comment was rude and weird
NTA. Jane’s re-gifting created drama. Don’t let her ruin your day
NTA but why not just call her up and hash it out if you want to continue this relationship?
Friendship on the rocks: YTA loses it over a joke
Wedding drama exposes toxic friend group.
OP needs new friends, the old ones never grew up
Congrats on your wedding! Sorry about your inconsiderate friend.
Not the a**hole. Drama-free comment section.
NTA and questionable friends
