Picture this: You’re a busy mom of four, hosting a dinner for your dear friend and her kids. You’ve got the meals prepared, the house cleaned, and the kids excited. But then, your husband’s friend decides to drop by unannounced with his new girlfriend, expecting you to roll out the red carpet. And when you refuse, all hell breaks loose! ️
The Regular Family Visits
The Unfortunate Divorce
The Surprise Dinner Guest
The Unwanted Request ♀️
The Unexpected Arrival
The Heated Argument
The Aftermath ️
The Accusations Fly ️
A Dinner Party Gone Wrong: Who’s Really to Blame? ️
In a whirlwind of drama, our heroine finds herself in the middle of a dinner party dispute. As she stands her ground against her husband’s friend, Mike, she’s accused of being judgmental and risking her husband’s 15-year friendship. But who’s really in the wrong here? Is it our steadfast hostess, who refused to displace her friend Lillian and her kids, or Mike, who showed up uninvited with his new girlfriend? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this heated situation…
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NTA: Mike’s entitlement and control issues cause a stir
Entitled AH ruins dinner plans, husband expects OP to apologize
Mike’s entitlement and rudeness sparks outrage among commenters.
NTA. Mike and your husband are, though.
NTA- The audacity people have standing at the threshold of someone else’s home to make demands is absurd! Your husband is a trash panda for defending his friend while disrespecting you in your own home. His friend set himself AND HIS POOR GIRLFRIEND up for failure by showing up unannounced.
Demanding un-invited guests and marking territory? NTA, Mike’s a**hole move!
NTA, but your husband and Mike are causing unnecessary drama.
“Peaked in high school” – a perfect description!
NTA – Husband’s ex caused unnecessary drama, putting kids in middle.
NTA: Mike’s immature power play at girlfriend’s expense
NTA for not rearranging plans for Mike’s new GF.
NTA. Power trip, rude demands, and disregard for boundaries.
Seeking advice on marriage: Show husband thread, suggest counselling
Stand your ground! Your plans, your dinner, your rules!
NTA- Mike’s childish games and manipulation put you in a tough spot
Mike’s immaturity causes drama. NTA, husband should support you.
Mike’s behavior is outrageous! NTA for sure!
NTA. Mike’s disrespectful behavior and your husband’s obliviousness are shocking!
NTA. Should OP kick out her guests for Mike’s new GF?
A blip with Mike, but a HUGE problem with your husband!
Mike’s inconsiderate behavior causes chaos during a family dinner
NTA. Clear boundaries set, husband’s support questioned. Unexpected dinner drama!
NTA Mike and your husband sure are though!
Mike’s outrageous request: throw his kids out for his girlfriend?!
Uninvited guest causes drama: NTA, but husband’s questionable behavior too.
NTA: Mike’s selfish actions cause tension and neglect his children.
NTA: Mike’s entitlement to change your plans is uncalled for
NTA. Husband and friend put the gf in an impossible situation
Confused about husband’s role in inviting surprise dinner guest
Mike thinks he’s the priority at your own house? NTA!
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NTA: Mike’s last-minute plans were rude and inconsiderate.
Uninvited guest causes chaos, husband chooses friend over wife.
Mike’s behavior was unacceptable. Have a serious talk with your husband.
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NTA, but Mike and your husband are. Why did he have to come by that day?
NTA! Husband needs to stand up to obnoxious tyrant guest!
Curious about rescheduling: Is Mike permanently unwelcome or just that night?
Mike crashes dinner despite being told no, total a**hole move.
Did the husband know about the cancellation? Drama unfolds!
Mike’s entitlement causes conflict at planned dinner. NTA.
NTA. He wanted his ex-wife to see his new girlfriend
A supportive friend during a breakup. You’re definitely NTA! ❤️
Divorced man with a new fianceé? NTA, but rude as f**k!
Supportive comment: Stand strong, you’re not the a**hole!
Mike’s immaturity causes drama at dinner. DH is TA.
When friendship becomes a battleground…
No a-hole here. He acted like a high school kid!
NTA. Set boundaries with your husband’s friend. Your home, your rules.
NTA for not canceling plans. What a turd!
NTA: Set boundaries with your husband’s friend and prioritize your friendships.
The juicy truth about Mike’s divorce finally revealed!
NTA. Stand up for yourself and your friendship.
Choosing between family and new girlfriend? Not the a**hole.
Entitled dinner guest causes chaos, husband prioritizes ‘pick me’ friend
NTA: Ex demands ex-wife and kids leave for his girlfriend. Boundaries!
“NTA: True friends don’t end a 15-year relationship over this.”
Mike vs. Husband: A**hole vs. Supreme Jerk! Marriage in Peril
Uninvited friend throws fit, crashes dinner. NTA, he needs help.
OP stands up to friend, husband needs to grow up
NTA- Boundaries crossed! No means no, surprise dinner is unacceptable!
Awkward dinner guest situation: NTA, Mike’s bad timing backfires
