Imagine being 15, involved in a car accident, and your family doesn’t come to pick you up from the hospital. That’s exactly what happened to one teenager, who ended up with a broken leg and a lifetime of resentment. This dramatic tale, which recently resurfaced during a family Zoom call, has sparked a heated debate. Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster.
The Unforgettable Accident

The Hospital Ordeal ⏱

The Unanswered Call

The Broken Leg and The Empty House

The Cop’s Unexpected Ride Home

The Shocked Mom and The Unrecognized Number

The Zoom Call That Stirred Old Wounds

The Sibling’s Defense and The Unanswered Door

The Resentment That Lingers ❄️

The Apology That Never Came ♀️

The Gift That Couldn’t Heal

A Decade-Old Resentment: Is It Justified?
A forgotten accident, a broken leg, and a family that didn’t show up at the hospital – this tale of a 15-year-old’s ordeal has left a lasting mark. Even after a decade, the resentment resurfaces, causing a family feud that questions the bonds of trust and dependability. The protagonist’s statement during a family Zoom call – “That’s why I never used any of you as an emergency contact” – has ignited a firestorm of emotions. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Worried about missing child but refusing to pick up phone?

Mom’s overreaction to accident caused lasting family tension

NTA. Apologize? She’s not entitled to one
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NTA! They’re a**holes for leaving you alone in the hospital!

“NTA I’m a parent. You said not only did she not answer the phone calling multiple times, but your friends came to the door to tell her & she just said you weren’t home, then shut the door in their faces without letting them speak. You were gone 8 hours & she never wondered wtf happened to you or why the same number was calling repeatedly? Spam calling or not, I’d have some cognitive correlation to missing kid & repeated phone calls. She doesn’t feel guilty for failing you. She feels drama fuel for attention. Demanding that YOU apologize is forcing the victim to make up for the failings of the matriarch. They don’t give a flying f**k about the hurt or trauma you went through at 15 years old. They only care about faammmmmiilllyy. Is she sincerely apologizing for what happened? Not a non-pology of ‘I’m sorry you feel hurt, but I had reasons to not answer/not listen to friends/yell at you because I saw a cop/it’s been years get over it.’ , but an actual apology like ‘I failed you that day by not being there for you & I’m sorry. How can we move on?’. Without a real apology, where she takes actual responsibility for her part, without any blaming you for being upset, there is no moving on. Any sorry that blames you isn’t real & is just a demand for you to get over it so her feelings (proving that’s all that matters) can be placated. Honestly, you have every right to still feel resentment. I’d never put them in any part of having responsibility for me ever again & I’d have not the slightest shame about it. Even with an apology, I’d never do it again.” – A parent’s negligence and lack of empathy, demanding an apology.

NAH. A decade-long family feud over a forgotten accident

NTA for making a joke, but have a talk with mom

“YTA. You knew your mom didn’t do it on purpose.”

NTA. Family’s defensive behavior shows they know they messed up
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Sociopaths all up in these comments, YTA dude move on.

Did your mom overreact when you didn’t check in?

OP’s lack of resourcefulness and support sparks heated debate

YTA dude, get over it. Your 25, ya need grow up.

Doubts about the story’s authenticity and inconsistencies in the narrative

Friends’ creative ways to get attention during a family feud

Learn to let go and take responsibility for your actions!

NTA. Long-lasting effects from a forgotten accident

“YTA. Excluding the one person who went through it? “
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You’re NTA! Trust your instincts and stand your ground!

NAH: A heartfelt apology through tears and a new phone.

Hospital procedures without parental consent? Find out more here!

Understanding both sides: NAH. Scammers vs. scared child, valid feelings.

No a-hole here, she should feel guilty.

YTA- Let go of the past, it’s time to move on!

NTA. Let go of resentment for your mental health. Mom’s fault.

NHA: Annoyed but understanding. Footprints and skating mishaps

Mom’s lack of empathy and recognition of pain is shocking

Can you forgive your mom for a decade-old accident?

Parents, always be vigilant and answer that phone!

Mom’s indifference and lack of concern sparks family feud
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Let go of resentment, it only hurts you in the end

NTA: Accidental feud surprises commenters, urging self-reflection and forgiveness.

Justified anger: Family fails as emergency contact

NTA. Holding grudges for years? ♂️ Trustworthy emergency contacts matter.

Family feud over forgotten accident. Can’t let it go

A forgotten birthday pickup: Emotional slap in the face

Understanding the complexities of family dynamics and forgiveness

NTA. Truth hurts, but you’ve been reasonable.

Heartbreaking betrayal: Family’s absence during crisis leads to lasting resentment

NTA, but it’s time for a real conversation to heal

NTA. Mom would be running around like an upset emu

Mom freaked out and made it about herself. You’re NTA.
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Let go of the past and embrace forgiveness

NAH. Family forgot about you in hospital, but it wasn’t intentional

Understanding and forgiving family for unintentional mistakes

Doubting the credibility of cartoon-like scenarios

Honest mistake leads to family feud and tearful apologies

NAH: Family miscommunication, guilt, and the need for open conversation

Leaving a message: the key to family communication

Curious about the hospital’s questionable release process and missing details

Family feud: Holding on to grudges or moving forward?
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NTA. Family’s lack of concern for your disappearance is shocking

Mom’s guilt still lingers, but trust your instincts

A joke turned sour, but no ill intent. Let it go.

Accept the apologies you never got.

Ignoring calls because of unknown numbers? Not a smart move!
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Let go of resentment and focus on healing.

A painful accident reveals the true colors of OP’s family.

Apologies are crucial for building relationships. Share your feelings with mom

Still mad after all these years? Join the club!

NTA: A traumatic beach incident reveals a neglectful stepmom’s true colors

A traumatic accident leads to a decade-long family feud
