Imagine being at a family gathering, and as the door swings open, you’re met with a sight that leaves you gasping. Your 16-year-old niece, who should be blossoming into womanhood, is a mere shadow of her peers, weighing a shocking 74 pounds. As the evening unfolds, you discover that her parents haven’t taken her to a doctor since she was 11 years old. And now, you’re left with a moral dilemma – should you intervene and potentially tear the family apart? Or should you stand by and watch a young girl’s health deteriorate? ♀️
A Shocking Revelation at a Family Gathering

A Disturbing Sight

A Family’s Health Ignored?

A Plea for Help Ignored

A Desperate Measure

A Moral Dilemma ♀️

An Update: Taking Action

Clarifying the Situation

A Family Torn Apart: A Battle Between Health and Pride
A family reunion turned into a shocking revelation as one woman discovered her 16-year-old niece’s alarming health condition. Despite the girl’s visible signs of illness, her parents refused to acknowledge the issue, leading to a heart-wrenching dilemma – should she risk tearing the family apart by reporting her suspicions of child abuse? Or should she stand by and watch her niece’s health deteriorate? The internet’s verdict? She took the right step by reporting the situation. But what do you think?
“NTA for suspecting anorexia. Get someone involved. “

Heartbreaking stories of eating disorders and the need for help

NTA. Report the abuse, but be prepared for marital conflict.

NTA. Seek help from a school counselor to address concerns.

NTA. Concerned about 16yo girl’s health, not diagnosing. Let professionals decide.

Urgent! Report child abuse now! Don’t prioritize family harmony!
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NTA. Child abuse should never be ignored or let lie. ✊

NTA. A life-saving CPS call exposed neglectful parenting.

Be the voice for this child. Stand up and advocate! ✊

NTA: Concerned commenter calls for immediate CPS intervention

NTA: Concerned commenter urges calling CPS to protect child’s welfare

NTA. Making a difference for the girl’s well-being

NTA. Report to school counselor for better results, not CPS.

NTA. Report it now!

Calling out child abuse: Will anything actually be done?

NTA, husband needs to get a grip. Girl’s dangerously underweight.

NTA! Report the child abuse immediately!

NTA. Concerns about weight and puberty, but no period.

Put your niece’s health first! Rock the boat for her. ✊ NTA

NTA. Congrats on your weight loss journey!

Concerned about niece’s well-being, but family dynamics hinder intervention

Urgent call needed to save girl’s life from anorexia

Concerned commenter advocates for medical intervention in child abuse case.

Concerned commenter urges medical help for severely underweight individual
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Medical neglect: life or death situation. Make the calls!

Suggesting a subtle approach to address possible child abuse concerns

Insightful comment about a potential case of anorexia in parenting

NTA. Speak up now to save your niece’s health ❤️
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Heartbreaking: Child starved by parent or just strict discipline?

Concerned commenter urges action to save child with eating disorder

NTA. Take action and contact the school for help!

NTA, sharing personal experience of ED and offering advice.

NTA – Let kids be kids!

Reporting child abuse: a tough decision with life-saving potential ✊

Helpful suggestion for supporting a struggling teenager with eating disorders

Seek professional advice, report abuse. Help the girl. NTA

Prioritizing kids’ safety: NTA, but brace for inlaw drama!

NTA. Everyone who ignored this is a failure.

u/hurtingmama’s plea for help against delusional parents. Take action!

Concerned commenter notices signs of anorexia in child’s eating habits

Do the right thing for your niece!
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NTA: Save this poor girl’s life and confront your husband
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NTA. Your husband’s cowardice allows children to die.
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Concerned commenter urges action on potential child abuse case ⚠️

“I don’t need to read further, that’s child abuse. NTA!”
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Urgent plea for help! A life is at stake!

Concerned commenter urges intervention to save girl from neglect. NTA

Taking action to protect a nephew and improve family dynamics!

Concerned commenter warns of serious health risks, urging intervention ⚠️

Heartbreaking story about a late intervention for anorexia.

Heartbreaking story of a friend’s struggle with bulimia and neglect.

Report abuse, save a life. Be prepared for consequences.
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Report them ASAP! They’re gonna get her killed. NTA

NTA. Preventing damage to the girl is crucial. Act now!

Urgent! Child’s life at stake! NTA takes action

Defend the defenseless child! Be their voice against abuse.

Heartbreaking situation. NTA. Your niece is seriously at risk

NTA: Reporting abuse is morally and ethically necessary!

Keep fighting for her! You may save her life!

Skipping shots is fine, but the kid needs medical attention. NTA

Report them! They’re definitely not the a**hole!

Report it or be an a**hole!

NTA: Child’s health at risk, report if dismissed again!

Malnutrition is serious. NTA for seeking help to save her.

NTA saves a life, parents encourage harmful behavior. Anorexia battle.

NTA: School should address the child’s obvious issues, not parents.

Concerning symptoms raise questions about parenting style.

NTA, report to CPS ASAP! She needs evaluation and support!

Report it to save your niece!

Reported! You’re not the a**hole!

You’re a caring soul, shining light on a neglectful situation ✨

NTA. Take action if you’re worried!

Concerned about husband’s parenting style, potential child abuse

Report them! This girl needs medical intervention for anorexia!

Concerned about stunted growth, could it be celiac?

Not the a**hole for parenting style. Share your thoughts!

Calling child abuse support may ruin your relationship
