Ex-Husband Accused of Misconduct, Begs for Help But She’s Not Playing His Game

Picture this: after a nasty divorce, your ex-husband shows up at your door begging for help. He’s been accused of serious misconduct by a former colleague, and his career and reputation are on the line. But there’s a catch – this isn’t the first time this woman has caused trouble. Years ago, she stalked you and threatened your ex for money. Now, he wants you to testify on his behalf. Would you do it? ‍♀️ That’s the dilemma one woman faced when her ex-husband came knocking…

The Ugly Divorce

A Son Caught in the Middle

The Blackmailing Woman

Her Mental Health Issues

The Accusation

The Enemy of My Enemy…

The Weight of Her Testimony ✋

The Desperate Plea

The Stalking Incident ️‍♀️

Her Reasoning ‍♀️

Not Her Problem Anymore ‍♀️

The Unborn Child Card

To Testify or Not to Testify? ‍♀️

After years of betrayal and a messy divorce, this woman wants nothing to do with her ex-husband. But when he’s accused of misconduct and begs her to testify on his behalf, she’s torn. She knows the woman accusing him has a history of stalking and threats, but she also knows her ex isn’t exactly a saint. Ultimately, she decides to stay out of it, refusing to vouch for a man she no longer knows. But is she right? Or is she just being vindictive? Let’s see what the internet has to say…

NTA. Ex-husband begs for help, but name-calling shows you made the right choice

Testifying truthfully is the best option

NTA. Commenters suspect ex-husband’s manipulative behavior and ulterior motives

Commenters agree ex-husband’s behavior is suspicious and manipulative

Ex-husband accused of misconduct and cheating with multiple coworkers. NTA.

Abusive men always call women crazy. Lawyers involved in case.

Legal advice shared on subpoena possibility for NTA commenter.

Ex-husband begs for character reference after cheating. OP not playing. NTA

Ex-husband accused of misconduct, but OP doesn’t know the truth

Stay out of it It’s his mess, not yours.

Karma’s a b***h, and this ex-husband got what he deserved

Commenter advocates for sticking to facts in legal proceedings. Replies clarify difference between immoral and illegal behavior.

Ex-husband directs ex-wife on what to say in legal proceedings , but she’s not playing his game

Ex-husband begs for help, but commenter shuts him down. NTA

Being NTA doesn’t mean being a good witness

No obligation to defend ex-husband. He burned too many bridges

Ex-husband’s true character would be exposed in court

NTA shuts down ex-husband’s game-playing with a burn

Commenter suggests providing relevant information to police, not ex-husband.

Questioning the ex-husband’s story with a hint of suspicion

Not your circus, not your monkey. NTA takes charge.

Taking responsibility for your actions is important. NTA.

Survivor shares experience with manipulative ex, supports OP’s decision.

Ex-husband’s flirty behavior leads to obsession accusation. NTA verdict.

Commenter questions ex-husband’s story, offers support to OP

No character witnesses? NTA says it all

Ex-husband’s company lawsuit cost him friends, NTA wants more details

NTA suspects ex-husband cheated, advises staying out of mess

Testifying truthfully is the only way to win.

Ex-husband accused of misconduct, called out for manipulative behavior. NTA.

No obligation to testify and honesty is the best policy

Don’t be a part of his manipulation ‍♀️. Stay strong

Commenter shows no mercy for ex-husband

No obligation to help cheating ex-husband. NTA

Don’t let him drag you into his mess NTA

NTA. Ex-husband manipulating OP into taking his side

Ex-husband wants ex-wife as character witness? NTA shuts him down

Ex-husband wants testimony, but commenter says don’t lie. NTA

Short and sweet. The perfect response.

Ex-husband’s character questioned, commenter advises to stay out

Refusing testimony could ruin ex-husband’s life. ESH.

Avoiding blackmail: NTA takes a stand against toxic ex

Short and to the point.

Ex-husband gaslights and blames ex-wife for his misconduct

Ex’s misconduct? Not your problem. NTA, stay strong

Moving on without him. NTA and not responsible for his consequences.

No help for ex-husband accused of misconduct. NTA.

Ex-husband’s misconduct exposed, but she’s not taking the blame. NTA

Honesty is the best policy, even if it’s not easy

Ex-husband’s misconduct, not her problem. NTA ‍♀️

Don’t let him manipulate you again. NTA

NTA wouldn’t make a good witness anyway Multiple affairs mentioned

Ex-wife advised not to testify for ex-husband accused of misconduct

Taking a stand against ex-husband’s misconduct. NTA

Testify against ex-husband? NTA, use your own script.

Speculation on ex-husband’s affair and blackmail, NTA comment section.

A tempting offer for revenge, but is it worth it?

Commenter sympathizes with victim, calls ex-husband selfish. NTA

Refusing favors for an ex who mistreated you

Cheating ex-husband begs for help, but NTA shuts him down

Choosing honesty over blind loyalty

Set boundaries and speak the truth.

No duty to ex-husband, no problem

NTA comment shuts down ex-husband’s drama

Asserting your rights to say no when asked to testify.

Not your circus, not your monkeys. NTA wins!

NTA stands firm, ex-husband gets what he deserves.

Ex-husband wants help, but commenter advises against committing perjury