Falling in love is a magical experience, but what happens when the couple’s desires don’t align? Our protagonist met his girlfriend five months ago, and they fell head over heels for each other. However, things took a turn when she revealed she’s asexual and doesn’t want to have sex ever. Can love survive this revelation? Let’s dive into their story.
Love at First Sight
Patience and Understanding
First Time Troubles
The Importance of Intimacy
Asexual Revelation
Breaking Point
The Unspoken Reason
Clarifying the Situation
Uncomfortable Aftermath
Trying to Make It Work
Asexuality Confirmed
Misunderstood Intentions
Defending Himself ️
Grateful for Support
A Plea for Understanding
Love Derailed by Asexuality
Our protagonist and his girlfriend fell in love quickly, but their relationship hit a roadblock when she revealed she’s asexual. Despite his patience and understanding, he couldn’t see a future without intimacy. After much thought, he decided to break up with her, but couldn’t bring himself to admit it was because of her asexuality. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation…
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Respecting boundaries and needs is key for a successful relationship
Honesty is the best policy, don’t lie about intimacy issues.
Break up if no intimacy. Rip the plaster and move on.
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Respect boundaries and don’t pressure your partner.
NTA for breaking up due to incompatible sex needs, but YTA for pressuring and not being honest. ‘Took everything from me’ is sus
Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts
NTA for wanting to break up, YTA for how you handled it
Reflect on boundaries and mutual needs for a graceful breakup
Coaxing someone into sex is never okay
Respecting boundaries is key, YTA for pressuring her.
A witty reply to a bizarre comment
Pressuring someone into sex is not okay. YTA.
Pressuring for sex after 5 months? YTA
Did he pressure her for sex? The importance of consent
Navigating consent and boundaries in relationships
Accusations of predatory behavior and entitlement. NTA but TAH.
Pressuring someone to break their boundaries is never okay, YTA
Begging for sex and not respecting boundaries? YTA
Pressuring for sex is not okay, find other ways to connect
YTA for lying about breakup, NTA for wanting intimacy.
Learn about consent and respect boundaries to avoid being TA
NTA for wanting intimacy but YTA for coercion and lying
Pressuring partner for sex doesn’t make you less of an a**hole.
User empathizes with the girl and hopes she gets therapy
User calls out OP for pressuring girlfriend into sex. YTA.
User calls out OP for coercing ex-girlfriend into sex.
Pressuring someone into sex is NOT being understanding
Pushing for sex after a ‘no’ is not okay
Honesty is key in ending a relationship ❤️
Accusations of pressuring and cowardice lead to YTA judgement.
Virginity taken through pressure, bad in bed, YTA. Brutal.
User expresses concern over partner’s intentions and honesty
Respect boundaries, don’t push for sex. YTA
Virgin fetish? Disrespecting boundaries? YTA, never speak to her again
Consent is key, don’t pressure your partner into sex. YTA
Breaking up is okay, don’t beg for it
A scathing comment with no mercy
User accuses OP of pressuring and leaving after sex
Pressuring someone into sex and wanting more afterwards? YTA
User accused of pressuring partner for sex, deemed YTA.
OP’s insensitive attitude towards partner’s first time
Pushing for intimacy, YTA should have broken up earlier
YTA for manipulating her into sleeping with you
Different needs, different paths. Love isn’t everything
NTA called out for manipulating and dumping partner for petty reason
Sex is not a commodity, it’s a mutual expression of love ❤️
Harsh judgement given with no explanation. Seek help, YTA.
Sex or love, what’s worth more? A debate ensues
User calls out OP for pressuring partner into sex
Pressuring someone into sex is not consent. YTA.
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Pressuring someone into sex and dumping them? Total scumbag
YTA tries to guilt trip for sex, gets called out
YTA for pressuring her, NTA for walking away. Incompatibility issues.
Pressure for sex led to a dead end
A comment on right-wing pressure on women’s sexuality.
Sexual compatibility issues lead to breakup and disagreement.
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NTA for breaking up, but YTA for attitude towards sex
Moving too fast? Commenter applauds breakup, wishes healing journey
Failed guilt trip leads to no more sex. YTA ♂️
User accuses man of coercing virgin into sex, calls him a creep
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Pressuring someone into sex is never okay. YTA.
Ending a relationship = NTA, but YTA for past actions ♀️
Pressuring partner for sex and refusing to accept asexuality? YTA.
Defensive comment receives no sympathy from replies
Navigating sexual incompatibility in relationships
Harsh criticism for someone who pressured and hurt their partner.
Pressuring partner for sex and making it a stipulation is wrong
Pressuring someone into sex then dumping them? YTA indeed
Lying about low libido and pressuring traumatized partner = YTA
Virginity and sex compatibility in relationships ♂️
Breaking up over sexual intimacy is valid, but don’t be disrespectful
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User pressures virgin girlfriend into sex, regrets it later. YTA.
User calls out OP for manipulative behavior towards ex-girlfriend.
Dating a virgin requires patience, not pressure. YTA.
Pressuring partner into sex can lead to bad experiences
No means no. YTA for pressuring her into sex
Dating advice gone wrong: YTA for making her trauma worse.
Opinion rejected and OP called out for immature behavior
