Imagine being a 22-year-old, enjoying life with your significant other, when suddenly, you’re asked to take on the responsibility of raising a child. This is the reality for Malcolm (22M), who has been asked by his terminally ill sister’s mother, Sandra, to become the guardian of his half-sister, Elena (12F). Malcolm’s girlfriend (22F) believes this is a selfish request and questions whether he’s really the only option. The situation has caused tension and conflict between all parties involved. Let’s dive into the story and see how it unfolds.
The Family Background
Moms Become Friends
Sandra’s Heartbreaking Diagnosis
Sandra’s Time is Limited ⏳
Malcolm Steps Up ♂️
The Big Ask
A Life-Changing Request ️
Moving In
Malcolm Agrees, Girlfriend Shocked
Is He Too Young?
No Turning Back
Tense Conversation with Sandra
Questioning Sandra’s Decision
Sandra’s Reasoning ️
Girlfriend Calls it Selfish
Sandra Gets Defensive
Asked to Leave ♀️
Girlfriend Defends Her Actions ️
Relationships Strained, Questions Linger
The situation has left Malcolm’s girlfriend feeling excluded and questioning the fairness of Sandra’s request. Malcolm, on the other hand, is furious with his girlfriend for upsetting Sandra and questioning her decision. With relationships strained and emotions running high, it’s clear that this life-changing decision has left everyone involved with many questions and concerns. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this complicated situation…
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YTA accused of selfishness for criticizing dying woman’s request.
Interfering partner receives backlash for calling boyfriend selfish.
NTA comment: Savage breakup advice sparks amusing downvotes. Mission accomplished!
“YTA and hes right, youve been together for 6 months, and its his literal sister who is currently losing her mother to cancer. Youre nothing worth compared to her, and you dont get a say. If you dont agree, leave him, he deserves better. Its also not selfish to ask him to become the guardian. You were so out of place saying what you said.”
YTA. Selfishness and lack of empathy in a difficult situation.
Selfish or Necessary? The debate on prioritizing oneself during tragedy.
“YTA. Not embedded in the family. Stay out of the way.”
“YTA. Maybe you’re just super immature.”
User calls out OP as a**hole for interfering in situation
“YTA. Your (now EX) boyfriend has stepped up to take care of his FAMILY. He didn’t NEED to ‘consult’ you on any of it. You have no say in HIS life. Six months? He’s been her brother for TWELVE YEARS. She was part of his life before you showed up and she’ll be part of his life long after you’re gone (which is probably about now). He agreed to step up, knowing full well what the responsibility is. You are the one being selfish… cold-hearted, short-sighted, and self-centered. No thought to this little girl losing her mom, with only her big brother for family. Just you, and what YOU want.”
“YTA for criticizing a dying woman’s request for a guardian. “
Heartless YTA: Just walk away, he deserves better
Sibling duty: YTA called out for refusing dying sister’s request
YTA expects control over child’s future. Selfishness at its finest.
GF upset about not being consulted on important decision.
“YTA. This is not your decision to make or judge.”
YTA: Respect his decision or leave. Don’t be selfish
YTA. Big time. Inserting yourself where you’re not wanted.
Choosing between love and responsibility: a tough decision
Commenter criticizes OP for being selfish and controlling.
