Imagine working hard to buy your own stuff, only for your mom to give it away to your siblings! That’s exactly what happened to a 19-year-old young man who’s been working since he was 14. He’s been more like a second parent to his four siblings, taking care of them and even paying for their school supplies. But when he finally moved out, he decided to take back all the electronics and other items he had bought with his hard-earned money. Little did he know, this would spark a huge family drama!
The Second Parent
The Caretaker’s Duties
Mom’s Money-Saving Tactics
Grandparents to the Rescue!
Gaming Gear Gone
The Great Giveaway
Mom’s Threats
Safekeeping at Grandparents’ House
Moving Out and Taking Back
The Cost of Everything
Siblings’ Reactions
Mom Goes Nuts
Price Breakdown
Address Snooping ️
Not a Spite Move
Taking Back What’s His: Justified or Cruel?
This 19-year-old young man had enough of his mom giving away his hard-earned possessions to his siblings. So, when he moved out, he took back everything he had bought, including electronics and other items worth around $1500. While his older siblings seem to understand the situation, his mom went ballistic, calling him a thief and showing up at his new place to scream at him. But was he really in the wrong? After all, he paid for these items and still uses them. Was it fair for his mom to give them away in the first place? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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NTA. Commenter sympathizes with OP’s abusive upbringing and suggests calling CPS.
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“NTA. Your mom is the thief, and I’m glad you’re out of there. “
NTA, but worried about mom sabotaging job. Mutual destruction looming
NTA. Protect your brother and report any potential abuse.
NTA. Mom regifted your possessions. You reclaimed what’s rightfully yours.
NTA, but be prepared for potential police involvement
Congrats on escaping! You’re definitely NTA.
NTA: Reclaiming what’s rightfully yours
Sibling drama: reclaiming possessions sparks debate. NTA or thief?
Reclaiming possessions from family: NTA, explain the hurt caused.
NTA. Your money, your possessions. It’s as simple as that!
19-year-old reclaims possessions: rightful hero or misunderstood thief?
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Reclaiming possessions from abusive mom: NTA, go for it!
NTA. Siblings mad, but blame mom for gifting your stuff
Ownership dispute settled: NTA, reclaiming what’s rightfully yours
Mom secretly gave away my stuff, siblings accepted it as gifts
NTA: Reclaiming your possessions after moving out, it’s only fair!
Congrats on the new place!!
Reclaiming possessions: NTA, your stuff, your choice!
Commenter’s strong emotions towards their mother, live long and prosper
“NTA. Stand up for yourself and protect your siblings. “
Don’t let mom ruin your independence! ♂️
NTA. Overcoming abuse and reclaiming freedom from a toxic mess
19-year-old reclaims possessions: NTA or sibling thief?
Mom’s snooping leads to concern over privacy invasion.
NTA: Reclaiming possessions after moving out, keeping open communication channels
Sibling drama: Mom is the thief, siblings take sides. NTA
NTA – Taking back what’s rightfully yours from an irresponsible parent.
Heartbreaking story of survival and reclaiming freedom from an abusive parent.
NTA: Cut contact, live your life, and reclaim your freedom!
NTA: Reclaiming possessions or sibling theft?
NTA. Simple and straightforward judgment. No a**holes here.
NTA: Take legal action and cut off all contact
NTA: Mother stole your stuff, made you support siblings. Stay away!
Empathetic support for a young man reclaiming his possessions
NTA: Take precautions to protect yourself and start fresh!
