Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a juicy story that's sure to get your blood boiling! 😡 Our leading lady, a successful technical writer and manager, is engaged to her programmer beau. 💍 But there's trouble in paradise! 😱 Despite their loving relationship and financial equality, her fiancé is insisting on a prenup that seems to protect him more than her. 💸 Is he being influenced by controversial content, or is there more to this story? 🤔 Let's dive in and find out! 👀
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💍 Engaged but Enraged! 😡
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💸 Money Matters: I Covered the Rent! 🏠
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🤨 Justifying the Unjustifiable? 🚫
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📺 Influenced by Controversial Content 🤔
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💔 A Breakup and a Bias 😕
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🤰 Baby on Board, but Prenup Overboard? 👶
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💬 Communicating Concerns 🗣️
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😲 Shocked by Accusations! 😱
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🤷♀️ AITAH for Refusing the Prenup? 🙅♀️
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😲 Prenup Predicament: Is He Preparing for Betrayal? 💔
Our leading lady is in a tough spot! 😰 She's contributed significantly to their finances, even covering rent when her fiancé was laid off. 💸 But now, he's insisting on a prenup that seems to favor him, despite their equal earnings. 🤨 His perspective seems influenced by controversial content, painting women as gold diggers. 😡 She's explained her concerns, including their plans for children and her likely increased domestic responsibilities. 🤰 But he's still pushing for the prenup, even accusing her of potentially cheating and taking his money! 😱 Is she the a-hole for refusing to sign, or is her fiancé's behavior a red flag? 🚩 Let's see what the internet has to say about this prenup predicament! 👀
Red flag alert: Misogynistic views on women and marriage 🚨
MistressFuzzylegs | MistressFuzzylegs
NTA commenter throws shade at groom's questionable advice source.
NorthwestPassenger | NorthwestPassenger
Bride-to-be receives support on not signing a pre-nup. 👍
hellerinahandbasket | hellerinahandbasket
Proactive approach to prenup can avoid ultimatums. 👍
Eve-3 | Eve-3
Demanding a fair share of housework and maternity pay 💪
Sea-Ad9057 | Sea-Ad9057
Secure your assets and lawyer up, NTA for demanding fairness 💪
RJack151 | RJack151
Concerns raised about groom's financial and gender views 🤔
potenttechnicality | potenttechnicality
NTA, but beware of his interests and reconsider your relationship.
CarbonS0ul | CarbonS0ul
Avoid men who follow Andrew Tate if you want a healthy relationship 👍
SaltyDangerHands | SaltyDangerHands
Worried about Andrew Tate? Run and cut your losses! NTA 👏
LissaBryan | LissaBryan
Prenups protect everyone, not just the wealthy. Get your own lawyer.
elizzup | elizzup
Planning to marry someone who thinks little of you? 🤔
cassowary32 | cassowary32
Warning signs of an abusive relationship, get out now 🚨
ThisReport877 | ThisReport877
Financial incompatibility leading to ultimatum. NTA.
toastedmarsh7 | toastedmarsh7
Fair prenup necessary for marriage and children, not unreasonable request. 👍
lifehappenedwhatnow | lifehappenedwhatnow
Beware of red flags in prenup agreements 🚨
recyclopath_ | recyclopath_
Suggests prenup or therapy before marrying a conspiracy theorist. 😬
pithair_dontcare | pithair_dontcare
Fair pre-nup needed for both, not just him. Don't sign.
LhasaApsoSmile | LhasaApsoSmile
Dump the groom-to-be who supports a slimebag trafficker 🙄
yeah_right_4685 | yeah_right_4685
Red flags abound, save yourself and leave now 🙄
sgoodie22 | sgoodie22
Internet stranger advises bride-to-be to run from toxic relationship.
Leslie_Galen | Leslie_Galen
End the engagement and find someone who trusts and respects you 👍
Kittytigris | Kittytigris
Long-term couple bickering about rent and infidelity, ESH 😑
StoneAgePrue | StoneAgePrue
Fiancé looks up to Andrew Tate; distrusts partner. NTA.
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A prenup is reasonable, but why marry someone with questionable taste?
Cannabis_CatSlave | Cannabis_CatSlave
Red flags and prenups: trust issues in this relationship. 👁
Agoraphobe961 | Agoraphobe961
Red flag: groom's views on dating and relationships are concerning 🚨
ZZartin | ZZartin
Protect your assets with a fair prenup 💍
survival-nut | survival-nut
Insisting on a pre-nup is fine, but his trust issues? 🤔 RUN!
DeshaMustFly | DeshaMustFly
NTA! Rabbit hole ultimatum = not marrying material 🚫
ChimoEngr | ChimoEngr
Protect your assets, but is he the right person? 🤔
Wise-Resist-4804 | Wise-Resist-4804
Why this person thinks a prenup is necessary for everyone 💍
Nacnaz | Nacnaz
NTA. Pre-nups protect both parties, but he sounds like a freeloader 🤔
antiquity_queen | antiquity_queen
NTA commenter warns against marrying someone interested in misogyny.
JennieGee | JennieGee
Red flags in the relationship: Misogynistic content consumption 😑
BackmarkerLife | BackmarkerLife
Savage yet smart. Get that prenup and secure the bag! 💰💪
Decent_Bandicoot122 | Decent_Bandicoot122
Savage advice on how to deal with a controlling partner 😎
Overall-Scholar-4676 | Overall-Scholar-4676
Prenup benefits both parties, not just the groom. 👍
cottonlavenderfairy | cottonlavenderfairy
Warning against marrying someone who makes jaw-dropping ultimatums 👀
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Protect yourself with prenups, but make sure it's fair. 🙌
Unusual_Season_7196 | Unusual_Season_7196
Dangerous ideology! 🚩 Run away from this groom-to-be 😠
Fun-Yellow-6576 | Fun-Yellow-6576
Debate on prenups and the reality of divorce settlements. 💍
lovestocomment | lovestocomment
A fair prenup could secure a future for all, including kids 👨🏻🎤
Responsible_Log_4595 | Responsible_Log_4595
Prenups are contracts, people need to know what they say. 💍
SushiGuacDNA | SushiGuacDNA
50/50 parenting doesn't work once kids are involved. NTA!
TelMeWutUReallyThink | TelMeWutUReallyThink
Questioning prenup validity and supporting NTA judgment 👍
PeriodSupply | PeriodSupply
Monumental red flag! This guy needs to be cut loose. 😠
verone3784 | verone3784
Red flags in the relationship. Consider breaking off engagement. 😕
Any-Refrigerator-966 | Any-Refrigerator-966
Protect your future with a prenup that benefits you too 👍
PlatformInevitable49 | PlatformInevitable49
Pre-nup recommended to protect yourself from this toxic partner. 👍
ChumpChainge | ChumpChainge
Warning signs of a controlling and selfish partner, NTA. 😠
LostInSpace-2245 | LostInSpace-2245
Red flags shouldn't be ignored. 😔
The_Human_One | The_Human_One
Red flags 🚩 everywhere, run for the hills 🏃♀️
Dachshundmom5 | Dachshundmom5
Serious red flag: groom's ultimatum sets unhealthy precedent. 🤔
justgottono | justgottono
NTA for not wanting to sign, but marrying him would be foolish 🤷♀️
OkBalance2879 | OkBalance2879
Groomzilla alert! Commenter advises to check if you're "high value".
abletofable | abletofable
Unrealistic expectations and incompatibility. He's not the one. ✨️
Liagirl1953 | Liagirl1953
Lawyer advises woman to leave misogynistic fiancé over prenup.
frolicndetour | frolicndetour
Beware of the Tater Tot 🥔 and his empty promises 🙅
redcolumbine | redcolumbine
Red flags through rose colored glasses. Leave him, girl! 👏
Dependent_Pen_6715 | Dependent_Pen_6715
Savage pre-nup demand in response to groom's ultimatum 😂
mudwoman | mudwoman
Prenups protect both parties and promote decision-making together. 👍
JustWordsInYourHead | JustWordsInYourHead
Choose a partner who sees you as an equal 👫️
Moemoe5 | Moemoe5
Savvy prenup negotiation tactics 🤔
SleepyKoalaBear4812 | SleepyKoalaBear4812
Gender inequality in divorce settlements discussed. OP is NTA.
Classic-Arugula2994 | Classic-Arugula2994
Reconsider your decision to marry him. Red flags are waving 🚨
Sweet-Ad-4724 | Sweet-Ad-4724
Prenups protect both, but his reasoning is a red flag 😑
Techlet9625 | Techlet9625
Groom's toxic masculinity shamed by NTA commenter and supported by replies
Frankieneedles | Frankieneedles
Consider counseling before agreeing to a prenup with red flags 😖
Timely_Concept8516 | Timely_Concept8516
