"Sign It or We're OVER!" - Groom's Jaw-Dropping Ultimatum 😠

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Diply | Diply

Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a juicy story that's sure to get your blood boiling! 😡 Our leading lady, a successful technical writer and manager, is engaged to her programmer beau. 💍 But there's trouble in paradise! 😱 Despite their loving relationship and financial equality, her fiancé is insisting on a prenup that seems to protect him more than her. 💸 Is he being influenced by controversial content, or is there more to this story? 🤔 Let's dive in and find out! 👀

💍 Engaged but Enraged! 😡

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💸 Money Matters: I Covered the Rent! 🏠

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🤨 Justifying the Unjustifiable? 🚫

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📺 Influenced by Controversial Content 🤔

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💔 A Breakup and a Bias 😕

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🤰 Baby on Board, but Prenup Overboard? 👶

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💬 Communicating Concerns 🗣️

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😲 Shocked by Accusations! 😱

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🤷‍♀️ AITAH for Refusing the Prenup? 🙅‍♀️

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😲 Prenup Predicament: Is He Preparing for Betrayal? 💔

Our leading lady is in a tough spot! 😰 She's contributed significantly to their finances, even covering rent when her fiancé was laid off. 💸 But now, he's insisting on a prenup that seems to favor him, despite their equal earnings. 🤨 His perspective seems influenced by controversial content, painting women as gold diggers. 😡 She's explained her concerns, including their plans for children and her likely increased domestic responsibilities. 🤰 But he's still pushing for the prenup, even accusing her of potentially cheating and taking his money! 😱 Is she the a-hole for refusing to sign, or is her fiancé's behavior a red flag? 🚩 Let's see what the internet has to say about this prenup predicament! 👀

Red flag alert: Misogynistic views on women and marriage 🚨

MistressFuzzylegs | MistressFuzzylegs

NTA commenter throws shade at groom's questionable advice source.

NorthwestPassenger | NorthwestPassenger

Bride-to-be receives support on not signing a pre-nup. 👍

hellerinahandbasket | hellerinahandbasket

Proactive approach to prenup can avoid ultimatums. 👍

Eve-3 | Eve-3

Demanding a fair share of housework and maternity pay 💪

Sea-Ad9057 | Sea-Ad9057

Secure your assets and lawyer up, NTA for demanding fairness 💪

RJack151 | RJack151

Concerns raised about groom's financial and gender views 🤔

potenttechnicality | potenttechnicality

NTA, but beware of his interests and reconsider your relationship.

CarbonS0ul | CarbonS0ul

Avoid men who follow Andrew Tate if you want a healthy relationship 👍

SaltyDangerHands | SaltyDangerHands

Worried about Andrew Tate? Run and cut your losses! NTA 👏

LissaBryan | LissaBryan

Prenups protect everyone, not just the wealthy. Get your own lawyer.

elizzup | elizzup

Planning to marry someone who thinks little of you? 🤔

cassowary32 | cassowary32

Warning signs of an abusive relationship, get out now 🚨

ThisReport877 | ThisReport877

Financial incompatibility leading to ultimatum. NTA.

toastedmarsh7 | toastedmarsh7

Fair prenup necessary for marriage and children, not unreasonable request. 👍

lifehappenedwhatnow | lifehappenedwhatnow

Beware of red flags in prenup agreements 🚨

recyclopath_ | recyclopath_

Suggests prenup or therapy before marrying a conspiracy theorist. 😬

pithair_dontcare | pithair_dontcare

Fair pre-nup needed for both, not just him. Don't sign.

LhasaApsoSmile | LhasaApsoSmile

Dump the groom-to-be who supports a slimebag trafficker 🙄

yeah_right_4685 | yeah_right_4685

Red flags abound, save yourself and leave now 🙄

sgoodie22 | sgoodie22

Internet stranger advises bride-to-be to run from toxic relationship.

Leslie_Galen | Leslie_Galen

End the engagement and find someone who trusts and respects you 👍

Kittytigris | Kittytigris

Long-term couple bickering about rent and infidelity, ESH 😑

StoneAgePrue | StoneAgePrue

Fiancé looks up to Andrew Tate; distrusts partner. NTA.

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A prenup is reasonable, but why marry someone with questionable taste?

Cannabis_CatSlave | Cannabis_CatSlave

Red flags and prenups: trust issues in this relationship. 👁

Agoraphobe961 | Agoraphobe961

Red flag: groom's views on dating and relationships are concerning 🚨

ZZartin | ZZartin

Protect your assets with a fair prenup 💍

survival-nut | survival-nut

Insisting on a pre-nup is fine, but his trust issues? 🤔 RUN!

DeshaMustFly | DeshaMustFly

NTA! Rabbit hole ultimatum = not marrying material 🚫

ChimoEngr | ChimoEngr

Protect your assets, but is he the right person? 🤔

Wise-Resist-4804 | Wise-Resist-4804

Why this person thinks a prenup is necessary for everyone 💍

Nacnaz | Nacnaz

NTA. Pre-nups protect both parties, but he sounds like a freeloader 🤔

antiquity_queen | antiquity_queen

NTA commenter warns against marrying someone interested in misogyny.

JennieGee | JennieGee

Red flags in the relationship: Misogynistic content consumption 😑

BackmarkerLife | BackmarkerLife

Savage yet smart. Get that prenup and secure the bag! 💰💪

Decent_Bandicoot122 | Decent_Bandicoot122

Savage advice on how to deal with a controlling partner 😎

Overall-Scholar-4676 | Overall-Scholar-4676

Prenup benefits both parties, not just the groom. 👍

cottonlavenderfairy | cottonlavenderfairy

Warning against marrying someone who makes jaw-dropping ultimatums 👀

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Protect yourself with prenups, but make sure it's fair. 🙌

Unusual_Season_7196 | Unusual_Season_7196

Dangerous ideology! 🚩 Run away from this groom-to-be 😠

Fun-Yellow-6576 | Fun-Yellow-6576

Debate on prenups and the reality of divorce settlements. 💍

lovestocomment | lovestocomment

A fair prenup could secure a future for all, including kids 👨🏻‍🎤

Responsible_Log_4595 | Responsible_Log_4595

Prenups are contracts, people need to know what they say. 💍

SushiGuacDNA | SushiGuacDNA

50/50 parenting doesn't work once kids are involved. NTA!

TelMeWutUReallyThink | TelMeWutUReallyThink

Questioning prenup validity and supporting NTA judgment 👍

PeriodSupply | PeriodSupply

Monumental red flag! This guy needs to be cut loose. 😠

verone3784 | verone3784

Red flags in the relationship. Consider breaking off engagement. 😕

Any-Refrigerator-966 | Any-Refrigerator-966

Protect your future with a prenup that benefits you too 👍

PlatformInevitable49 | PlatformInevitable49

Pre-nup recommended to protect yourself from this toxic partner. 👍

ChumpChainge | ChumpChainge

Warning signs of a controlling and selfish partner, NTA. 😠

LostInSpace-2245 | LostInSpace-2245

Red flags shouldn't be ignored. 😔

The_Human_One | The_Human_One

Red flags 🚩 everywhere, run for the hills 🏃‍♀️

Dachshundmom5 | Dachshundmom5

Serious red flag: groom's ultimatum sets unhealthy precedent. 🤔

justgottono | justgottono

NTA for not wanting to sign, but marrying him would be foolish 🤷‍♀️

OkBalance2879 | OkBalance2879

Groomzilla alert! Commenter advises to check if you're "high value".

abletofable | abletofable

Unrealistic expectations and incompatibility. He's not the one. ✨️

Liagirl1953 | Liagirl1953

Lawyer advises woman to leave misogynistic fiancé over prenup.

frolicndetour | frolicndetour

Beware of the Tater Tot 🥔 and his empty promises 🙅

redcolumbine | redcolumbine

Red flags through rose colored glasses. Leave him, girl! 👏

Dependent_Pen_6715 | Dependent_Pen_6715

Savage pre-nup demand in response to groom's ultimatum 😂

mudwoman | mudwoman

Prenups protect both parties and promote decision-making together. 👍

JustWordsInYourHead | JustWordsInYourHead

Choose a partner who sees you as an equal 👫️

Moemoe5 | Moemoe5

Savvy prenup negotiation tactics 🤔

SleepyKoalaBear4812 | SleepyKoalaBear4812

Gender inequality in divorce settlements discussed. OP is NTA.

Classic-Arugula2994 | Classic-Arugula2994

Reconsider your decision to marry him. Red flags are waving 🚨

Sweet-Ad-4724 | Sweet-Ad-4724

Prenups protect both, but his reasoning is a red flag 😑

Techlet9625 | Techlet9625

Groom's toxic masculinity shamed by NTA commenter and supported by replies

Frankieneedles | Frankieneedles

Consider counseling before agreeing to a prenup with red flags 😖

Timely_Concept8516 | Timely_Concept8516

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