🔔💍 Wedding bells or baby cries? 👶 That's the dilemma facing this soon-to-be-married couple! 💑 She's 26, he's 34, and they've got a house, stable jobs, and a wedding date set for June 2023. 📅 But wait, there's a twist! 😲 The bride-to-be wants to postpone baby-making until after the big day, so she can enjoy her wedding to the fullest. 🍾👰 Her fiancé? Not so thrilled about the idea. 😕 Let's dive into this couple's conundrum and see if we can help them find a solution! 🤔
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This bride-to-be is caught between her desire to fully enjoy her wedding day and her fiancé's eagerness to start a family ASAP. She's worried about the potential discomforts of pregnancy interfering with her big day, 🤰😫 while he doesn't want to be an older dad. They've got a refundable venue reservation for June 2023, but the groom's not keen on postponing. The bride's even willing to push the wedding to 2024, but her fiancé's not having it. It's a classic case of conflicting priorities, and emotions are running high! Can this couple find a middle ground that works for both of them? Let's see what the internet has to say about this tricky situation!
Prioritizing children over venue may lead to compromises. Best luck! 🙏
tjk5150 | tjk5150
Take control of your body! Reconsider wedding and kids altogether.
Electrical_Treat_591 | Electrical_Treat_591
Delaying baby for big day: NTA for bride-to-be
BoopsBoop27 | BoopsBoop27
Marriage before baby, NTA suggests. Don't let him guilt you. 😊
crazycatlady45325 | crazycatlady45325
Pregnancy + wedding = super stressful. NTA for postponing.
mahmcore | mahmcore
Unanimous decision needed for baby plans, NTA commenter says. 👍
seregil42 | seregil42
Prioritizing wedding over pregnancy, NTA advises communication and reevaluation. 👍
Odd-Cloud-6838 | Odd-Cloud-6838
Reevaluate the relationship, having kids with him may be regretful 😔
[deleted] | [deleted]
Don't forget birth control, prioritize self-respect and desires. NTA 😊
TheQuietType84 | TheQuietType84
Sad reflection of society's priorities around marriage and children. 😔
JanuarySmith1234 | JanuarySmith1234
Delaying pregnancy for wedding isn't selfish, it's responsible. 👍
Chelular07 | Chelular07
Compromise is key in a relationship 💔
stseomfs | stseomfs
User defends waiting to have kids until after marriage, questions fiancé's understanding 🤔
IamForester | IamForester
Delay the baby, save extra and enjoy the wedding! 😊
Opposite_Elk_5479 | Opposite_Elk_5479
Compromise on the wedding date and location for both to win 👍
NightBard | NightBard
NAH. Couple disagrees on wedding vs kids. Whose opinion matters more? 🤔
BeJane759 | BeJane759
Age shouldn't be a reason to pressure someone into having kids. #NTA 👍
Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1
Pregnant commenter shares personal experience, advises bride to prioritize health.
the_orig_princess | the_orig_princess
Supportive comment advises bride-to-be on wedding priorities and questions groom's motives 👍
speckledgem | speckledgem
Mother defends bride's decision to postpone baby for wedding day
can_you_not_85 | can_you_not_85
Suggestion for Bride: Courthouse wedding, postpone party until 2024 👨🍳
Erythronne | Erythronne
Age is just a number, right? 🤔 Fiancé's argument debunked.
QueenMaryJ | QueenMaryJ
Planning a wedding while pregnant can be tough. NTA here 👏
To_Go_Back1984 | To_Go_Back1984
Choosing when to have a baby is personal, enjoy your day! 💓
haasje83 | haasje83
Prioritizing wedding over pregnancy: NTA comment shuts down fiancé's demands
ScarletDarkstar | ScarletDarkstar
Age doesn't matter. Wedding should be about marriage, not baby.
susanbarron33 | susanbarron33
Delaying baby for wedding: pregnant commenter suggests waiting is smarter 👍
oddly-sweet | oddly-sweet
Wedding stress + pregnancy stress = not worth it. NTA 👍
liligram | liligram
Pregnant commenter recommends waiting to get married after birth 🐷
skullsnroses66 | skullsnroses66
Delaying pregnancy for wedding - relatable NTA bride comment. 🙌
rycbar99 | rycbar99
Delaying pregnancy for wedding makes sense, partner not understanding. NTA 👍
findthecircle | findthecircle
Pregnant commenter suggests simpler wedding plan to tick all boxes 😊
criticalgraffiti | criticalgraffiti
Options for older fiancé torn between wedding and kids. 👨👦👩👧
Important_Sprinkles9 | Important_Sprinkles9
Bride faces lack of empathy from older fiancé over wedding plans 😢
mandichaos | mandichaos
Empowering response to bride's decision to postpone pregnancy for wedding
[deleted] | [deleted]
Pregnancy during wedding ruined honeymoon for commenter, NTA.
Corduroycat1 | Corduroycat1
NTA. Both need to get on same page before proceeding. 👍
an0nym0uswr1ter | an0nym0uswr1ter
Delaying baby for wedding? NTA advises on child care roles.
EmmalouEsq | EmmalouEsq
Whoopsie baby before wedding, still had a great time! NTA 😊
Flustered-Flump | Flustered-Flump
Fiancé's age shouldn't ruin wedding plans. Response was harsh. ❌
DRTvL | DRTvL
Savage response to older fiancé, but justified? 🤔💔
SuzeClues | SuzeClues
User expresses disbelief at tying themselves to partner after 3 yrs, NTA
ilikeexploring | ilikeexploring
Pregnant at wedding: a personal experience with a NTA verdict. 😊
Ok_Surround6561 | Ok_Surround6561
Planning a wedding and a baby at the same time? NTA 🙌
KaleOk833 | KaleOk833
Experienced dad advises to wait till after marriage. NTA.
Fatefire | Fatefire
Suggests smaller wedding before baby for bigger celebration later. 😊🎉
Allalngthewatchtwer | Allalngthewatchtwer
Choosing wedding over baby? NTA shares her experience 🤰🏻
Ok_Ring_9843 | Ok_Ring_9843
Pregnancy and wedding don't mix. NTA for wanting child-free celebration. 😊
Hour_Context_99 | Hour_Context_99
Support for delaying kids due to rude fiancé 💔
calystarose | calystarose
Skipping pregnancy for wedding? NTA says a pregnant bride-to-be.
alyssinelysium | alyssinelysium
Prioritize your own needs first, enjoy your wedding and stand firm. 👍
Divine18 | Divine18
Planning life around pregnancy is uncertain. NTA.
IndyEpi5127 | IndyEpi5127
Age gap relationships scrutinized yet again. NTA, but...
WizardOfTheMacabre | WizardOfTheMacabre
Delaying baby for wedding? NTA says they did the same.
Ok-Working-621 | Ok-Working-621
Bride-to-be considering postponing baby for wedding, commenter advises against it 💍👶
not_your_huckelberry | not_your_huckelberry
Don't need a wedding to get drunk, NTA for postponing.
neeksknowsbest | neeksknowsbest
Planning to postpone baby for wedding: NTA explains why
Potential_Instance66 | Potential_Instance66
Delaying pregnancy for wedding dress fittings, NTA says commenter. 😊
uninvitedfriend | uninvitedfriend
Pregnancy isn't always easy, weddings are stressful. Compromise or delay. NTA 👍
RonLauren | RonLauren
Having a baby at 42? Piece of cake! 😂
somethingclever1712 | somethingclever1712
Pregnancy during wedding stressful, need supportive partner. Don't do it!
Zoranealsequence | Zoranealsequence
Postponing baby for wedding? One commenter shares her tough experience. 🤷🏼♀️
[deleted] | [deleted]
Age-gap couple faces baby postponement dilemma, compromise needed. 👨👩👤👤
Expensive-Network-93 | Expensive-Network-93
Postponing baby for wedding: NTA for wanting to enjoy it 🎉
jamwarn | jamwarn
Pregnancy can be a horror to endure 😱
Careful-Attitude1103 | Careful-Attitude1103
Considerations for starting a family before the wedding. 👨👩👤
FuzzyLantern | FuzzyLantern
Pregnancy is unpredictable and planning a wedding is stressful. NTA.
lisiinwonderland | lisiinwonderland
Delaying pregnancy for wedding - one woman's experience. 😂🤰
[deleted] | [deleted]
Pregnancy is hard enough, prioritize your health and well-being! 🙌
Angelface201 | Angelface201
Avoiding pregnancy at wedding is understandable. NTA.
cecilpenny | cecilpenny
Wedding while pregnant: fond memories but some misery & irritation.
Competitive_Tale_799 | Competitive_Tale_799
Bride and Fiancé have different priorities for their future 😔
shdjdjsoslzxbxh | shdjdjsoslzxbxh
Wedding planning > pregnancy stress. Postpone baby, NTA.
Maiidesuu | Maiidesuu
NTA's valid concerns about wedding day vs pregnancy; reasonable compromise suggested 👍
herro1801012 | herro1801012
Pregnant commenter shares the challenging reality of first trimester 🤷🏼♀️
EnsignnGeneric | EnsignnGeneric
Wedding and pregnancy don't mix, NTA made the right choice. 🙌
sideofranch | sideofranch
Enjoying your own wedding is a valid reason for waiting 😊
DiscyPratik | DiscyPratik
Age is just a number! Being an older dad is common 👍
herculepoirot4ever | herculepoirot4ever
Pregnancy can be unpredictable, NTA for wanting to postpone. 🙏
rocksparadox4414 | rocksparadox4414
Bride-to-be receives support for wanting to postpone baby for wedding 👏
thc1121 | thc1121
Eloping while pregnant - beautiful but could've been better 😅
Character_Doubt_2497 | Character_Doubt_2497
Pregnancy is tough, valid to prioritize wedding. Vulnerability to illness.
Individual_Baby_2418 | Individual_Baby_2418
Wedding planning + pregnancy sounds like a recipe for disaster 🤢🤮🤢🤮 NTA, hope fiancé understands.
ccl-now | ccl-now
Pregnancy at a major life event like wedding? Move either.
horticulturallatin | horticulturallatin
Compromise is key! Being an older parent has its perks 👍
Mysterious_Carpet121 | Mysterious_Carpet121
Pregnant bride-to-be gets a pass to vomit on groom. 😂
naraic- | naraic-
Bride defends decision to postpone baby, shares pregnancy experiences.
no_high_only_low | no_high_only_low
Rescheduling wedding for baby is exhausting, unpredictable. NTA.
Intelligent-Ad-7527 | Intelligent-Ad-7527
NTA. Reasonable planning. 💍🤰🏻♀️📅 Best of luck!
Shells613 | Shells613
Prioritizing baby over wedding. NTA. 👑
Nikkiistar | Nikkiistar
