🕒 Girlfriend Left Behind for Taking Too Long to Get Ready - Right or Wrong? 🤔

Diply Social Team
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We've all been there - waiting for someone to get ready while the clock keeps ticking. But what happens when being fashionably late goes too far? Meet our protagonist, who had to make a tough decision when her girlfriend, Hannah, took too long to get ready for a wedding. 🕒💍 With the ceremony starting at 2pm and a 2-hour drive ahead, our protagonist made it clear that they needed to leave by 11am. But as the minutes ticked by, Hannah was still far from ready...

The Wedding Invitation 💌

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Hannah's Plus-One Opportunity 🥳

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The Time Crunch ⏳

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Hannah's Beauty Routine 💄

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The Countdown Begins ⏰

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Tensions Rise 😬

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11am Arrives 🚨

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Panic Sets In 😰

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The Ultimatum ⌛

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Hannah's Disbelief 😂

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The Departure 🚗

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Hannah's Reaction 😡

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The Accusations Fly 🗣️

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The Silent Treatment 🤐

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Was Our Protagonist Justified or Just Plain Mean? 🤷

So, our protagonist left Hannah behind because she took too long to get ready for the wedding, despite multiple warnings. After the ceremony, Hannah accused her of being obsessed with being early and called her a selfish jerk. Now, Hannah is giving her the silent treatment and our protagonist is left questioning if she was in the wrong. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...🔥💬

NTA. Google maps can't predict accidents or traffic. Disrespectful behavior.

Glass_Status_5837 | Glass_Status_5837

NTA. Time management is important, especially for important events. ⏰

JazzyKnowsBest13 | JazzyKnowsBest13

Leaving on time is important, NTA for sticking to schedule. ⌛

Used_Mark_7911 | Used_Mark_7911

Early bird catches the wife 🐦👰

Lazy_Instruction572 | Lazy_Instruction572

Arriving late to a ceremony, NTA for leaving girlfriend behind. ⏰

Ducky818 | Ducky818

Patience is key, but an hour is pushing it. NTA 👍

OrganicMartini | OrganicMartini

NTA for leaving after waiting 30 mins for unprepared girlfriend 🤷‍♂️

jrm1102 | jrm1102

Partner's lack of respect for important event shows red flag. #NTA

thebabes2 | thebabes2

NTA. Support for punctuality and against needless fuss over appearance. 👏

nikkesen | nikkesen

NTA, girlfriend needs to improve time management for events. ⏰

happylurker233 | happylurker233

NTA. Chronic lateness is selfish and self-centered. Good for you!

Travel-bug29 | Travel-bug29

Good time management is key. NTA for leaving on time. ⏰

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Partner's lack of consideration for time may be a red flag ⏳

Ok-Entrepreneur61 | Ok-Entrepreneur61

An NTA commenter shares their experience with anxiety and being late.

joinedtosaythisnow | joinedtosaythisnow

Setting expectations and boundaries for punctuality - NTA 👍

DamnThaniel | DamnThaniel

Respect for time is key, NTA for leaving on time ⏰

AshlynM2 | AshlynM2

NTA for leaving girlfriend behind due to her tardiness 🔥


Anxiety-inducing situations: NTA for valuing punctuality over tardiness. 😱

Frenchpoirot | Frenchpoirot

Struggling with being late, but NTA for not making others wait ⏰

BowzersMom | BowzersMom

NTA. Communication and compromise are key in any relationship. 👍

Attirey | Attirey

NTA. Clear communication and boundaries were set, she ignored them. 👍

Tim-oBedlam | Tim-oBedlam

Partner's tardiness is disrespectful. NTA for standing up.

diminishingpatience | diminishingpatience

Respectful of your time 💪 NTA, punctuality is important.

demonmonkey1313 | demonmonkey1313

NTA for leaving, but dump your GF seems harsh 😬

Responsible-Mall2222 | Responsible-Mall2222

Respect your partner's time or face the consequences 😤⏰

DisneyLove1995 | DisneyLove1995

Don't be late for special events, NTA. 🕰️

NerdySwampWitch40 | NerdySwampWitch40

When you're late, you accept the consequences. NTA.

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👀 Hannah's controlling behavior called out by commenter.

MariaInconnu | MariaInconnu

Respecting time is important, NTA. No one likes waiting ⏳

WookieMonster6 | WookieMonster6

Hairdresser calls out girlfriend's selfish behavior, suggests car makeup.

Content-Hair-6706 | Content-Hair-6706

Arriving early brings relaxation and compatibility is often overlooked. NTA.

troublesomefaux | troublesomefaux

Setting boundaries and following through is key. 👍

bookynerdworm | bookynerdworm

Struggling with chronic lateness, but taking responsibility and working on it. NTA.

Merps_Galore | Merps_Galore

Missing a wedding for being late? NTA, but priorities matter.

MPBoomBoom22 | MPBoomBoom22

Respect and communication are key in any relationship 💌

PleaseCoffeeMe | PleaseCoffeeMe

Partner's chronic lateness causes breakup. NTA for leaving on time. 💯

Jmm1272 | Jmm1272

Getting ready for events can take hours, NTA for waiting.

Meowl2611 | Meowl2611

Lesson not learned: NTA comment on tardy girlfriend.

painted_unicorn | painted_unicorn

Respect is key. ⏰ NTA for setting boundaries.

Amazing_Door5774 | Amazing_Door5774

NTA, but is it worth leaving your girlfriend behind? 🤔

BunbunmamaCA | BunbunmamaCA

NTA! Commenter sympathizes with OP and suggests confrontation with girlfriend.

Gynotarian | Gynotarian

Girlfriend's tardiness causes rift, commenter says NTA 🕰️

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🕐 Time management is key. Girlfriend not valuing your time.

Ahseid | Ahseid

Being habitually late is a pet peeve. NTA for leaving.

raingardener_22 | raingardener_22

Partner threatens to leave if girlfriend doesn't hurry up. NTA.

Final_Figure_7150 | Final_Figure_7150

Inconsiderate girlfriend intentionally sabotages plans, causing panic 😒

Ecstatic-Log-4546 | Ecstatic-Log-4546

Being punctual is important, but leaving someone behind is harsh 😬

iamfuegomego | iamfuegomego

Girlfriend's tardiness causes rift on cousin's special day. NTA.

Affectionate-Can-279 | Affectionate-Can-279

Being punctual is important, NTA. 🕰️

perfectly_imperfec | perfectly_imperfec

When your family is always late and you're done with it 😤 NTA

crmom22 | crmom22

Girlfriend prioritized herself over important event. NTA, but red flag 👍

Individual-Fail4709 | Individual-Fail4709

🚪 Priorities out of order? End the relationship. NTA.

boogers19 | boogers19

Girlfriend takes too long to get ready, leaves on time. NTA

Weird-Roll6265 | Weird-Roll6265

Reminding her for an hour and waiting for 30 minutes? NTA 👏

NowWithMoreChocolate | NowWithMoreChocolate

👀 Don't ignore the disrespect. NTA for setting boundaries.

NoeTellusom | NoeTellusom

Being late is disrespectful, commenter sympathizes with OP. 🙏

ilyellaxox | ilyellaxox

Respect is key 🔑 NTA for not apologizing.

Beth21286 | Beth21286

Being late is disrespectful, but is it a dealbreaker? 🤔

ironblondies | ironblondies

Respectful of your time, NTA. She deserved to be left. 💯

Connect-Yam5209 | Connect-Yam5209

Partner's lack of time management causes rift before ceremony ⏳️

FlyGuy1922 | FlyGuy1922

Respectful communication, timed warnings, and still NTA. 👍

Flashy-Promise-6915 | Flashy-Promise-6915

OP sets time limit, extends, then leaves. Hannah learns lesson 😂


NTA. ADHD can make time management difficult. Girlfriend had enough time.

justlurkingnjudging | justlurkingnjudging

NTA. 30 minutes is more than enough time to get ready 😂

CuriousPenguinSocks | CuriousPenguinSocks

Partner takes too long to get ready, NTA for leaving.

YellowstoneBitch | YellowstoneBitch

NTA. Getting ready in the car is a common thing 😉

Sea_Help_5556 | Sea_Help_5556

Don't waste your time waiting for selfish partners. NTA 👍

Fancy_Avocado7497 | Fancy_Avocado7497

Being punctual is important, NTA for valuing time and boundaries. ⏰

ChargeFluffy8515 | ChargeFluffy8515

Anxiety-inducing situation, NTA, good communication, potential bullet dodged 👍

boobearmomma | boobearmomma

Generous extra 30 mins not enough, NTA for leaving her 👍

breathemusic14 | breathemusic14

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