😠 "I Won't Pay!" - Widow Denies 💸 to Husband's Secret Baby

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Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a juicy story that's sure to get your blood boiling! 😡 Imagine finding out at your husband's funeral that he had a pregnant mistress on the side. 😱 Talk about a shocking revelation! 💔 Well, that's exactly what happened to our 52-year-old protagonist. 🙋‍♀️ She's in quite the predicament and needs our help to figure out if she's being an a-hole or not. 🤔 Get ready for a wild ride filled with drama, betrayal, and some tough decisions! 🎢

💔 A Shocking Revelation at the Funeral 😱

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🧐 Demanding Proof Before Paying a Cent 💸

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🏠 Rent-Free Living with Conditions 📝

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👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Leaving it to the In-Laws to Handle 🤝

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⏰ Fast Forward 12 Years Later... 🏥

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🙅‍♀️ Sticking to the Original Agreement 📜

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😠 Accused of Being a Monster 👹

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🏥 Using the Trust Fund for Medical Bills 💸

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💰 No Replenishing the Trust Fund 🚫

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🤷‍♀️ Straight Forward from the Start 😤

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🇺🇸 Additional Context: American Middle-Class 💰

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💸 Financial Situation at the Time of Death 📊

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⚖️ Mistress' Legal Options Were Limited 🏛️

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🏠 Rental Property Solely in OP's Name 🔑

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👪 In-Laws Unaware of Full Details 🤫

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💰 Additional Funds from Accident Settlement 🚗

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🔥 Internet Weighs In: Is OP an A-Hole for Not Replenishing Affair Child's College Fund? 🤑

Well, well, well... looks like our protagonist has found herself in quite the pickle! 🥒 After agreeing to set up a college trust for her late husband's affair child and letting them live rent-free, she's now facing backlash for not replenishing the trust after it was used for medical bills. 🏥💸 The mistress is calling her a monster, but OP's standing her ground. 😤 She even plans to start charging rent! 🏠💰 Her in-laws think it's unfair to the child, but OP says the mistress had plenty of time to figure something out. 🤷‍♀️ So, let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama! 🍿 Is OP being too harsh, or is she justified in her actions? 🤔 Get ready for some sizzling hot takes! 🔥

Family members won't help but expect you to pay? NTA 💯

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NTA- Widow hoping for a free ride, but you fulfilled agreement 👍

danirdaniels | danirdaniels

Widow honored husband's child, but has no obligation to provide now. NTA 👍

Gonebabythoughts | Gonebabythoughts

Empathetic support for NTA in a terrible situation. 👍

drunkonmartinis | drunkonmartinis

Not her responsibility. Education fund is enough. NTA 🙌

Maddie215 | Maddie215

NTA. Widow's generosity taken advantage of by entitled mistress. 💯

hexgirlthorn | hexgirlthorn

Protecting an innocent life, NTA deserves a medal 🏅

Christwriter | Christwriter

NTA for not wanting to financially support husband's affair child 💰

SolemnDignity | SolemnDignity

NTA. You've handled it well, keep standing your ground 👊

LimeBasilMandarinYum | LimeBasilMandarinYum

NTA. Sleeping with unavailable people never ends well 🤷🏽‍♀️. You don't owe them anything 👍.

Princesstiy | Princesstiy

NTA. Widow is a martyr for letting husband's mistress live rent-free.

Lorinthia | Lorinthia

NTA. MIL and SIL can contribute to the illegitimate child.

TiberiusClegane | TiberiusClegane

Generosity has limits, NTA, not your responsibility 👍

justslightlyparanoid | justslightlyparanoid

No obligation to pay for secret child after age 18 👍

Froggetpwagain | Froggetpwagain

Calculating the cost of raising a child, NTA stands strong. 💪

raebz12 | raebz12

Widow not responsible for husband's secret baby's college fund. NTA 😊

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Generous widow denies 💸 to husband's secret baby. NTA, MIL and SIL should contribute 💰

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NTA. Don't give them a cent more, they're entitled enough. 🙄

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Widow's decision to not pay for secret baby questioned 🤔

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NTA. Widow not obligated to give more money to secret baby.

LivelyUnicorn | LivelyUnicorn

Get a lawyer's advice since the child may inherit property.

horsendogguy | horsendogguy

Widow's generosity questioned in husband's secret baby situation 🤔

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Generous widow denies financial support to entitled tenant 💯

madisengreen | madisengreen

Living rent-free for 18 years and still ungrateful? 🤦‍♀️ NTA

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NTA commenter slams mistress for wanting tuition reimbursement. 🤪

Numb3r3dDays | Numb3r3dDays

Generous widow in baby secret dispute is NTA, commenters agree.

dr-sparkle | dr-sparkle

Stand your ground, you don't owe his mistress and kid 💩. NTA.

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👏 Standing up for herself and refusing to clean up his mess. #NTA

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Honesty is the best policy, NTA 🙌🏼

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Stand your ground! You don't owe them a thing 💪

Nebsy_Websy | Nebsy_Websy

Widow stands her ground and shuts down husband's family. 💪

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Widow gets support for not paying rent to husband's mistress 👏

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A commenter questions what the widow did with the money 💰

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Generous widow denies husband's secret baby, NTA, in-laws should help.

Good_crisps_73 | Good_crisps_73

NTA. Calculate free rent, give rental contract, start eviction proceedings. 👍

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Widow gets support for denying 💸 to husband's secret baby

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Unfair mistress rights, but widow praised for her strength 💪

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Widow praised for setting up college fund despite husband's infidelity 👏

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Widow's entitlement questioned. NTA verdict.

ConfusedFanGirl0502 | ConfusedFanGirl0502

NTA for denying to pay for child's emergency expenses. 💸

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Widow's financial generosity taken for granted by husband's affair child

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Curious commenter questions widow's financial choices and advises MIL and SIL

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Generous gesture or not, NTA for refusing to pay.

PMyra | PMyra

Not your responsibility anymore. Let his family help her 👍

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Widow's decision to stop paying for secret baby sparks debate ⚖️

InfamousFail7 | InfamousFail7

Generous gesture or not, NTA for not supporting secret baby.

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Widow justified in denying husband's secret family inheritance. NTA 👍

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Widow receives support for refusing to pay for secret child's inheritance 👍

Skyaire1446 | Skyaire1446

🙌 Widow is NTA for denying husband's secret baby inheritance.

missmackattack | missmackattack

Widow refuses to pay for husband's secret baby's education 💰👶

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Stand your ground! MIL and SIL should make up for it 💪

TypicalManagement680 | TypicalManagement680

Generous offer rejected, entitled behavior exposed. NTA 👍

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Doubts about legitimacy of husband's secret child, but no obligation.

Skarvha | Skarvha

Widow's decision to not pay for husband's secret baby sparks debate 💰

ItzLog | ItzLog

🤯 Medical bills and college expenses are insane in America

NMe84 | NMe84

NTA. Finite money used. No relation to the child. She'll be fine 👌

NuggetsMummy | NuggetsMummy

👏 Widow went above and beyond for husband's secret child.

jewelz11 | jewelz11

Stand your ground and don't pay 💪 You're NTA

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NTA: Widow denies responsibility for husband's secret baby 👶

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User questions widow's financial struggles despite free living arrangements. 🤔

Alluminn | Alluminn

NTA. A clean break is the best solution 🚫💰

depressivedarkling | depressivedarkling

NTA seeks legal help to stop contact from husband's secret baby.

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Compassionate comment applauds OP for standing up for herself and child 👏

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Support denied! Commenter refuses to fund husband's secret baby. 👊

JudgementalSyrup | JudgementalSyrup

Don't pay for husband's secret baby- family can cover it. #NTA

ILoatheCailou | ILoatheCailou

NTA! Widow denies to pay for husband's secret baby expenses.

Shejuan01 | Shejuan01

Widow refuses to pay for husband's secret child, commenters support

DarthTJ | DarthTJ

🙌 Widow praised for standing up to judgmental family members

007nevermore | 007nevermore

NTA: Widow criticized for not paying, but had no obligation.

DepressedPennies | DepressedPennies

Generous widow receives backlash for not paying husband's secret baby

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NTA, you owe nothing to your husband's mistress or her child 👍

klcampy2244 | klcampy2244

Widow's entitlement questioned, but still NTA for not paying rent 🤔

niamhk13 | niamhk13

Boundaries should be set early to avoid entitlement issues later 👍

innerhellhound | innerhellhound

Smart thinking! It's always better to have a contract 👍

Morrigan-71 | Morrigan-71

NTA. But seek legal advice. Not your kid, not your responsibility.

Danmont88 | Danmont88

NTA: Give her notice to vacate and speak to a lawyer 👍

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