Thanksgiving DRAMA: Sister Considers Skipping After Brother's Hurtful Wedding Snub 😢

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🎭 Family drama alert! 🚨 Buckle up, folks, because we've got a doozy of a story for you today. 😳 Our protagonist, the ever-hopeful older sibling, had high hopes for a blossoming brotherly bond when they moved to the same city as their younger bro. 🌇 But oh, how those dreams were dashed! 💔 From being left out of the wedding party to being served allergy-inducing cookies, it's been one disappointment after another. 😞 Now, with Thanksgiving on the horizon, our hero faces a tough decision: face the awkwardness head-on or opt-out altogether? 🤔 Let's dive in and see how this family fiasco unfolds! 🍿

👨‍👩‍👦 Family Ties Unraveling? 😢

elmangosto | elmangosto

🤝 Brotherly Bond or Bust? 🤷‍♂️

elmangosto | elmangosto

🌟 Visions of Brotherly Bonding Dashed 💔

elmangosto | elmangosto

😞 Feelings Hurt, Expectations Lowered 📉

elmangosto | elmangosto

👰🤵 Wedding Woes: No Party for You! 🚫

elmangosto | elmangosto

😳 Surprise! It's a Wedding Party After All! 😲

elmangosto | elmangosto

🎩 The Mystery of the Mismatched Ties 🕵️‍♂️

elmangosto | elmangosto

😱 Shock and Awe: The Nonexistent Wedding Party Appears! 🎭

elmangosto | elmangosto

💔 Left Out and Left Behind 😢

elmangosto | elmangosto

😵 Out-of-Body Experience at the Wedding 👻

elmangosto | elmangosto

📸 Picture Perfect? More Like Picture Pathetic 😔

elmangosto | elmangosto

🍪 No Cookies for You! 🚫🍪

elmangosto | elmangosto

😞 Dessert Disappointment: Not Even a Warning 😢

elmangosto | elmangosto

✉️ The Boundary-Setting Letter 📨

elmangosto | elmangosto

🦃 Thanksgiving Troubles: To Go or Not to Go? 🤔

elmangosto | elmangosto

😱 Sibling Showdown: The Thanksgiving Dilemma! 🦃

Well, well, well... it looks like our protagonist is caught between a rock and a hard place! 😬 After being left out of their brother's wedding in the most brutal way possible 💔, they're now faced with the prospect of a Thanksgiving dinner that's sure to be more awkward than a middle school dance. 😳 To make matters worse, the newlyweds are bringing reinforcements in the form of friends, leaving our hero feeling outnumbered and out of place. 😞 So, what's a sibling to do? 🤔 Grin and bear it for the sake of family harmony, or take a stand and opt-out of the festivities altogether? 🍂 It's a tough call, but one thing's for sure: this Thanksgiving is going to be anything but boring! 🍿 Let's see what the internet has to say about this family drama... 👀

Sister considers skipping Thanksgiving after wedding snub 😔

CompleteInsect8373 | CompleteInsect8373

Brother lied, OP forcing relationship, letter was petty. ESH 💩

Swirlyflurry | Swirlyflurry

Savage but true: commenter calls out OP's entitlement and need for therapy 🤣

[deleted] | [deleted]

Petty family drama over missing gold tie at wedding. ESH.

SwimmingCritical | SwimmingCritical

Harsh but honest comment suggests therapy for hurtful wedding snub.

herdingcats2020 | herdingcats2020

🤦‍♂️ OP's entitlement is off the charts, YTA.

SweetPotatoFamished | SweetPotatoFamished

NTA for not going but YTA for dramatic behavior 🤦‍♀️

SlinkyMalinky20 | SlinkyMalinky20

User calls out sister for expecting too much from brother.

Equivalent_Collar_59 | Equivalent_Collar_59

Don't skip Thanksgiving, bring a friend as a buffer 🍕

Hallzaki | Hallzaki

User gently calls out OP's entitlement and lack of effort 👍

HauntedReader | HauntedReader

Sibling drama: Should she skip Thanksgiving over a wedding snub?

angelaheidt | angelaheidt

Let it go! YTA for holding a grudge 🙄

sunfloweries | sunfloweries

Accepting your brother's disinterest is hard, but necessary. NTA 😢

Fenriswolf_9 | Fenriswolf_9

Sibling rift over wedding snub - advice for reconciliation 💔

HellaShelle | HellaShelle

Don't skip Thanksgiving over a small bridal party snub 😜

Leahthevagabond | Leahthevagabond

Sibling drama at its finest. YTA with a fragile ego.

panic_bread | panic_bread

Stop being petty and selfish, YTA. It's not about you. 🤷‍♀️

Wide-Bee7783 | Wide-Bee7783

Soft ESH verdict with advice for polite Thanksgiving visit 🤗

An_Acetic_Alpaca | An_Acetic_Alpaca

Don't miss Thanksgiving with your parents over this. YTA 😕🍗

misconceptions_annoy | misconceptions_annoy

User suggests the sister's actions are bordering on AH territory.

pnutbuttercups56 | pnutbuttercups56

Sibling's hurtful wedding snub and family drama - YTA territory 😢

Odd-End-1405 | Odd-End-1405

Harsh but fair reply, Thanksgiving drama is not worth it 🥴

[deleted] | [deleted]

Not close with brother, gold tie/blue tie snub not surprising 🙄

Mr_Ham_Man80 | Mr_Ham_Man80

Harsh but fair. Setting boundaries over not being a groomsman? 🤷‍♂️

MissionRevolution306 | MissionRevolution306

ESH, but OP's pain is understandable. Family drama sucks. 😞

CodeMonkeyChico | CodeMonkeyChico

NTA for feeling hurt and lied to about wedding party.

Lazuli_Rose | Lazuli_Rose

Sibling feud over wedding snub escalates to Thanksgiving drama 😬


Don't let hurt feelings ruin family relationships on Thanksgiving 🥳

einsteinGO | einsteinGO

Let go of entitlement over his wedding day 😒

WhichConsideration4 | WhichConsideration4

Blood doesn't always mean family, move on and enjoy Thanksgiving 🥳

mrsadamc05 | mrsadamc05

Sibling drama at its finest 🙄 YTA gets called out

Allthelostcauses | Allthelostcauses

Ouch! Harsh YTA comment, but maybe they have a point?

Prechrchet | Prechrchet

Brother's wedding isn't about you. Don't make it selfish. ESH/YTA.

macraet | macraet

Sometimes it's okay to skip family events 😒

NewbieNum | NewbieNum

OP is called out for expecting too much and being childish 😒

Life4rent | Life4rent

Siblings not friends, NAH. Going to Thanksgiving is your choice. 🤷‍♀️

ReactionRepulsive | ReactionRepulsive

Judgment leans towards YTA, but ESH for lying about it.

AdHistorical7082 | AdHistorical7082

Don't be a controlling sibling, let your brother live his life 🤷‍♀️

Matelot67 | Matelot67

Brother's wedding isn't about you. Overreaction justifies lying. YTA 😒

cheekmo_52 | cheekmo_52

Brother didn't invite him to wedding party, commenter calls him sensitive. 🤔

Yiayia_Ioanna | Yiayia_Ioanna

User calls out sister for being a huge A H for expecting brother to exclude his own wedding party and skips Thanksgiving. No replies.

Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze

Respectful perspective: NAH. Attend if you want, skip if not.

ElectronicRub1716 | ElectronicRub1716

Opting out of Thanksgiving and giving reasons is passive-aggressive. 🤷‍♀️

bearbear407 | bearbear407

"I wouldn't treat him that way" is not a valid standard 😢

Treefrog_Ninja | Treefrog_Ninja

A commenter shares their personal experience and calls out OP's behavior. YTA 🤷‍♀️

Usual_Complaint_1764 | Usual_Complaint_1764

Wedding snub or not, YTA for considering skipping Thanksgiving.

hellofuckingjulie | hellofuckingjulie

A commenter thinks the sister is acting like a drama queen 😢

i-fucked-up135 | i-fucked-up135

Communication is key in resolving family conflicts 👥

juicy_belly | juicy_belly

NTA. Your feelings are valid, but consider letting it go. 🤔

magpiecat | magpiecat

Harsh comment shuts down hurt sister's valid feelings. 😞

lmyrs | lmyrs

Don't write angry letters, you may regret it later 😜

flipperbrain | flipperbrain

Don't ruin Thanksgiving over perceived slights, focus on family 🙌

Amberandrambo | Amberandrambo

Confused commenter calls out sister's entitled behavior with sarcasm 😒

SlayBoredom | SlayBoredom

A harsh but fair judgement of a brother's entitled behavior 😬

Previous-Bowler-1327 | Previous-Bowler-1327

User calls out commenter for being absent in brother's life. YTA 😬

CopaCaBabe | CopaCaBabe

Sibling advised to be the bigger person and communicate calmly 👍

MoxieCottonRules | MoxieCottonRules

Take responsibility for your own relationship, don't blame your brother 🤔

philemon23 | philemon23

Sibling feud escalates over wedding snub and relationship expectations. ESH.

nerdyguytx | nerdyguytx

Sibling wedding drama: No entitlement to be in wedding party 😒

AlphaCharlieUno | AlphaCharlieUno

Let it go! 🙅‍♀️ Move on and don't be embarrassed. YTA.

NoKnowledge2587 | NoKnowledge2587

NTA, but communication could have been better 🤔

Ciphree | Ciphree

Sibling advises against sister's Thanksgiving boycott over non-wedding invite

Babbyjgraham | Babbyjgraham

Rekindling the relationship is better than skipping Thanksgiving 🙏

Miserable_Cow403 | Miserable_Cow403

Verdict is YTA, but context of brother's wedding is unclear 😔

TheoryLady | TheoryLady

Sibling rivalry and unresolved issues lead to holiday tension 🤷‍♀️

[deleted] | [deleted]

Sulking at brother's wedding, then blaming him for dessert? YTA. 😒

loopyspoopy | loopyspoopy

Engage with friends who make effort, not just lip service 👍

PumpkinWrangler | PumpkinWrangler

Don't ruin Thanksgiving over a wedding snub. Soft YTA.

puce_moment | puce_moment

Brother's hurtful snub leads to Thanksgiving drama. NTA for opting out 😢

made3blade3 | made3blade3

Thanksgiving drama with a deceitful brother who lied about groomsmen.

txa1265 | txa1265

Grow up and stop making the wedding about you 😒

johnjonahjameson13 | johnjonahjameson13

Confused commenter questions groom's odd behavior at wedding reception 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

User thinks sister is the a**hole for considering skipping Thanksgiving

Low_Teach_9694 | Low_Teach_9694

Hurtful wedding snub stings, but family isn't always blood. 💫

AJWard8617152310 | AJWard8617152310

Sibling advises brother to let go of hurtful wedding snub ✨

smallbird42 | smallbird42

Advice on rebuilding brotherly bond and attending Thanksgiving with family.

malebogoalways | malebogoalways

Managing expectations and communication is key in sibling relationships.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Wedding drama leads to ESH verdict and strained family relationships.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Entitled OP feels hurt by brother's forgetfulness, but should maturely discuss it at Thanksgiving. 🤔

Hitobanju | Hitobanju

Harsh but fair comment shuts down OP's wedding drama.


Don't miss out on making new memories over a wedding snub 😢

Tarotmamma | Tarotmamma

Boundary-setting backfires: Commenter calls out OP for being TA.

Consistent_Ice7857 | Consistent_Ice7857

Sibling bond is important, it's okay to feel hurt 😔

notimportant1900 | notimportant1900

OP expresses disappointment in ESH ruling, calls for honesty 🤔

Wise-Neighborhood678 | Wise-Neighborhood678

Sister is told she's in the wrong for feeling hurt 😔

MGS314MGS314 | MGS314MGS314

Brother innocent, soft YTA for assuming and considering skipping 🤷

SoupSatireSleep | SoupSatireSleep

Sister called out for childish behavior, YTA or not? 🤔

vikingraider27 | vikingraider27

Therapy might help cope with hurtful situations. Don't hold grudges. 🙏

Madselaine | Madselaine

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