Dad REFUSES To Help Severely Disabled Daughter 😱💔

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🚨 Buckle up, folks! We've got a doozy of a story here that's sure to get your emotions all tangled up. 😳 Meet our conflicted dad, a 41-year-old man caught between his past and present families. 👨‍👩‍👧 On one side, there's his ex-girlfriend Sarah and their severely disabled daughter Molly. 👩‍👧♿ On the other, his new wife and two young daughters. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👧 As Sarah reaches her breaking point caring for Molly 24/7, she's turning to dad for help. 🆘 But is he ready to step up, or will he prioritize his new family? 😬 Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of tough decisions, guilt, and family drama! 🎢😢

🍼 A Difficult Decision: Keeping or Aborting a Disabled Baby 😢

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💔 Relationship Struggles: Disagreement Over Disabled Baby Tears Couple Apart 😥

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🤰 Momma Bear vs. Reluctant Dad: The Battle Over Their Unborn Child 🐻

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👶 Miracle Molly is Born: Severely Disabled, But Loved By Mom 💕

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🏥 Doctors Confirm the Worst: Baby Molly's Severe Disabilities 😔

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🚗 Daddy Moves Away: New Job, New Life, Leaving Molly Behind 😞

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♿ 11 Years Later: Molly's Condition and Mom's Struggles 😓

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🏠 Stay-at-Home Mom: Sarah's 24/7 Dedication to Molly 🙏

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👨‍👩‍👧‍👧 Dad's New Family: Wife and Two Daughters, 4 Hours Away 🏡

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😩 Overwhelmed Mom: Sarah's Plea for Help with Molly 🆘

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🗓️ Shared Custody? Sarah's Suggestion for Dad to Help with Molly 🤝

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💸 Dad's Counter-Offer: Pay for Professional Care or a Facility 🏥

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😕 Torn Between Two Families: Dad's Dilemma and Guilt 👨‍👩‍👧

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🔥 Internet Weighs In: Should Dad Step Up for Disabled Daughter or Focus on New Family? 🤔💭

Whew, talk about a sticky situation! 😅 Our conflicted dad is really in a tough spot here. On one hand, you can't help but feel for Sarah, who's given up everything to care for their severely disabled daughter Molly. 😢 That's a lot for one person to handle! But then again, dad's got a whole new life now with a wife and two little girls of his own. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👧 Is it fair to expect him to drop everything and start playing caretaker? 🤷‍♀️ Let's see what the internet has to say about this emotional rollercoaster! 🎢 Get ready for some hot takes, witty remarks, and maybe even a little bit of sass as we dive into the top responses to dad's dilemma! 🔥😎

Offered to pay but still judged for disabled daughter. NTA 👏

itchybottombees | itchybottombees

Finding a good home for Molly should be a priority 💕

loudent2 | loudent2

Choosing to have a disabled child: right or wrong? 🤔

justbored123234 | justbored123234

Both sides are understandable. Look into in-home options. ✌🏻

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Financial help and professional care offered, NTA for not parenting.

sicksvdwrld | sicksvdwrld

Caring for a severely disabled child is a tough job 😔

RelevantFault1 | RelevantFault1

Caring for a disabled child can take a toll. NTA.


Father refuses to uproot his life to care for estranged daughter. NTA 👍

Piemandinoman | Piemandinoman

Compassionate comment acknowledges the difficult situation and offers support 😇

MrRobertSox | MrRobertSox

Respite care homes and workers can help care for disabled children. 💙

Pretend-Panda | Pretend-Panda

NTA. Commenter presents a scientific perspective on abortion and childcare.

abrokendefinition | abrokendefinition

NTA, the ex made a selfish decision and now expects support. 😡

AnnaSoso00 | AnnaSoso00

Father urged to bond with disabled daughter and support his family 👨🏻‍💻

GlencoraPalliser | GlencoraPalliser

Woman chooses to keep disabled child, dad offers to pay for facility 💰

meepmoopmeiow | meepmoopmeiow

Disconcerting eugenic suggestions. Disabled children deserve love and care. 💔

bunnibabi | bunnibabi

Paying for professional care is the best thing to do 👍

markrmcc625 | markrmcc625

NTA: Commenter criticizes parent's refusal to care for disabled child.

HeroesRiseHeroesFall | HeroesRiseHeroesFall

Setting boundaries with disabled child - NAH, no assholes here 🙏

the_last_basselope | the_last_basselope

Mother struggles to accept her daughter needs full-time care center.

Djhinnwe | Djhinnwe

The irony of Sarah's request for Molly's caregiver 😅

peppermintvalet | peppermintvalet

Parent suggests daughter should go to school for some respite 👨🏽💻

Flowerofiron | Flowerofiron

Discussing 'what ifs' before having a child 🤔

weirdguy36 | weirdguy36

Caring for a disabled family member is exhausting - NTA

iam_four_eels | iam_four_eels

Did they discuss disability before conception? Important info needed 🤔

Ms_Rarity | Ms_Rarity

Father refuses to help disabled daughter after warning mother. NTA.

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Engaging comment suggesting alternatives to residential care for disabled child. 🙌

HellcatPaz | HellcatPaz

Compassionate suggestion for caring for disabled daughter long-term 🙏

JudgeJed100 | JudgeJed100

NTA, but difficult situation. Father has right to choose involvement.

Difficult_E | Difficult_E

Caring for a severely disabled child is tough, Sarah needs help ❤️

redheaddisaster | redheaddisaster

Discussion on personal beliefs and supporting a disabled child.

toloza47 | toloza47

NTA defends decision not to help disabled daughter, raises valid point.

Narshalla | Narshalla

Redditor calls out a dad for abandoning his disabled daughter 🤬

cowmeleon | cowmeleon

A disabled person expresses fear for the future and challenges the notion that disabled people should be done away with. They also raise legal and ethical questions about terminating pregnancies at 16 weeks. 🙏

silence-glaive1 | silence-glaive1

Caring for a severely disabled family member is a huge task ❤️, NAH.

Clopidee | Clopidee

Respect and appreciation for disabled people are lacking in responses. YTA.

ksuzzy | ksuzzy

Choosing to not care for a severely disabled child isn't easy 😢

NimueLovesCoffee | NimueLovesCoffee

Offering hired help for severely disabled daughter, but struggling to convince. NTA.

MyDietIsBorderlinePD | MyDietIsBorderlinePD

Caring for a severely disabled child is not easy. NTA.

GenjisWife | GenjisWife

Balancing the ethics of parenting a severely disabled child 👨‍🍳

Sessylia | Sessylia

Daughter proposes biodad to care for severely disabled daughter - NTA

TassieBorn | TassieBorn

NTA for choosing to avoid future suffering of child. 🙌

Moon-on-my-mind | Moon-on-my-mind

Pro-choice commenter defends father walking away from severely disabled daughter. 🙌

thebohomama | thebohomama

Controversial comment sparks debate on parenthood and disability stigma.

dr_mcstuffins | dr_mcstuffins

Parent expresses empathy for ex's struggle and suggests long-term care options.

SleepySolomonCat | SleepySolomonCat

A comment empathizing with the disabled daughter and urging the father to show some compassion 🙏

Intelligent_Advance3 | Intelligent_Advance3

Caring for ex's severely disabled daughter: A stranger vs qualified nurse 🤔 NTA

ae36246 | ae36246

Controversial take on disabled daughter's quality of life. NTA.

gayopossum | gayopossum

Mother chooses to keep severely disabled child but wants father to pick up weight now. Commenter calls mother entitled.

DitaVonPita | DitaVonPita

Offering alternatives and reassurance for special needs parenting. 👍

akiomaster | akiomaster

A mother shares her experience with a severely disabled child. NTA.

Illustrious_Bobcat | Illustrious_Bobcat

Father and mother made a tough decision with mutual understanding 👍

gryffinRAWR | gryffinRAWR

Offered to pay for professional care, not obligated to provide it 💰

Bookworm153 | Bookworm153

User empathizes with the situation and suggests a professional care.

ghostofastorm | ghostofastorm

Parent defends not helping disabled child, calls self 'NTA' 👎

silent_whisper89 | silent_whisper89

NTA. Suggest paid carer for ex to free her up. 👍

ontherailstoday | ontherailstoday

Options for Sarah to get help for Molly's care 👍

lolofit | lolofit

Parent takes responsibility, offers help, but leaves decision to mother 👍

Aris_humanx | Aris_humanx

Daughter regrets choice, but OP not obliged to help. NTA 😊

Angio343 | Angio343

NTA offers to pay for care but daughter refuses 🤔

exhauta | exhauta

NTA offers child support and assisted living for disabled daughter.

Picnut | Picnut

NTA deems disabled daughter's existence a punishment for mother's choice.

IzzieTheFreak | IzzieTheFreak

Compassionate advice for caring for a severely disabled child 👶

mermaidpaint | mermaidpaint

Reddit's hypocritical stance on disabled children criticized. Powerful response.

Tarrifgate | Tarrifgate

The lasting consequences of being selfish as a parent 💔

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NTA commenter argues that the mother has a 'hero complex' and is now abandoning her disabled daughter. No pity whatsoever. 😒

Awildhufflepuff | Awildhufflepuff

Discussion on long-term care for disabled daughter.

vrcraftauthor | vrcraftauthor

Private in-home medical care suggested for disabled daughter. 💊

vikietheviking | vikietheviking

Abandoning special needs children in care facilities is heartbreaking. 😔

Squigels | Squigels

NTA for not devoting your life to disabled child. Offered help.

xoemily | xoemily

Offering a few hours of help a month is reasonable 👍

Basseboi1337 | Basseboi1337

Caring professionals can provide better care than disinterested parents. 💼

factsnack | factsnack

Offered solution and advice for disabled daughter's care. Not the a-hole.

verablue | verablue

Professional care is inevitable for Molly's future. NTA.

esqweasya | esqweasya

Choosing to have a disabled child comes with consequences. NTA.

kellymar | kellymar

Father receives backlash for abandoning severely disabled daughter. 🤬

notamuggle6523 | notamuggle6523

Parent makes tough decision to not care for severely disabled child 😢

Nombie18 | Nombie18

Father refuses to help disabled daughter. Commenter supports father's decision.

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Choosing not to have a severely disabled child - NTA 👍

Doddysgirl17 | Doddysgirl17

Stranger to daughter, suggests professional care. Good idea! 👍

trailofthought | trailofthought

Choosing not to help a severely disabled child: NTA.

laughingashley | laughingashley

A blunt NTA comment on a father's refusal to help his disabled daughter. 💁

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Mother chose to take care of disabled daughter, NTA.

JiPaiLove | JiPaiLove

Father rejects disabled daughter. NTA but situation is touchy 😔

pandanpickles | pandanpickles

Suggestion for respite care to help out Sarah 🙏

seenheardliveditall | seenheardliveditall

Respite facilities can help disabled children thrive with supportive staff 🙌

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