Man Abandons Date at Restaurant After Her SHOCKING Racist Remarks! 😠

Diply Social Team
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🔥 Buckle up, folks! We've got a spicy tale of a Korean BBQ date gone horribly wrong! 😱 Our protagonist, a 26-year-old gym-goer, finally musters up the courage to ask out his crush. Little did he know, he was in for a rollercoaster ride of red flags, racism, and a whole lot of awkwardness! 😬 Get ready for a story that'll make you cringe, laugh, and maybe even question the dating scene. 🤔 Let's dive in and see how this sizzling saga unfolds! 🍿

🔥 Sparks Fly at Korean BBQ Date Gone Wrong! 😱

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🍽️ Table for Two, Please! But Wait, What's That Grill For? 🤔

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🔥 Grillin' and Chillin'? Not So Fast, Says Miss High-Maintenance! 💅

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🥩 'Why Do WE Have to Cook? Isn't That Their Job?' 😤

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👵 Poor Granny Waitress Forced to Flip Burgers! 😢

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🚩 Red Flags Waving, But He's Still Hoping for Some 'Dessert'! 😏

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🍨 One Scoop of Racism, Please! Hold the Decency. 😡

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😱 Loud and Proud Bigot Attracts Dirty Looks! 👀

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🇵🇰 'I Didn't Mean Latinos, I Love Mexican Food!' 🌮🤦‍♂️

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😬 Awkward! She Thought He Was Latino! 🌮

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🍰 Time for a Sweet Escape! 🏃‍♂️💨

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🚗 Stranded and Blocked! No Ride for Miss Racist! 🙅‍♂️

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🏋️‍♀️ Gym Awkwardness Looming! What Will He Say? 😬

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📝 OP's Edits: Addressing the Masses! 🗣️

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1️⃣ Korean BBQ Newbie in the City! 🌆

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2️⃣ No Tolerance for Trash Talk! 🚫🗑️

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3️⃣ No 'Dessert' for Miss Nasty! 🙅‍♂️🍰

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4️⃣ Google It, Folks! 🔍

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🚨 Internet Jury, What's Your Verdict? 👨‍⚖️👩‍⚖️

Well, well, well! Looks like our protagonist found himself in quite the pickle! 🥒 From a high-maintenance date who couldn't handle a little DIY grilling to a full-blown racist rant, this story had more red flags than a communist parade! 🚩🚩🚩 But the real question is, did our hero do the right thing by ditching his date without a ride? 🤔 Some might say he should've stuck it out, but others argue that life's too short to waste on terrible people. 💁‍♀️ What do you think, internet? Was he justified in his great escape, or should he have given her a second chance? 🤷‍♂️ Let's see what the masses have to say about this spicy situation! 🌶️🗣️

Run Forrest, run! 🏃‍♂️🔥 NTA for ditching a racist date!

Illustrious_Newt_313 | Illustrious_Newt_313

Walking out on a racist date? NTA indeed! 😊

radstarr | radstarr

Leaving her stranded? NTA takes it up a notch! 💯

Admirable_One99989 | Admirable_One99989

Selective allyship for personal gains makes you an a**hole too 🤨

CuriouslyGruntled | CuriouslyGruntled

Navigating cultural differences on a date gone wrong. 🤔

Hermiona1 | Hermiona1

Karma strikes back! NTA shows racists their place. 😊

ell0lle | ell0lle

User expresses understanding of unfamiliarity with Korean BBQ 😊

Aradhor55 | Aradhor55

User called out for disrespectful behavior towards women on date. 🤨

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OP prioritizes physical attraction over moral values and work ethic. ESH 😒

tee_ran_mee_sue | tee_ran_mee_sue

User suggests better way to handle racist date. 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

ESH for letting her demand the staff cook your food 🤨

mustangs16 | mustangs16

Ditched date for racism, but didn't communicate why. ESH. 🤷‍♂️

ANBU_Black_0ps | ANBU_Black_0ps

👏 Standing up against racism and paying the bill like a boss!

punchfizz | punchfizz

OP is the a**hole for leaving restaurant workers to deal with racist date's anger instead of directly telling her he was ending the date.

ninaa1 | ninaa1

Don't let racists ruin your workout. NTA.

flyswatt | flyswatt

Confronting racism is not optional. ESH for tolerating it.

teambagsundereyes | teambagsundereyes

Pro tip: drinks before dinner can save you from racists 😉

littlebitfunny-01 | littlebitfunny-01

Quick thinking and good tipping - you dodged a bullet! 💯

YamiHiakari | YamiHiakari

Defending OP's NTA verdict on date; explaining lack of Korean BBQ.

PhotoKada | PhotoKada

Immigrant shares experience of being told 'I don't mean you'. NTA 👍

TheRealJetlag | TheRealJetlag

Redditor discovers Korean BBQ, supports OP's decision to leave date. NTA!

GeekyMom42 | GeekyMom42

Judging someone for not knowing Korean BBQ makes you a bit AH 😒

DebateObjective2787 | DebateObjective2787

Being NTA doesn't excuse being rude about Korean BBQ preferences. 🤔

Legitimate_Mess_6130 | Legitimate_Mess_6130

Choosing a Korean BBQ place without checking with date? 🤔

loudent2 | loudent2

Suggesting he should have taken over grill duties 😅

raev_esmerillon | raev_esmerillon

Red flag or not, leaving someone stranded isn't cool 😕

The_Cost_Of_Lies | The_Cost_Of_Lies

Abusive date exposes man's desperation and racism. ESH.

BrunchBitches | BrunchBitches

Passively supporting abuse and racism is never okay. ESH. 🤷‍♂️

teahabit | teahabit

ESH for the racist date and using her for 'adult time'

in35mm | in35mm

Date confusion turns into racist remarks, NTA for leaving.

ONeill117 | ONeill117

Endured a racist date, paid and tipped well. NTA 👍

The-Upsetter | The-Upsetter

Generous tip, but no ride home for racist date. NTA.

Expat_89 | Expat_89

Leaving racist date: NTA, but YTA for not helping waitress 😕

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NTA shuts down racist gym-goer like a boss 💪

Time2Ejaculate | Time2Ejaculate

Tolerating rudeness until it hits close to home? 🤔

AzoriumLupum | AzoriumLupum

Standing up to jerks 💪🏼

Brilliant_Etiquette | Brilliant_Etiquette

Dating gone wrong: ESH for tolerating racism for sex 😑

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Responding with education and compassion to shocking racism 🙏


User calls out man for not taking date home after racist remarks.

ree1778 | ree1778

Leaving without warning: ESH. Gym time will be awkward 🤯

lilcondor | lilcondor

YTA criticized for disrespecting Korean BBQ and prioritizing sex.

prudencethe3rd | prudencethe3rd

Hilarious NTA comment shuts down racist date 😂

justdaisukeyo | justdaisukeyo

First date tip: go for coffee or food truck. NTA, very nice paying bill. 👍

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BBQ doesn't equal consent! 🙅‍♂️ NTA for leaving though. 😎

Rettirk | Rettirk

ESH but you could have handled it more maturely. 🤷‍♂️

SigaVa | SigaVa

Abandoned date due to racist remarks, NTA, what the fork?

Blobfish_Blues | Blobfish_Blues

Calling out racism, but should have left earlier. 👊

Incantanto | Incantanto

Split the check and never see her again! YTA 😠

cmonamonamona | cmonamonamona

Cultural differences cause confusion, but judgement is clear: NTA 👍

Hubsimaus | Hubsimaus

Taking a stand against racism! 🥇 NTA OP

nomasslurpee | nomasslurpee

A disastrous date with a racist, entitled princess. ESH.

Responsible_Candle86 | Responsible_Candle86

Taking her home wouldn't solve the problem. N.T.A 👍

skaterdude714 | skaterdude714

Ouch, harsh but true. Dodged a bullet there 😬

Characterde | Characterde

Leaving her alone with racist remarks was not cool. YTA.

ScepticalBee | ScepticalBee

A man gets called out for his problematic behavior. ESH.

Academic_Snow_7680 | Academic_Snow_7680

Ditched a racist date and called out her ignorance. 😎

Djhinnwe | Djhinnwe

A helpful reminder on planning dinner dates. 🍕

Rando-Dragon | Rando-Dragon

Suggests petty revenge for racist date, but ultimately supportive. 👍

barnescando | barnescando

Missed opportunity to call out a racist. Awkward aftermath ensues.

Material_Positive_76 | Material_Positive_76

Dumpster fire date? It happens. Don't sweat it, move on.

renacotor | renacotor

Standing up against racism on a date. 💪

Psychological_Sail80 | Psychological_Sail80

Witty clapback to racist date earns NTA judgement. 💯

corrin_avatan | corrin_avatan

Standing up to racism - NTA did the right thing! 💯

LikeAfterSummer | LikeAfterSummer

ESH for not calling out date's racism and leaving abruptly.

ReasonableAlbatross | ReasonableAlbatross

Don't ghost your date, be direct about ending it. ESH.

jaxomlotus | jaxomlotus

Expose the racist and let social pressure do its job! 👍

Awesomekidsmom | Awesomekidsmom

Date's racism sparks judgemental comments and no winners in sight 🤷‍♂️

GalacticCmdr | GalacticCmdr

Nightmare date gets ditched but ghosting is not cool. 🤦‍♂️

Yikes44 | Yikes44

Leaving without telling your date: ESH, but understandable 😕

the_lamper | the_lamper

A commenter suggests the date was overreacting and advises to get to know someone's personality before asking them out. 🔎

Yellowpickle23 | Yellowpickle23

Communication is key, even if the date is a dumpster fire 🙏

Dull-Environment2759 | Dull-Environment2759

ESH, but HOLY MOTHER OF RACISM BATMAN! Set higher standards. 😱

Violinninja8 | Violinninja8

Ignoring racist remarks for a chance at intimacy makes ESH 😒

lunaphoenix55 | lunaphoenix55

ESH, but her more for racism. You should've left earlier. 😑

urzu_seven | urzu_seven

Drawing the line closer to your principles can avoid trouble. 🙌

alexds1 | alexds1

ESH recognized date's awfulness but gave too many chances 🤷‍♂️

grayhairedqueenbitch | grayhairedqueenbitch

ESH in a racist date gone wrong. Explanation and reflection required. 🤔

paitenanner | paitenanner

Both were sucky. You tolerated racism for a hookup, dude. 🙄

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NTA for ditching racist date, but should have confronted her politely 😊

Specialist-Ad5322 | Specialist-Ad5322

Ending a racist date early? 😱 YTA but safety first! 📷

pmax2 | pmax2

Leaving date without transportation was AH move but deserved 👏

deadlykitten54 | deadlykitten54

First date disaster: racism ruins the meal 🤬

kh111533 | kh111533

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