Boyfriend Accuses Girlfriend of Deception Over Financial Stability 😲

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Picture this: you're in a relationship, and you've been dating for over a year. You trust each other, and you're even living together. 💑 Then, one day, you decide to discuss finances, and you reveal that you won some money 15 years ago, which helped you purchase your home and get through nursing school. 🏠💉 But instead of being happy for you, your partner accuses you of deception and becomes a gold digger! 😱 If you think this sounds like a nightmare, you're not alone. Read on to see how this unfortunate situation unfolded...

💸 The Mysterious Money Win

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🏠 Moving In Together

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💰 Financial Discussions

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🍀 Lucky Timing

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🤷 Confusion

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🤔 Trust Issues

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😕 Deception?

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🚩 Red Flags

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💵 Savings Talk

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🎁 Birthday Present?

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👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Backup Plan

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😒 Jealousy

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🤦 Wasted Money?

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🙅 Risk Averse

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😤 Crazy Rant

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🤬 Disgusted

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🏡 House Misconceptions

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😠 Anger and Delusion

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💔 When Love Turns to Gold Digging

Our unlucky-in-love protagonist (35f) and her boyfriend (35m) were discussing finances when she revealed that she had won some money back in 2009, which helped her buy her house and put herself through nursing school. 🎓🏡 Instead of being supportive, her boyfriend accused her of deceiving him, saying she led him to believe she was more business savvy than she was. 😒 The situation took a turn for the worse when he started asking about her savings and even hinted that she should buy him an expensive car for his birthday. 🚗🎂 Realizing that he was a gold digger, she decided to break up with him. But the drama didn't end there! He went on jealous rants, claiming he could have tripled the money she won and that she was wasting it by not investing in high-risk stocks. 📈💸 Let's see what the internet thinks of this wild situation...

Partner's jealousy and insecurity over girlfriend's financial stability. NTA 😊

RMaua | RMaua

🚩 NTA. Are financial red flags signaling a gold digger?

Ajstross | Ajstross

Protect your assets! NTA. Kick him to the curb. 👋

archetyping101 | archetyping101

Stand up for yourself, you deserve better! 💪🏻 NTA.

Fit-Confusion-4595 | Fit-Confusion-4595

Partner's insecurity over girlfriend's success threatens relationship 😢

GameDev4187 | GameDev4187

Girlfriend's boyfriend has multiple red flags 🚩🚩🚩. NTA.

In_need_of_chocolate | In_need_of_chocolate

Financially responsible nurse wins money and boyfriend can't handle it 🤷‍♀️

LongNefariousness396 | LongNefariousness396

Questioning boyfriend's motives and character, NTA verdict.

ColdstreamCapple | ColdstreamCapple

NTA. Boyfriend blaming her for his own assumptions about her wealth 🤷‍♀️

toxicredox | toxicredox

Dump him. You deserve better than a delusional, ungrateful taker. 💁‍♀️

11SkiHill | 11SkiHill

Girlfriend accused of deception over finances, but commenter says NTA 👍

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Boyfriend explodes when he finds out girlfriend has money 🤯 NTA, but she needs to get out safely 🚨

According-Western-33 | According-Western-33

Winning money doesn't mean losing privacy or independence. NTA 👏

Antelope_31 | Antelope_31

NTA. Boyfriend projecting & overreacting to financially savvy decisions. 🤑

northwyndsgurl | northwyndsgurl

Beware of those selling courses on getting rich 🤯

Icy_Scratch7822 | Icy_Scratch7822

Girlfriend not at fault, leave toxic partner 👋

Tetchy9999 | Tetchy9999

Girlfriend's financial stability questioned by small, audacious boyfriend 🤯

Traditional_Ad4576 | Traditional_Ad4576

Cut him loose 👋. NTA, betrayal was him expecting wealth. 💯

blanketgoblin1317 | blanketgoblin1317

Dating for only 1.5 years, no big obligation owed 👍

DestronCommander | DestronCommander

Savvy investor accused of deception by jealous boyfriend 😒💰

Impressive-Rock-2279 | Impressive-Rock-2279

Girlfriend not at fault for boyfriend's assumptions about her finances 😍

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NTA defends against boyfriend's financial stability accusations 😞

Mizu005 | Mizu005

Boyfriend upset girlfriend isn't as wealthy as he thought 😒

Holiday_Trainer_2657 | Holiday_Trainer_2657

Trust issues? Boyfriend should pack up and leave 👋

Something-bothersome | Something-bothersome

Protect yourself and kick him out. NTA 💪

albatross6232 | albatross6232

Certified hobosexual? 🤣 Lucky escape! NTA 👏

Narrow_Permit | Narrow_Permit

Supportive comment calling out gaslighting boyfriend. 👏

BlueLarkspur_1929 | BlueLarkspur_1929

Protect your assets and reconsider the relationship. NTA 👍

Hyacinth_Bouque | Hyacinth_Bouque

Girlfriend called out boyfriend's immaturity and needs to leave him 👋

Unique-Compote2337 | Unique-Compote2337

Protect yourself and leave. Red flags everywhere 👍

SRB2023 | SRB2023

NTA, boyfriend disappointed at not being able to buy expensive cars 😕

CheerilyTerrified | CheerilyTerrified

Don't let him dull your shine 💎, keep shining bright! 💫

allie-echo | allie-echo

Encouraging advice to leave toxic relationship, 💪👏

mousepallace | mousepallace

NTA defends herself against insulting BF 😠

Squiggles567 | Squiggles567

Dump him before he dumps you and takes half 😜

Sassypants2306 | Sassypants2306

NTA for being financially smart and boyfriend's jealousy is sad 😢

Fairtogood | Fairtogood

Girlfriend accused of deception over financial stability, but not guilty. 🤔

Here_IGuess | Here_IGuess

RN defends OP's financial decisions, warns of boyfriend's intentions 👀

FairyHair22 | FairyHair22

Supportive comment urges breakup and safety measures. 👍

Valiantrabbit49 | Valiantrabbit49

Investing in high yielding stocks instead of car for bf 💰

Desperate-Day-4158 | Desperate-Day-4158

Sassy reply questions boyfriend's financial savviness 😏

ThrowRA-faithinlove | ThrowRA-faithinlove

A commenter shares a wild story about a couple at a music festival and supports the poster for leaving her financially abusive boyfriend. 👏

Kyle-Is-My-Name | Kyle-Is-My-Name

NTA! Dump this bum 💯 and move on 🙌

asphalt_licker | asphalt_licker

Boyfriend accused girlfriend of deception over wealth. NTA. 😊

confident_ocean | confident_ocean

Dump him! 💔 NTA for seeing through his intentions.

No_Ear_7484 | No_Ear_7484

Financial stability is a blessing, don't let it ruin relationships 😊

Advanced-Royal8967 | Advanced-Royal8967

OP's boyfriend seems to be a gold digger 🤷‍♀️

DutchJediKnight | DutchJediKnight

Partner can't handle reality of working for a living 🤔

Apprehensive_Ad3731 | Apprehensive_Ad3731

Girlfriend accused of deception over financial stability, but she's NTA 😊

ahhwell | ahhwell

Don't let his insecurity sabotage your happiness 😞

curiousminipotato1 | curiousminipotato1

Defending financial choices and questioning double standards 🤔

Lawgirlyjo | Lawgirlyjo

A financial disaster of a boyfriend accusing girlfriend of deception 🤯

redneckerson1951 | redneckerson1951

Questioning boyfriend's financial stability while advising the poster to leave.

curious-by-moon | curious-by-moon

🚩 Red flags and deception - time to dump him! 👋

Reeyowunsixsix | Reeyowunsixsix

Consult an attorney for tenant rights and take precautions to stay safe 👍

travel_more | travel_more

User shares personal story and advises to leave boyfriend 👋

chubbierunner | chubbierunner

Don't let anyone devalue your financial independence and stability. 💪

IrreverantBard | IrreverantBard

Beware of partners who make unrealistic financial promises 🚨

YoudamanSteve | YoudamanSteve

NTA - Boyfriend wants to mooch off you. Kick him out! 🙄

pktrekgirl | pktrekgirl

Praise for OP's financial savviness and dumping dead weight 👏

PrettySweet419 | PrettySweet419

NTA. The boyfriend's behavior is a red flag 🚩. Glad OP is leaving.

JiminyFckingCricket | JiminyFckingCricket

Financially savvy girlfriend proves she's better off without boyfriend. 💰

Wackywoman1062 | Wackywoman1062

Girlfriend gets support after breakup with financial stability obsessed boyfriend 😊

OLAZ3000 | OLAZ3000

Girlfriend advised to leave controlling boyfriend 🚩🤭

MerlinSmurf | MerlinSmurf

Hilarious response to a boyfriend's financial deception 😂

from_dusk_till__Dawn | from_dusk_till__Dawn

NTA, gold digger BF needs to be kicked out ASAP 😡

hugh_jorgyn | hugh_jorgyn

Don't let assumptions ruin a good relationship. NTA 👍

nextCosmicBuffoon | nextCosmicBuffoon

Protect your finances and run from the gold digger 💯

Maastricht_nl | Maastricht_nl

Privacy matters, trust issues maybe?

NoteworthyMeagerness | NoteworthyMeagerness

Suggesting illegal eviction? That's not a good idea 😑

scottyd035ntknow | scottyd035ntknow

Protect your assets and run away from this controlling guy 😱

TheDarkHelmet1985 | TheDarkHelmet1985

Sarcastic remark highlights boyfriend's lack of credibility in finance.

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Dumping an obnoxious bag of gas 📏. Congrats on being savvy NTA!

tuffyowner | tuffyowner

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