Groomsman Denied Wedding Invitation: Innocent Mistake or Calculated Move? 🕵️‍♂️💍

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Diply | Diply

Ever had a friendship so strong that you just assume you'll be a part of their big day? 💒 Well, this guy's story is a rollercoaster of emotions and confusion! 😵‍💫 Our protagonist (32M) has been best friends with Alex (32M) since they were in diapers. When Alex starts dating Stella (35F), she seems to politely dislike our hero, but life goes on. Fast forward to Alex and Stella's wedding planning, and our guy assumes he'll be in the wedding party... but things take a turn for the worse. 😱 Get ready for a wild ride of miscommunication, drama, and suspense! 🍿

Longtime Friendship 🤝

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The Girlfriend Enters 🚶‍♀️

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Cross-Country Move 🛣️

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Wedding Bells 💍

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Where's My Invite? 💌

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Checking In 📞

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Radio Silence 📱

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The Unexpected Call 📲

IMighthavefuckedup97 | IMighthavefuckedup97

The Truth Comes Out 😮

IMighthavefuckedup97 | IMighthavefuckedup97

Pregnant Pause 🤔

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Girlfriend's Support 💕

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Edit 1: Video Chat Clarification 📹

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Edit 2: Girlfriend's Fun 🤣

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Wedding Drama Unfolds! 💣💥

So, our protagonist never receives his wedding invitation, even though he saw them being sent out on social media. 🤷‍♂️ He checks in with Alex, who seems agitated and directs him to Stella for any wedding-related questions. But Stella never responds to his calls, texts, or emails! 😤 Just when he thinks he won't be attending the wedding, Alex reaches out and asks if he can attend as a guest. Our guy spills the beans about not receiving an invite and Stella leaving him on read. 😮 Alex is shocked, and now the wedding might be off! 😨 Our protagonist's girlfriend supports him, but others accuse him of causing a stink. 🙄 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🧐

Groomsman denied invite, bride intentionally left him out. NTA.

spectrumtwelve | spectrumtwelve

Supportive comment with a hint of suspicion. 🤔

FlysaMinelly | FlysaMinelly

Friend's fiancee lied to keep me out of wedding, NTA 👍

apapayapie | apapayapie

No wedding invite for groomsman, but NTA for speaking up 🙌

Lizardgirl25 | Lizardgirl25

Clear NTA verdict, but fiancé's deception and lies uncovered. 🤔

alicat33133 | alicat33133

Best friend's fiancée blamed me for her own mistake 😒

Street_Math3177 | Street_Math3177

NTA for saving your friend from a life of misery 🙌

the_Bryan_dude | the_Bryan_dude

Wedding drama: Bride-to-be alienates groom's family member. NTA stands up.

LadyOlennaTyrell | LadyOlennaTyrell

Poster gets called out for posting without knowing the full story

usenamessuckass | usenamessuckass

A case of miscommunication causing confusion and blame 🤔

AcrobaticMechanic265 | AcrobaticMechanic265

Friend's fiance hates you? NTA but friend sucks too. 🤷🏼‍♂️

cthulularoo | cthulularoo

NTA stands with the excluded groomsman 👍

bigspikes08 | bigspikes08

Friend's wedding invitation snub leads to unexpected revelation. NTA.

FatBloke4 | FatBloke4

NTA saves friend from relationship red flag 👍

paintlulus | paintlulus

Friend lied about wedding invitation, NTA for expecting to attend 😊

waitagoop | waitagoop

Bridezilla sabotages groom's decision; denies groomsman's invitation 👵🏼👰👮

[deleted] | [deleted]

The missing pieces of the story and a possible motive 🤔. NTA.

ThatBitchStaceyFR | ThatBitchStaceyFR

Wedding planning confusion - why didn't the groom ask earlier?

kiwi-sparkle | kiwi-sparkle

Wedding invitation denied, revealing bride's true nature 💃

[deleted] | [deleted]

Supportive comment, hope he doesn't attend the wedding 🤞

jlily18 | jlily18

Defending oneself against false accusations. NTA 👏

heathelee73 | heathelee73

NTA. Commenter speculates on motives behind groomsman exclusion with 🔥

FoxyFreckles1989 | FoxyFreckles1989

Unintentionally exposing a bride's true intentions, NTA wins.

DontTakePeopleSrsly | DontTakePeopleSrsly

Honesty is the best policy, even if it means exclusion 👍

No-love93 | No-love93

Friendship over? Commenters hope for update and reconciliation 👀

marvel-luis | marvel-luis

Defending the friend's actions and criticizing the nosy commenter 👍

doubleduofa | doubleduofa

Honesty is the best policy, NTA wins this round! 👏

NoCardiologist1461 | NoCardiologist1461

New partner's instant dislike for best friend could be harmful 😔

Hungry_Goose492 | Hungry_Goose492

NTA groomsmen lied to about wedding invite, exposes manipulative bride-to-be 💍

WhiteKnightPrimal | WhiteKnightPrimal

Friend chooses manipulative groom over best friend. NTA, OP! 👏

everellie | everellie

Wedding drama and lies, but you're NTA. Block and move on.

Mehitabel9 | Mehitabel9

Friend's passive behavior may lead to controlling partner. 👪

Token_or_TolkienuPOS | Token_or_TolkienuPOS

Bride-to-be ditches groom's childhood friend from wedding guest list. Commenter shares similar experience and calls out bride's behavior. NTA 👍

Guest2424 | Guest2424

NTA. Sometimes true friends help you see the light. 🌟

Particular-Try5584 | Particular-Try5584

Honesty is the best policy - NTA for speaking up 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Stella's scheme backfires as NTA groomsman prevails. 🎉

republika1973 | republika1973

Friend asked for help, NTA for informing him of situation. 👍

spagetttiii | spagetttiii

Expose the truth to the groom! 👊

Able_Personality6 | Able_Personality6

When the story doesn't add up 🤔

IceQueenTigerMumma | IceQueenTigerMumma

A calculated move to end a friendship? 🤔

BellaSantiago1975 | BellaSantiago1975

NTA and a true friend for saving him from a disaster! 👍

Southernpalegirl | Southernpalegirl

NTA's honesty may have saved them from being isolated by abusers 👍

cassowary32 | cassowary32

Supportive comment seeks update on wedding invitation drama 💍

prosperosniece | prosperosniece

What's going on with the groom's relationship? 🤔

picomtg | picomtg

Polite response shuts down accusations, NTA takes the win 👏

KirejiOfMyHeart | KirejiOfMyHeart

Wedding invite snub or sign of deeper problems? 🤔

Necessary-Stage5044 | Necessary-Stage5044

Honesty is the best policy. NTA. 👍

-lamppost- | -lamppost-

NTA, a crazy story by the fiancée caused the drama. ❤️

ValerinForte | ValerinForte

Wedding invite snub sparks suspicion and support for groomsman 👀💍

ZeroZipZilchNadaNone | ZeroZipZilchNadaNone

Gaslighting accusation sparks disbelief in comment section 🤔

rockocoman | rockocoman

NTA for feeling left out of the wedding party 🤵🏻‍♂️

YouKnowWhoIAmDammit | YouKnowWhoIAmDammit

Stella's sneaky move backfires - groomsman calls her out 🔥

mctaggartann | mctaggartann

NTA. Commenter suggests Stella lied to fiancé about wedding invite.

Conscious_Sand_4720 | Conscious_Sand_4720

NTA for talking about own business, suspicious behavior from Stella 🤔

My_Lovely_Me | My_Lovely_Me

Honesty is the best policy, NTA. Give your friend time 👍

Tight-Key3133 | Tight-Key3133

Stella lied and got caught - NTA for declining invite 👍

fanofpolkadotts | fanofpolkadotts

Truthful groomsman excluded from wedding, but not in the wrong. NTA 👍

Bergenia1 | Bergenia1

Don't worry about what others think, you're not the a-hole 👍

itzturnip | itzturnip

NTA comment defends groomsman, reminds Sheila to lie in bed 💍

NickyRELish | NickyRELish

An innocent comment with a humorous twist 😁

Square-Singer | Square-Singer

Being blamed for a mistake that hurt, it's not fair 😔

knights816 | knights816

Excluded groomsman shares story, suspected bride playing a game 🤔

HenkTheTank1900 | HenkTheTank1900

Stella manipulates groom, but NTA groomsman is still invited 👍

Visual-Lobster6625 | Visual-Lobster6625

Liar, liar, pants on fire! NTA groomsman clears the air 🔥

bizianka | bizianka

Supportive comment about unhealthy relationship. NTA (not the a**hole)

squeekywheel1 | squeekywheel1

Wedding drama caused by a snake 🐍 NTA wins!

Dry_Ask5493 | Dry_Ask5493

Honesty is the best policy. 🤝

Capital_Potato751 | Capital_Potato751

👍 Supportive comment defends OP's actions and warns of red flags.

Tinkerpro | Tinkerpro

Wedding invite snub leads to bigger issues. NTA.

CCassie1979 | CCassie1979

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