He Asked Her Out 3 Times and She Refused, Now She's Jealous 😲💔

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Picture this: you grow up in a small village with a girl, let's call her Amy, and you're friends for years. You develop feelings for her and ask her out three times throughout your lives, but each time, she turns you down. You eventually move on and find love elsewhere. But when you finally make your new relationship Facebook official, Amy sends you a snarky message. How would you react? 😲 That's the situation our friend here found himself in, and he's wondering if he was in the wrong for firing back at her. Let's dive into the story! 🍿

🏡 Small Village Beginnings

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👫 Childhood Friends

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💔 First Rejection

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🔄 Friendship Recovery

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💔 Second Rejection

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🚌 College City Life

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💔 Third Rejection

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🎓 Post-College Life

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📉 Drifting Apart

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💕 New Love

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📸 Facebook Official

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😡 Insult or Misunderstanding?

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🐷 Pig Accusations

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🔥 Firing Back or Crossing the Line?

Our protagonist and Amy were childhood friends who grew up in a small village and went to the same college. Throughout their lives, he asked her out three times, but she always had an excuse to say no. Fast forward a few years, and he's found love with a colleague. When they make their relationship Facebook official, Amy sends a snarky message, and he fires back with, "I asked you out three times." Amy's BFF then accuses him of being a disgusting pig only interested in hooking up. His girlfriend defends him, but he's looking for an outside opinion on whether he crossed the line. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🧐

Rejected multiple times, now jealous - NTA, move on 👍

Ieva_strausa | Ieva_strausa

Dodging a bullet 👌: Engaging with rejection in dating

ResurrectionScary | ResurrectionScary

Block these idiots and move on with your life. NTA 👌

FatBloke4 | FatBloke4

Don't let her jealousy bring you down, be happy 😃

alancake | alancake

Friend zoned and rejected, move on and forget the drama 👍

Necessary-Stage5044 | Necessary-Stage5044

Toxic Disney ideals, NTA. BFF's opinion is worthless 😱

devl_ish | devl_ish

User calls out Amy for being jealous and losing her chance. NTA 👍

DontTakePeopleSrsly | DontTakePeopleSrsly

"Move on" from what? You're NTA, enjoy your girlfriend! 😊

_Ruby_Tuesday | _Ruby_Tuesday

Nice girl jealous but doesn't want him, keep her 👍

DependentDangerous28 | DependentDangerous28

Moving on and finding love. Good for you! 🎉


Assertive response to ex who wants attention 🤑

Longjumping-Value212 | Longjumping-Value212

Cutting out negativity: Block anyone who can't stand your happiness 🙌

Patient_Meaning_2751 | Patient_Meaning_2751

Supportive comment with a humorous twist, proposing marriage.

Mycroft_xxx | Mycroft_xxx

Not the a**hole and cut off toxic friend 👍

twoscoopsofbacon | twoscoopsofbacon

Don't let her jealousy bring you down 🙅‍♂️

curiousity60 | curiousity60

NTA, OP was put in the friend zone and deserves better 👏

WornBlueCarpet | WornBlueCarpet

She rejected him 3 times and now she's jealous? 🤔


When she doesn't want you, but doesn't want you to move on 🤷‍♂️

boboddy42069 | boboddy42069

Women who enjoy the attention but not the man. 🤑

ManAndMonster | ManAndMonster

Don't let jealous friends ruin your relationship 👍

pbblankgirl | pbblankgirl

Playing hard to get can backfire 🤷‍♀️

C-LOgreen | C-LOgreen

Cutting off toxic friendships is tough but necessary. NTA 👍

AffectionateAd631 | AffectionateAd631

A poetic response to a rejected suitor 🤗

Frozen_Dawg | Frozen_Dawg

Missed chances and moving on, NTA gets closure 👍

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Don't let anyone play with your heart 💔, focus on happiness 🙌

KingViktorious | KingViktorious

Beware of the jealous girl and her BFF 😱

Typical_Swordfish_43 | Typical_Swordfish_43

Rejected girl couldn't handle his happiness, dodged bullet 😱

Sugar_Mama76 | Sugar_Mama76

Don't waste your time on selfish and immature people 👍

tillwehavefaces | tillwehavefaces

She liked the power, now she's salty. NTA. 💯

Alien_lifeform_666 | Alien_lifeform_666

NPC in her story: Commenter calls out attention-seeking behavior.

QH96 | QH96

Don't be a backup! Block her and move on 👍

BlueGreen_1956 | BlueGreen_1956

Moving on doesn't mean you're not happy for others 😊

Proper-District8608 | Proper-District8608

NTA. Sounds like Amy's ego is bruised, not her heart 💔

Anon_genus | Anon_genus

NTA. Amy and her BFF are DTAs 🤨. Don't worry, be happy 😊

jimmyb1982 | jimmyb1982

NTA for moving on, but the friend's insult went too far 🙄

Vegetable_Abies355 | Vegetable_Abies355

Rejecting someone doesn't give them a free pass 👍

Ingloriousdoctor | Ingloriousdoctor

Amy's jealousy and power trip exposed by NTA's rejection 😎

RNGinx3 | RNGinx3

Being someone's backup plan is never a good feeling 🤷‍♀️

brsox2445 | brsox2445

No drama here, just an immature friend and a great gf 👍

Accurate_Fuel_610 | Accurate_Fuel_610

Being kept as an option hurts no one but yourself 😔

Historical-Ad1977 | Historical-Ad1977

Don't be anyone's backup plan 😠 You deserve better 👏

Interesting_Entry831 | Interesting_Entry831

Move on, she had her chances and you deserve better. 💪

Fireturtle75 | Fireturtle75

Why leading someone on is never a good idea 🤷‍♀️

andmewithoutmytowel | andmewithoutmytowel

The harsh reality of unrequited love 💔

timmyweiner686 | timmyweiner686

Respectful rejection and moving on 👍

CleverNickName-69 | CleverNickName-69

Rejected friend gets jealous after being turned down; NTA.

Alert-Artichoke-2743 | Alert-Artichoke-2743

Savage response shuts down persistent suitor. NTA wins.

Longshot1969 | Longshot1969

NTA. Woman keeps 'safe men' on back burner, shames man for moving on.

ThePrime_One | ThePrime_One

He dodged a bullet and found happiness. 🙌

lqxpl | lqxpl

Rejected 3 times, now jealous ex-girlfriend blames herself. NTA 👍

chaingun_samurai | chaingun_samurai

Friend jealous after rejecting advances, lied about situation. NTA 💁‍♂️

AyeYoTek | AyeYoTek

Rejected 3 times, now she's jealous? NTA, you dodged a bullet 👍

HumanityIsBizarre | HumanityIsBizarre

Amy likes attention, got mad when he found someone else. NTA 👍

Hazel2468 | Hazel2468

Friend used him as backup, NTA for dropping her 🙄

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Letting go of toxic friends is hard but necessary. NTA 👌

asuperbstarling | asuperbstarling

Friendzoned and now jealous 🤦‍♂️

Accomplished-Cat905 | Accomplished-Cat905

NTA - She used him for attention and got mad when he moved on 😠

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Being a respectful fall back guy made her jealous 😜

Fuzzy_Department2799 | Fuzzy_Department2799

Moving on and living life, causing jealousy. NTA 👍

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NTA, friend kept you as a backup, now jealous. Listen to GF.

Strain_Pure | Strain_Pure

Moving on and finding love, ignore rude and crude comments 💓

Realistic_Head4279 | Realistic_Head4279

Jealousy and looks, but who's the real a**hole? 🤔

kpop_is_aite | kpop_is_aite

Friendship never valued, move on and forget about her 👋

ThexanR | ThexanR

Block her. Block her friends. Enjoy your new life. 😎

IDontActuallyExst | IDontActuallyExst

Backup plan or scared? NTA wins with no regrets 💯

Blacksbren | Blacksbren

Rejected friend gets jealous, NTA dodges unhealthy relationship 👏

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