She Cancels Apartment Signing Over BF's Expensive Car Purchase 😱💔

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Diply | Diply

Moving in together is a big step in any relationship, but what happens when one partner makes a questionable financial decision? Our story's heroine (28F) and her boyfriend (31M) have been together for over two years and were finally ready to move in together. They found a perfect place, but just as they were about to sign the lease, she discovered her boyfriend's shocking purchase: a 42k Corvette! 😱 Now, she's rethinking their future together, and the drama is just beginning. 🍿

The Perfect Apartment Opportunity 🏠

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A Friend's Offer 🤝

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Credit Check Complete ✅

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A Ridiculous Purchase 🚗

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The Shocking Reveal 😱

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Financial Bailouts 💸

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Late Payments ⏰

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The Expensive Corvette 🏎️

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None of Her Business? 🤔

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The Truth Comes Out 💥

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Huge Monthly Payments 💰

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Security Deposit Drama 🚨

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Calling Off the Lease 📞

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BF's Lease Ending ⏳

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Yelling and Accusations 😡

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Is She Right to Cancel Their Plans? 🤷

Our heroine was ready to take the next step with her boyfriend, but his irresponsible financial decision has her questioning everything. After discovering he bought a 42k Corvette and expected her to cover part of the apartment security deposit, she called off the lease signing. Now, her boyfriend is furious and accuses her of meddling in his business. But with a history of bailing him out on rent, she can't help but worry about their future together. Let's see what the internet thinks of this dramatic situation... 💬

NTA for cancelling apartment signing over BF's expensive car purchase 😡

Sarissa32 | Sarissa32

BF spends irresponsibly, asks for money, and hides purchases. NTA.

mdthomas | mdthomas

NTA: Money incompatibility can break relationships. Good call to cancel.

icarusancalion | icarusancalion

NTA cancels apartment signing after BF's expensive car purchase 😱💔

OkeyDokey654 | OkeyDokey654

NTA 🚩🚩🚩. Walking away from an unaffordable apartment and car payment.

NanaLeonie | NanaLeonie

Dodging a bullet 💥💥. Standing up for oneself. NTA

Major_Barnacle_2212 | Major_Barnacle_2212

NTA. OP made a responsible decision to not sign the lease 🎉

Mohawk602 | Mohawk602

Financial compatibility is key in relationships, NTA 👍

JGalKnit | JGalKnit

Don't cohabit yet, see if he matures before financial burden.

Fearless_Spring5611 | Fearless_Spring5611

Don't let anyone tell you it's not your business 💰👀 #NTA

KronkLaSworda | KronkLaSworda

NTA comment defends cancelling apartment signing over BF's car purchase

Disastrous-Nail-640 | Disastrous-Nail-640

Financially incompatible couple, bullet dodged. NTA 👏

Apart-Ad-6518 | Apart-Ad-6518

A silver lining to the boyfriend's untrustworthiness 👍

julet1815 | julet1815

Dodged a bullet with a 🚗, spelled ex right 👍

Historical-Goal-3786 | Historical-Goal-3786

Prioritizing financial health over expensive purchases. NTA 🤑

RoyallyOakie | RoyallyOakie

Financially irresponsible partner? Walk away and save yourself trouble. 💸🙅

Head-Meaning2741 | Head-Meaning2741

Smart move! 👍 Opting out of financial binding with someone irresponsible.

JegHaderStatistik | JegHaderStatistik

NTA. You made a smart move and should reconsider the relationship 👍

mfruitfly | mfruitfly

Partner's financial immaturity can ruin relationships. NTA made right choice 👍

Top-Cut-369 | Top-Cut-369

Dating is about shared values and vision. NTA. 👍

KeekyPep | KeekyPep

Empowering young women to make smart financial decisions 💪

LadyCass79 | LadyCass79

Don't let him grift on you! 🚫💰 Take control!

cstarrxx | cstarrxx

Financial incompatibility leads to cancelled apartment signing. NTA 👍

Reevadare1990 | Reevadare1990

Smart move! Don't attach yourself financially to an irresponsible partner. NTA 👏

StacyB125 | StacyB125

Savage comment on BF's expensive car purchase 😱

feliscatus_lover | feliscatus_lover

Partner's expensive car purchase causes financial strain and relationship issues.

Eris-Ares | Eris-Ares

Avoiding financial incompatibility saved her wallet and good graces. 👏

PugGrumbles | PugGrumbles

Wise advice to observe his behavior and consider your future 👍

Euphoric_Travel2541 | Euphoric_Travel2541

Sharing financial responsibilities is important in relationships 💰💔

funky_monkey_toes | funky_monkey_toes

Financial compatibility is crucial in a long-term relationship. 💰💔

Spirited_Meringue_80 | Spirited_Meringue_80

NTA for cancelling apartment over BF's poor financial decisions 👏

HandrewJobert | HandrewJobert

Red flag alert! 🚩 Think twice before marrying him.

Maximum-Swan-1009 | Maximum-Swan-1009

Mixed judgments on canceling apartment signing due to boyfriend's irresponsibility.

RandomGuy_81 | RandomGuy_81

Financial responsibility in relationships: when to get involved 🤔

venturebirdday | venturebirdday

NTA commenter defends cancelling apartment signing over BF's car purchase

Dense-Passion-2729 | Dense-Passion-2729

Partner prioritizes car over rent, NTA for canceling lease 👍

Rude_Vermicelli2268 | Rude_Vermicelli2268

Don't pay for his toys! You made the right choice. 👍

MOPPETT331 | MOPPETT331

Sleeping in a racecar bed? 🏎️🛏️ NTA's dream come true

JeepersCreepers74 | JeepersCreepers74

Financial compatibility is key for a successful relationship 💰❤️

Odd-End-1405 | Odd-End-1405

Don't let him play with your money 💸 NTA

Valuable-Spare-7164 | Valuable-Spare-7164

Partner's excessive spending and secrecy will drain your bank account. #NTA

Varkyvark | Varkyvark

Don't let him drive you into debt 💸💔

Supanova-23 | Supanova-23

Break up with the broke man 👋🏼. NTA for canceling.

imtchogirl | imtchogirl

Don't let your partner's financial irresponsibility ruin your future. NTA

Aggravating-Pain9249 | Aggravating-Pain9249

🚗💸 Reconsider the relationship, he's irresponsible with money and manipulative.

SnailsInYourAnus | SnailsInYourAnus

NTA. Relationship advice on financial transparency and responsibility. 👍

Anon_Strike_292 | Anon_Strike_292

Priorities matter: BF chooses car over apartment, OP cancels signing 😱

nomad_l17 | nomad_l17

NTA raises important questions about finances and marriage. 💰💍

RagingOrgyNuns | RagingOrgyNuns

Don't let him drag you down, he's a money pit 💸

jaggedlittlepill1967 | jaggedlittlepill1967

Avoiding financial entanglement with someone with poor spending habits. NTA.

Panaccolade | Panaccolade

Cutting ties with an expensive and useless partner. NTA 👋

WorkInPr0g | WorkInPr0g

Be cautious of tying yourself financially to him. NTA 👍

DarthRyleh | DarthRyleh

Oops, too bad, so sad! 🤷‍♀️ NTA strikes again.

MollyOMalley99 | MollyOMalley99

Smart move. Don't let him drain your finances. 👍

bkwormtricia | bkwormtricia

Dump him. NTA 👍

KMN208 | KMN208

Don't let anyone take advantage of your hard-earned money! 💸

Zefram71 | Zefram71

NTA cancels apartment signing over BF's expensive car purchase 😱💔

KBD_in_PDX | KBD_in_PDX

Think twice before marrying someone with selfish spending habits 👍

ScoutBandit | ScoutBandit

NTA. Commenter points out short-sightedness of BF's expensive car purchase.

chaos8803 | chaos8803

NTA. Supportive and straightforward response to a toxic relationship.

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NTA. It's your money too, prioritize apartment over car 💰🚗

Ornery-Wasabi-473 | Ornery-Wasabi-473

Doubts on BF's car payments and trade-in. NTA.

Leakytophat | Leakytophat

NTA comment suggests dodging a bullet with a French saying 😉

Lolligagers | Lolligagers

Financially-savvy commenter advises against expensive car purchase. #NTA 💰

EddieSevenson | EddieSevenson

Financially irresponsible boyfriend gets dumped before moving in together. 💯

Technical_Ad_4894 | Technical_Ad_4894

Avoiding financial trouble with a car purchase. NTA decision.

rosezoeybear | rosezoeybear

Sarcastic reply to NTA comment on honeymoon bankruptcy trend 😂

Militantignorance | Militantignorance

Clueless boyfriend's expensive car purchase leads to canceled apartment 🚫🏢

briomio | briomio

Partner buys Corvette after needing deposit, NTA for cancelling.

fragilemagnoliax | fragilemagnoliax

Cut your losses now and dump this irresponsible spender 👍

Middle--Earth | Middle--Earth

Covering his share, her business. Can't make rent, bye car 👋

avatarjulius | avatarjulius

Don't move in with someone financially irresponsible. NTA 👍

manonaca | manonaca

Prioritizing an expensive car over bills? Definitely NTA 👍

AsparagusOverall8454 | AsparagusOverall8454

NTA advises ending relationship over BF's financial irresponsibility. 👍

Violet351 | Violet351

Financial transparency is key in moving in together. NTA.

amyb10045 | amyb10045

Financially irresponsible BF gets dumped over expensive car purchase 😱

ThatWhichLurks782 | ThatWhichLurks782

Prioritizing a Corvette over savings? NTA for cancelling apartment.

C_Majuscula | C_Majuscula

NTA commenter warns about impracticality of expensive car purchase 🛣

Quick-Possession-245 | Quick-Possession-245

NTA cancels apartment over BF's expensive car purchase 😱💔

Old-Host9735 | Old-Host9735

Don't be a bank with benefits 💰. Smart move!

bidderbidder | bidderbidder

Red flag alert! Commenter advises to run for the hills 😱

lirin000 | lirin000

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