💸 Girlfriend Demands Payback After 2 Years of Footing the Bills 💔

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Diply | Diply

Imagine being in a relationship where you're the only one working, paying all the bills, and providing for your partner. For this 19-year-old woman, that's been her reality for the past 2 years. Living with her jobless boyfriend, she's been the sole breadwinner, while he relies on his mom for extra cash. But when he asked her to pay him back for a meal, she finally reached her breaking point. 😡 Read on to see how this explosive situation unfolded...

2 Years of One-Sided Support 💸

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Mom's Money to the Rescue 💰

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A Reluctant Provider 🙄

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Bearing the Financial Burden 🏠

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A Fateful Day in Town 🛍️

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Money Running Low ⛽

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Dinner Dilemma 🍽️

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A Surprising Offer 💳

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The Last Straw 🤯

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A Bold Refusal 🚫

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An Angry Confrontation 😡

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Repeating the Offense 🔄

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Demanding Payback 💔

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A Hasty Retreat 🏃‍♂️

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Name-Calling Ensues 😠

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The Cost of Love: A Relationship in Crisis 💔

After 2 years of single-handedly supporting their life together, this young woman was pushed to her limits when her jobless boyfriend asked her to pay him back for a meal. 🍽️ In a moment of anger, she demanded he pay her back for everything she's spent on them in the past 2 years. 😱 Now, he's been staying at his mom's house, and she's been called an a**hole by multiple people. But who's really in the wrong here? Let's see what the internet has to say about this heated situation... 🔥

Break up with him. You can do better. 👏

Flintejae | Flintejae

User suggests letting the boyfriend's mom keep him 👀

salt_and_tea | salt_and_tea

Cut your losses, he's an AH. NTA. 👍

Downtown-Law-3133 | Downtown-Law-3133

Sharing a home means sharing responsibilities. NTA for expecting that.

Past-Ad3676 | Past-Ad3676

🚩 Harsh but necessary wake-up call for a financially abused girlfriend.

LookOut55 | LookOut55

Mooch moved out, problem solved. Be thankful! 😊

zbornakingthestone | zbornakingthestone

Curious commenter asks for more details, declares NTA.

VeronaMoreau | VeronaMoreau

👏 NTA, but it's time to reconsider the financial dynamic. 💰

AcanthopterygiiFirm | AcanthopterygiiFirm

🚫 NTA but staying with him is self-sabotage. He disrespects you.

BeeBeeFly | BeeBeeFly

Partner not contributing financially, commenter advises to drop him. 🚫

Flamezeszzz | Flamezeszzz

Ex-boyfriend's entitlement gets him kicked out. 👋🏼

Baldoran | Baldoran

Dump the leech 🦐 and take him back to his mom 🤷‍♀️

whatsmypassword73 | whatsmypassword73

ESH in a financially imbalanced relationship. Time for a change 💰

eileen_i | eileen_i

Dump him! 🚮 You deserve better than being used for money.

YuripzyMoron | YuripzyMoron

Two years too long, change the locks and move on. 👋

FeistyMouse | FeistyMouse

User advises woman to end unfair relationship and change locks. 💔

Heraonolympia123 | Heraonolympia123

👏🏼 You go girl! NTA, he's an entitled douche canoe. 👋🏼

Im_a_surly_duck | Im_a_surly_duck

Partner acting like a child, time to stop enabling him 👏

ForwardPlenty | ForwardPlenty

Working two jobs to support another adult? NTA but why? 😕

Improbablyfromhell | Improbablyfromhell

Dating a bum? NTA comment calls out lazy partner.

ThunderSparkles | ThunderSparkles

Both need jobs or he needs to GTFO 👋

Knitsanity | Knitsanity

Partner's entitlement to money is a red flag. NTA.

crackersandseltzer | crackersandseltzer

Dump him! 🚮 You work hard, he leeches off you. 💸

Bensch_man | Bensch_man

Sending him back to his mom after being his mom 🤦‍♀️

Unlucky-Gal1983 | Unlucky-Gal1983

Unwilling to work? Get a new boyfriend 👍

jadepumpkin1984 | jadepumpkin1984

Girlfriend demands payback after 2 years of supporting her boyfriend.

Djorgal | Djorgal

NTA, Relationship is one-sided. Best route is to break up. 👍

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Savage comment calls out lazy boyfriend, no replies.

Starlight_Sparrow | Starlight_Sparrow

Don't be a doormat. You deserve respect, generosity, and love. 💔

myBisL2 | myBisL2

Demanding payback after 2 years? NTA, you deserve better 💰

Dazzling_Ad_6930 | Dazzling_Ad_6930

NTA. The boyfriend expects financial support and doesn't appreciate it.

vintagebeet | vintagebeet

Dump the dead weight boyfriend and move on. NTA 👍

Resting_Beauty_Face | Resting_Beauty_Face

Dump the hypocrite boyfriend who won't pay his share 💔

gnimmuc6898 | gnimmuc6898

Dump the freeloading boyfriend or be an AH to yourself 💔

ReginoldBollocks | ReginoldBollocks

NTA for calling out boyfriend's immaturity and dependency on mother.

anmlmruinedmylife2 | anmlmruinedmylife2

NTA, partner using you for free rent, car payments, etc. Reconsider relationship. 💓

declined- | declined-

NTA comment: Boyfriend's financial reliance on girlfriend is unfair 🚫💰

lostalldoubt86 | lostalldoubt86

Dump the financial vampire and find a real partner in life 💰🧛‍♂️

Hksju | Hksju

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Change the locks and block him. NTA

wheres_the_revolt | wheres_the_revolt

Dump his freeloading a**. You deserve better 💪

SugaredZebra | SugaredZebra

You deserve better 💔 Don't let him use you.

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👍 NTA comment highlights red flags in relationships with jobless partners.

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🤦‍♀️ Supporting a mooch who calls you an a**hole? Leave him.

SillyCat81 | SillyCat81

Don't apologize for calling him out on his b.s. 💪

RevolutionarySea15 | RevolutionarySea15

User calls out entitled leech, says trash took itself out 💁‍♀️

Delicious-Insect-693 | Delicious-Insect-693

NTA. Partner wants payback after not contributing to household expenses. Run.

IBeatHimAtChess | IBeatHimAtChess

Dump him! 💔 You deserve better than a moocher. #NTA

PostOne8063 | PostOne8063

👏 NTA for calling out the freeloader in the relationship.

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Demanding payback with a reminder every time. 💵

mmartinez59 | mmartinez59

Dump the mama's boy and find someone who pulls their weight 👍

Careful-Bumblebee-10 | Careful-Bumblebee-10

Encouraging comment advises to leave abusive relationship and seek therapy ❤️

Good_Boat8761 | Good_Boat8761

Change the locks 🔑. You don't need another minute on this user.

brigiliz | brigiliz

Partner's financial reliance is disrespectful. OP deserves someone better. 💰

Own-Hovercraft-2986 | Own-Hovercraft-2986

Take control of your finances and find an independent adult 💰

teresajs | teresajs

Dump the mooch 🚮. Find a partner, not a piggy bank 💰.

anchovie_macncheese | anchovie_macncheese

Guy gets called out for being tacky and calling her AH 😒

So_Many_Words | So_Many_Words

Dump him and move on! 🚮 Life's too short. 💁

Sweet_Caterpillar150 | Sweet_Caterpillar150

NTA, girlfriend deserves better than a cocklodger. 💯

SerenDipitY_2020 | SerenDipitY_2020

Will she learn her lesson or repeat the same mistake? 🤔

Traveling-Techie | Traveling-Techie

Dump the trash boyfriend and find someone who values you 💔

Tough_Stretch | Tough_Stretch

User compares girlfriend's boyfriend to a parasitic lamprey. Ouch. NTA

Alecto53558 | Alecto53558

NTA, paying all the bills, save money without him. Consider B.o.B.

Catri | Catri

Celebrate the gift of freedom and doubled net income! 🎉

MintDynasty | MintDynasty

Dump the freeloader and find someone better 💔💼

diskebbin | diskebbin

NTA, but without financial equity, the relationship is doomed. 💸

Whoreson_Welles | Whoreson_Welles

NTA comment: Let him go. He's using you 👋

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NTA. He's deadweight. Accept his gift of walking out 👋

MeanPopcorn | MeanPopcorn

Don't let anyone take advantage of your kindness. 👍

The_One_True_Imp | The_One_True_Imp

Arrogant bum gets what he deserves, girlfriend not off the hook 👏

mindbird | mindbird

Take a spa weekend and evaluate your relationship 💓

Phoebe613 | Phoebe613

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