Man Donates Sperm to Sister's Family, Refuses Father Role 😲

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Picture this: your sister and her wife want a baby, but they need your help. You agree to be a sperm donor, but that's where your involvement ends. No fatherly duties for you, thank you very much! 😅 Well, that's exactly the situation our anonymous hero finds himself in. He just doesn't like kids, and he's wondering if it's wrong to refuse a father figure role in his niece's life. Let's dive into the story and see what's going on! 👀

The Big Ask 🙏

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First Request Denied ❌

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Deployment and Timing ⏰

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Second Request Accepted ✅

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Pregnancy Announcement 🤰

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Curious Friends 🤔

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Not My Kid 🚫

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No Love for Kids 😒

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Unpopular Opinion 😬

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The Big Question 🤷

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Sperm Donor, Not Daddy! 🙅‍♂️

Our hero stepped up and donated his sperm to help his sister and her wife have a baby, but he's drawing the line at playing daddy. He's made it clear that he doesn't like kids and has no intention of ever having any of his own. His friends are curious about his feelings towards his niece, but he insists that she's not his child and he won't be a father figure. Is he wrong for refusing to take on a parental role? Let's see what the internet has to say about this tricky situation... 🧐

Generous sperm donation without parental attachment. NTA 👏

YouSayWotNow | YouSayWotNow

Clear boundaries important in sperm donation to avoid parental role.

Trin_42 | Trin_42

Choosing not to be a parent doesn't make you a**hole 🙌

shanghairolls99 | shanghairolls99

Donating genetic material to family is normal and clinical. 😊

andmewithoutmytowel | andmewithoutmytowel

Donating sperm to sister's family, refusing father role. NTA 👏

Tiger_Striped_Queen | Tiger_Striped_Queen

Detachment makes perfect donor. Baby isn't yours. NTA 😎

DefinitionSilly9734 | DefinitionSilly9734

Donating sperm to sister's family, refusing father role. NTA 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Donated sperm to sister's family, no legal or medical issues. NTA 👏

ThreeDogs2022 | ThreeDogs2022

Sibling love at its finest 😍

amstarshine | amstarshine

Selfless act of sperm donation without attachment to the baby 👏

tacokato | tacokato

Choosing not to parent, but still helping family. Great decision! 👍

Far-Juggernaut8880 | Far-Juggernaut8880

Donating sperm doesn't make you a father. NTA.

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Redditor overwhelmed by support after venting about sperm donation guilt 😮

Sad-Pangolin-9 | Sad-Pangolin-9

Donating sperm to your sister's family - NTA and a big ask 🙌

Muchgain | Muchgain

Setting boundaries is important. NTA comment shuts down inappropriate behavior.

RamsLams | RamsLams

NTAH. Donating sperm doesn't mean being a father figure 🙏

QTlady | QTlady

Suggests discreet IVF as a solution to unwanted comments. 👍

CityGirLN | CityGirLN

Uncle donates sperm to sister's family, refuses father role. NTA 👏

Abject-Mix-7194 | Abject-Mix-7194

Donating sperm doesn't make you a parent. NTA 👍

cthulhusmercy | cthulhusmercy

Genetic similarities can be surprising, have a plan to explain. NTA.

jensmith20055002 | jensmith20055002

Family genetics make nephew look like commenter, NTA for refusing father role.

beanomly | beanomly

Donating sperm to sister's family, setting expectations. NTA 👏

Federal-Ferret-970 | Federal-Ferret-970

Donating sperm to sister's family, refusing father role. NTA.

jmccorky | jmccorky

Supportive comment encourages being a great uncle, not a dad 👍

Desert_Fairy | Desert_Fairy

Modern families don't need a 'father' figure. NTA 👍

Flustered-Flump | Flustered-Flump

Donating sperm doesn't make you a father figure. NTA 👍

DuckyLog | DuckyLog

Donating a seed, not a person. Congrats on becoming uncle! 👏

Kateseesu | Kateseesu

Donating sperm to sister's family without father role. NTA 😊

Sin-Sual-Daemon | Sin-Sual-Daemon

Donating sperm doesn't make you a dad. NTA 👍

JKristiina | JKristiina

Donating sperm to family doesn't make you a parent 🙌

LocalMoonBitch | LocalMoonBitch

Donating sperm doesn't make you a dad. NTA for setting boundaries 👏

Certain_Accident3382 | Certain_Accident3382

Donating sperm to sister's family, refusing father role - Perfect donor 👍

Strange_Salamander33 | Strange_Salamander33

Donating sperm doesn't make you a father. NTA. 👍

Sok_Taragai | Sok_Taragai

Biological father, but not intended to be the dad. NTA!

ClubAdmirable | ClubAdmirable

Donating sperm to family? Get a lawyer and protect yourself! 🙌

Sweet-Interview5620 | Sweet-Interview5620

Sibling love triumphs over societal norms in sperm donation 🙌

Beaudeye | Beaudeye

Being a father is a role, not necessarily biological 👨‍🎲

p1z4rr0 | p1z4rr0

Donor refuses father role, child can know biological origins. NTA 👍

RegretNecessary21 | RegretNecessary21

Donating sperm doesn't make you a father 🙌

Intelligent-Kiwi-574 | Intelligent-Kiwi-574

Family ties: when sperm donation becomes a gift of love 💝

geniologygal | geniologygal

Donating sperm to family doesn't mean being a father. NTA 👍

CakeInfamous8694 | CakeInfamous8694

Clear NTA judgement for sperm donor respecting sister's family boundaries.

chefrikrock | chefrikrock

Not wanting kids doesn't make you a bad person 😊

maidenmothercrone333 | maidenmothercrone333

Uncle Daddy: Heartwarming story of sperm donation and family love 😍

pikachupirate | pikachupirate

Donating sperm to sister's family, refusing father role. NTA 🙌

Longjumping-Ad2698 | Longjumping-Ad2698

Anonymous sperm donation suggestion to avoid questions. Heartwarming gesture ❤️

Ribeye_steak_1987 | Ribeye_steak_1987

Donating sperm doesn't make you a dad. NTA 👍

rrachelli | rrachelli

Donating sperm doesn't make you a dad. NTA 👍

Dextergrayson | Dextergrayson

Birthmother shares support and personal experience with NTA sperm donor.

omggallout | omggallout

Heartwarming story of a supportive uncle 😍

PartyCat78 | PartyCat78

Donating sperm to sister's family, but refusing father role. NTA.

Top_Journalist433 | Top_Journalist433

Sibling becomes mother and aunt? Mind blown 🤯

phoxalot | phoxalot

Donating sperm to family doesn't make you a father figure 🙌

Substantial_Look_334 | Substantial_Look_334

Genetic relation doesn't equal fatherhood. NTA 👏

Katya117 | Katya117

Donated sperm, not a dad. NTA, did a nice thing 👍

SnooWords4839 | SnooWords4839

Donor explains attachment to niece, questions why it's an issue 😕

ltlyellowcloud | ltlyellowcloud

Not everyone has to like kids, and that's okay 🙏

klinkscousin | klinkscousin

Donating sperm to sister's family, being involved as uncle. Win-win! 😍

chunkymcgee | chunkymcgee

Donating sperm to sister's family, refusing father role. NTA 👏

Just_Me1973 | Just_Me1973

Uncle's role is enough. NTA. Questions make no sense 😍

Daddinator1701 | Daddinator1701

Donating sperm doesn't make you a parent. NTA 👏

LtDaxIsMyCat | LtDaxIsMyCat

Donating sperm to sister's family, refusing father role. NTA 👍

colmcmittens | colmcmittens

Donating sperm to family without father role, NTA comment

Proud_Ad_8830 | Proud_Ad_8830

Biological father's responsibility in case of sister's death discussed. 🙏

d1scworld | d1scworld

Support for sperm donor's decision to not be father figure 👍

mctaggartann | mctaggartann

Choosing to donate sperm doesn't mean wanting to be a dad 😎

BlackoutMeatCurtains | BlackoutMeatCurtains

Donating sperm doesn't make you a father-figure. NTA 👍

Barneyk | Barneyk

Donating sperm to sister's family doesn't make him a father 👨‍👧‍👦 #NTA

cryptokitty010 | cryptokitty010

Kid deserves to know for health reasons and identity. #NTA

Francl27 | Francl27

Donated sperm to sister's family, refuses father role. NTA 🙌

Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113

Donated sperm to sister's family, criticized for not wanting role 😭

Anonymoosehead123 | Anonymoosehead123

Donating sperm to family doesn't make you a father. NTA 👍

Flaky-Ad-3265 | Flaky-Ad-3265

Generous sperm donation leads to interesting genetic resemblances. #NTA 😍

fckinsleepless | fckinsleepless

Sperm ≠ Kid. Donating doesn't make you a**hole. 🙌

South_Front_4589 | South_Front_4589

Uncle's sperm donation leads to family drama. NTA stands firm.

Maleficent_3608 | Maleficent_3608

Supportive comment, telling the donor to ignore naysayers 👏

Soon_trvl4evr | Soon_trvl4evr

A selfless act of love and family, no father role involved 👨‍🏻👩‍🏻

iwishiwasjosiesmom | iwishiwasjosiesmom

Donating sperm to family, but important to discuss with child later 👨‍🍳

jello-kittu | jello-kittu

Growing up in a similar situation, the commenter shares their experience.

scythematter | scythematter

Genetics can be confusing, like mistaken identity with family members 😕

Odd-Obligation3304 | Odd-Obligation3304

Sister donated egg, treats child as nephew. Counseling helped. 👍

danysedai | danysedai

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