Maid of Honor Dilemma: 💔 When Best Friends Don't Make the Cut

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Diply | Diply

We all know that weddings can be a rollercoaster of emotions, but what happens when your best friend, who you chose as your maid of honor, doesn't even invite you to her own wedding? 😲 One heartbroken bride-to-be is left questioning her friendship and whether she should ask her maid of honor to step down. Let's dive into the story...👀

The Engagement 💍

hurtbymoh | hurtbymoh

Amy's Excitement 😄

hurtbymoh | hurtbymoh

No Hurt Feelings? 🤔

hurtbymoh | hurtbymoh

The Guest List Dilemma 😔

hurtbymoh | hurtbymoh

The Facebook Revelation 😮

hurtbymoh | hurtbymoh

The Painful Truth 💔

hurtbymoh | hurtbymoh

Amy's Apology 😓

hurtbymoh | hurtbymoh

Feeling Crushed 😢

hurtbymoh | hurtbymoh

Friendship on the Line 🥺

hurtbymoh | hurtbymoh

A Friendship Put to the Test 😰

Our heartbroken bride-to-be is left questioning her friendship with her maid of honor, Amy, after discovering she didn't make the cut for Amy's wedding guest list. 😔 Despite Amy's apologies and assurances that she's still a close friend, the bride-to-be can't help but feel crushed and betrayed. 💔 Now, she's considering asking Amy to step down as maid of honor. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🍿

NTA. Amy lied about not inviting you to her wedding.

FrnchsLwyr | FrnchsLwyr

Weddings are tough, but it's important to be with those you want. 💍

nfc3po | nfc3po

Choosing your MOH based on who can get shit done 💪

doordonot19 | doordonot19

Choosing a MOH over a friend's wedding is a dilemma. 💍

Rainbow62993 | Rainbow62993

NAH. Pandemic weddings are stressful enough as it is 😭

Major-Jellyfish-1282 | Major-Jellyfish-1282

Unpopular opinion: bride doesn't owe you a wedding invite. 💍

littlefiddle05 | littlefiddle05

Friendship imbalance hurts, but objectively NAH due to pandemic. 😔

MairEngelwood | MairEngelwood

Misjudging closeness hurts, but maybe others had her in theirs. NAH 😔

feverdraem | feverdraem

Weddings can be tough on friendships 💔

Serious-Spring | Serious-Spring

Wedding guest list woes: Understanding the tough decisions couples make 💔

unevendimples90 | unevendimples90

Have an open conversation with your friend to resolve conflict 👍

goldengracie | goldengracie

Friend not chosen as maid of honor, NAH. Valid feelings.

HeadBonk | HeadBonk

Friend pulls the a**hole card after not inviting maid of honor

DkTizano202 | DkTizano202

Weddings aren't tit for tat, pandemic or not. NAH.

Femizzle | Femizzle

Being left out of your best friend's wedding is heartbreaking 💔

HeiressOfGondor | HeiressOfGondor

Friend's wedding, friend's choice. But OP's feelings are valid. 👍

fakename2805 | fakename2805

NTA. Friendship should be a two-way street 👍

castlite | castlite

Friendship isn't always equal. NAH for not feeling as close.

earthtoeveryoneX | earthtoeveryoneX

Wedding invite snub is a red flag. #NTA 🚨

[deleted] | [deleted]

Heartbreaking rejection from MOH, commenter offers support and love ❤️

androidis4lyf | androidis4lyf

Empathetic comment acknowledges MOH dilemma and offers possible explanation. 🥰

kmr1981 | kmr1981

NAH verdict for MOH dilemma. Friendship perspectives vary. No entitlements.

AnneAnaranjado | AnneAnaranjado

Being left out of the top 5 hurts, but ask first 🤔

Djhinnwe | Djhinnwe

Friendship boundaries respected, hurt feelings acknowledged. NAH 🤝❤️

[deleted] | [deleted]

Navigating the complexities of friendship in wedding planning. 💜

MusicHoney | MusicHoney

Wedding invite snub and lying friend. NTA depending on communication.

friendlystonergirl | friendlystonergirl

Consider her contributions before demoting her from Maid of Honor.

Nomanodyssey | Nomanodyssey

Wedding planning is tough, but MOH should be a top friend 👏

T1nyJazzHands | T1nyJazzHands

NAH. Adult friendships are weird and fluctuate in closeness. Keep her.

Apprehensive-Knee829 | Apprehensive-Knee829

Value her friendship, keep her as maid of honor ❤️

ismellboogers | ismellboogers

Navigating changing friendships and unrequited love in wedding planning. 💔

bloodneverliez | bloodneverliez

Cutting out toxic friends: NTA, find a new MOH 👍

TheExcitableType | TheExcitableType

Friendship downgrade: NTA comment on MOH selection feels relatable 💔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Friendships evolve and change, it's okay to prioritize current relationships 👍

Iknowwhatisaw | Iknowwhatisaw

Former best friend excluded MOH from her wedding, NTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Being a MOH is not a competition. Cherish your friendship 💜

vengefulmanatee | vengefulmanatee

Navigating friendship hierarchies in weddings can be tough. 💔

JDL1968 | JDL1968

Valuable advice on friendship and weddings, keep Amy as MOH 👍

elationonceagain | elationonceagain

It's OP's wedding, but hope they stay friends with ex-MOH 💔

SerenaVera | SerenaVera

Wedding planning during a pandemic is tough. NAH for choosing others.


Friendship can be a tricky thing 🤔 NAH comment

lil_zaku | lil_zaku

It's okay to be upset, but don't lose your best friend ❤️

fmlwhateven | fmlwhateven

Choosing a Maid of Honor can be tough, but NTA.

clutzycook | clutzycook

Friend accepts MOH role, then chooses 5 friends over you. NTA. 👍

piximelon | piximelon

Supportive comment reminds friend she's still valued despite exclusion. 👍

lilessums | lilessums

Removing a friend from your wedding party: petty or justified?

byakuya611 | byakuya611

Different perspectives on friendship, but no a**holes here. 👥

StupidityBag | StupidityBag

Be understanding of your friend's tough decision. 🙏

korevmorlader | korevmorlader

A heartwarming story about friendship and loss. 💔

CrystalizedinCali | CrystalizedinCali

Choosing a maid of honor can be tough, but friendships endure ❤️

Shezzle2011 | Shezzle2011

Choosing family over best friend as MOH, bride should have communicated better. NTA

Special-Parsnip9057 | Special-Parsnip9057

Exploring the dynamics of childhood vs college friendships 👩‍🎓

J_Seidy | J_Seidy

Ex-MOH didn't invite commenter to wedding despite being MOH. NTA.

Ninerism | Ninerism

Choosing a maid of honor can be tough, but punishing a friend isn't the solution. 🤔

ulvok_coven | ulvok_coven

Friendship hurts 💔, but hoping for a magical wedding 🎉

[deleted] | [deleted]

Choose your bridal party wisely. NTA for reciprocating.

YoungDiscord | YoungDiscord

Choosing bridesmaids based on looks is shallow and hurtful. 💔

CattonioJr | CattonioJr

Friendship fallout over wedding snub; trust your gut. NTA

kimmi2ue | kimmi2ue

Being excluded hurts, but consider their perspective before judging. 🤔

mrquinn666 | mrquinn666

Friend left out of wedding shares advice: drop her, move on 👋

HardShelledNut | HardShelledNut

Wedding drama: Friendships and expectations don't always match 💔

kk112345 | kk112345

Friend made OP MOH but didn't invite her to own wedding. NTA 👏

Nucks1994 | Nucks1994

Empathetic reply to hurtful situation, encouraging words for engagement. 😊

Wistastic | Wistastic

Choosing a Maid of Honor can be tricky. Is Amy the a**hole?

missuslin | missuslin

Be the bigger person and make her your MOH 👍

xespri | xespri

One-sided friendship? NTA for removing her from your wedding 💔

derrynek | derrynek

Is it worth potentially losing a friend over MOH selection? 🤔

kgltap | kgltap

Choosing someone else for maid of honor is justified. NTA 👏

khaleesi_spyro | khaleesi_spyro

When your 'best friend' doesn't even make you top 5 🤷‍♀️

cheesypuzzas | cheesypuzzas

NTA. MOH doesn't value relationship. Kick her out. 👍

berryshortcakekitten | berryshortcakekitten

Choose your MOH based on closeness, not obligation. NTA 👍

yolovish | yolovish

Choose the one you want by your side on your day 💔

TexasTiger70 | TexasTiger70

Friend lies about wedding decision, called out for being TA 💔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Friendship fears and support. You deserve better. ❤️

Anxiouslover9 | Anxiouslover9

Friend lies about not inviting MOH, commenter says she's AH.

AmIBeingPunkd- | AmIBeingPunkd-

Choosing a maid of honor can be tricky. NAH/YTA dilemma.

Mg962 | Mg962

Choosing a maid of honor can be a tough decision 😔

Crimson_Songbird | Crimson_Songbird

Choose a MOH who loves you as much as you do ❤️

SolitaryTrailblazer | SolitaryTrailblazer

Celebrate your big day with true friends 💜 #NTA

lindslindslindsss | lindslindslindsss

Choosing a Maid of Honor can be tough. NTA for choosing wisely.

visiblylessvisible | visiblylessvisible

Friendship reevaluation, but guest list freedom is important too. 👍

Idejbfp | Idejbfp

NTA and a humorous take on the situation 😂

syg111 | syg111

Choosing a wedding party can be tough, but honesty is key 💍

Darkm1tch69 | Darkm1tch69

OP not the a**hole for cutting friend from wedding party.

ursadminor | ursadminor

NAH explains how having multiple close friends is possible and valid.

superduebet | superduebet

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