College Fund Drama: Older Sister's Dilemma 😱🎓

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Picture this: you're a 19-year-old college student, struggling to pay your own tuition after your mom pulled your college fund. Why? Because you couldn't promise to pay for your younger sister's college education. This is the reality for one young woman, who's now questioning if she's a bad sister for not being able to guarantee financial support for her sibling's future education. 😔💔 Let's dive into her story...

A Rocky Relationship 😣

snoopyfan135 | snoopyfan135

The College Question 🎓

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The Uncertain Answer 🤷‍♀️

snoopyfan135 | snoopyfan135

A Conditional Offer 💰

snoopyfan135 | snoopyfan135

Mom's Disapproval 😠

snoopyfan135 | snoopyfan135

College Fund Pulled 💔

snoopyfan135 | snoopyfan135

The Struggle is Real 😓

snoopyfan135 | snoopyfan135

Feeling Guilty 😔

snoopyfan135 | snoopyfan135

Mom's Blame Game 🧐

snoopyfan135 | snoopyfan135

Dependent on Grades 📚

snoopyfan135 | snoopyfan135

Tuition Troubles 😩

snoopyfan135 | snoopyfan135

Little Sister's School Situation 📝

snoopyfan135 | snoopyfan135

Feeling Doubtful 😟

snoopyfan135 | snoopyfan135

Sisterly Love vs. Financial Reality 💔💸

So, here's the deal: our protagonist is a 19-year-old college student, struggling to pay her own tuition after her mom pulled her college fund. The reason? She couldn't promise to pay for her younger sister's college education. Now, she's feeling guilty and questioning if she's a bad sister for not being able to guarantee financial support for her sibling's future education. 😔 But can we really blame her for being honest about her financial situation? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

Sibling college fund drama. NTA, parents suck. Take care.

0000udeis000 | 0000udeis000

Sibling college tuition drama, toxic mother, NTA verdict. 😱

IneffableB | IneffableB

Sibling college fund drama: NTA for not paying sister's education 💰

the-mirrors-truth | the-mirrors-truth

Realistic expectations: older sister not obligated to pay for college 👍

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Redditors show support for sister whose college fund was taken. NTA

Mary_Misanthrope | Mary_Misanthrope

Breaking free from cultural norms and standing up to family 💪

Mary_Misanthrope | Mary_Misanthrope

Sister not responsible for mom's inability to parent 👏

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Protecting sister from toxic mother, NTA for keeping funds.

dovahshy13 | dovahshy13

Sibling not responsible for college fund, advice to cut ties.

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Stand up to manipulative parents and take a break 💪

Acceptable_Letter331 | Acceptable_Letter331

Sibling not responsible for funding sister's college. Mother is manipulative.

cyfermax | cyfermax

Mother pulls college fund, commenter calls it toxic and cruel 💯

Antithinks | Antithinks

Sibling refuses to pay for sister's college fund. NTA wins.

Thediciplematt | Thediciplematt

Sibling's college fund dilemma, NTA for not paying siblings' accounts 👏

ChalkButter | ChalkButter

Sibling support without overextending. NTA 🤝🎓

Rainlingz | Rainlingz

Encouraging alternative routes to college education, NTA comment section 👍

ToastAbrikoos | ToastAbrikoos

Mother is parentifying her, not her responsibility to provide.

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Sibling money feud: NTA for not funding niece's college 👏

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Mom can't expect you to pay for sister. Good response 👍

Mr-Metalman | Mr-Metalman

You're off the hook! NTA, not your responsibility 👍

Katiebug1987 | Katiebug1987

Sister not responsible for entitled sibling's college fund 💯

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Sibling struggles: NTA for not wanting to fund sister's college 🙅

junecooper1918 | junecooper1918

Clever solution to college fund dilemma 👏

Ok_Size_8987 | Ok_Size_8987

Sibling not parent. No reason to pay sister's tuition. #NTA 👏

slydog4100 | slydog4100

Apply for scholarships on College Greenlight, NTA's got this! 👏

Definition_Far | Definition_Far

Mom's unrealistic expectations put younger sister's college on older sister.

SilverSentinel15 | SilverSentinel15

Sister stands up to mom in college fund dispute 💪

jimsmythee | jimsmythee

Self-care first! Harsh but true advice for a troubled sister 🙏

Bango_Skank_Returns | Bango_Skank_Returns

Sibling college fund drama: NTA for not paying sister's tuition. 👏

Dad_pancakes | Dad_pancakes

Don't cripple yourself financially for your sister's college fund 💸

Snooping22 | Snooping22

Heartbreaking situation 😢. Encouraging self-investment and scholarship pursuit 🎓.

LeeDES911 | LeeDES911

Sibling's college fund used for sister, NTA for refusing manipulation 👍

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Encouraging comment reminds OP they're not responsible for sister's college 🎓

amfrank74 | amfrank74

Sister shouldn't sacrifice her future for sister's college fund 👏

CarlowCarlo | CarlowCarlo

Sister's college fund: real or excuse for favoritism? 🤔

lizzyote | lizzyote

Sibling shouldn't pay for sister's college. NTA. 👍

bmoreskyandsea | bmoreskyandsea

Sibling college fund drama resolved with a clear NTA verdict 👍

IgOtAQuEsTiON101221 | IgOtAQuEsTiON101221

Sibling college funds causing drama. NTA for refusing.

fishymcswims | fishymcswims

OP's mom guilt-trips her into paying for sister's tuition 😔

AiTAthrowitaway12 | AiTAthrowitaway12

Mother's mistreatment backfires, NTA for not accepting college payment 👏

azh88 | azh88

No obligation to family's financial irresponsibility. NTA 👏

issa_h26 | issa_h26

Sibling rivalry over college fund leads to low contact with mother 😠

Coffeineaddicted | Coffeineaddicted

NTA. Family scapegoat predicts mother's true intentions and advises disengagement.

shaihalud69 | shaihalud69

OP is NTA and JNM is using her as a scapegoat. 💰

JCWa50 | JCWa50

Don't let your mom guilt you into paying for her tuition 💰

Fuckivehadenough | Fuckivehadenough

Sister's college fund taken, NTA for not paying for her tuition 👏

Renbarre | Renbarre

Satisfying NTA response with comeback suggestions 😎

AJWordsmith | AJWordsmith

Sister refuses to pay for sibling's college fund. NTA!

silent_whisper89 | silent_whisper89

NTA. Sibling not obligated to pay for college. Mom's abusive behavior.

queerbychoice | queerbychoice

Sister pays own tuition after mom takes college fund 😱

firefly232 | firefly232

NTA comment receives sympathy for their 'mangled world view' 😢

Meastro2293 | Meastro2293

Sibling boundaries crossed? NTA asserts no responsibility for sister's college.

RebeccaEliRose | RebeccaEliRose

Mom took college fund, cut them off 👍

Improbablyfromhell | Improbablyfromhell

Don't let toxic family guilt you into sacrificing your future. 👏

fragilemagnoliax | fragilemagnoliax

Parenting double standard: unconditional yes expected, college fund revoked for no reason.

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Sibling college fund drama, commenter thinks NTA for not paying.

DocSternau | DocSternau

Sister accused of blowing college fund, withholding it as punishment 🤔

aRegularStrawberry | aRegularStrawberry

Confused commenter seeks clarity on college fund drama 🤔

gollyRoger | gollyRoger

Get a vocational certificate for a better paying job! 💪

WhySoManyOstriches | WhySoManyOstriches

Mom believes in family support, except for OP's college fund? 🤔

srhfay | srhfay

Sibling guilted into paying for sister's college, mother pulls college fund. 😡

Yellowsunflowerlover | Yellowsunflowerlover

Supportive comment suggests seeking help from r/narcissisticparents subreddit.

UhnonMonster | UhnonMonster

Community colleges are a great budget-friendly option 👍

barknoll | barknoll

Don't stress, you're NTA. Parents took your fund, not responsibility.

raerae6672 | raerae6672

Sibling rivalry and financial drama 💎💰, but NTA wins 👏

J_D09 | J_D09

Mom took your college fund, shouldn't be responsible for sister's tuition 👏

dancingriss | dancingriss

Stand your ground and prioritize your own financial stability 💪

Mysterious-System680 | Mysterious-System680

Don't stress, you're NTA. It's not your responsibility 🙅‍♀️

BSnIA | BSnIA

Mom pulls funding for sister's tuition, worst parenting move ever 😱

jado5150 | jado5150

Sister tries to transfer college fund, commenter calls out manipulation. 👏

cabbage9988 | cabbage9988

Sibling drama and family manipulation. NTA, don't give in.

tangerine-trees- | tangerine-trees-

Sibling solidarity in the face of parental neglect 👏

you_dontknowme7 | you_dontknowme7

Unfair college fund situation. Can FASFA help? 🤔

Pinoybl | Pinoybl

NTA! Focus on your life, not your toxic mother's demands. 👏

PM_ME_LASAGNA_ | PM_ME_LASAGNA_

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