Friend's GF Crashes Every Get-Together, So They Stop Inviting Him 😱

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We all have that one friend who can't seem to do anything without their significant other, right? But what happens when that 'plus one' starts to cause more drama than a reality TV show? This friend group of six guys found themselves in a pickle when one of their own kept bringing his girlfriend to every single get-together, causing chaos at every turn. 🙄🍿 Let's dive into this wild story!

The Friend Group and Their Tradition 🍻

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The Girlfriend Who Never Leaves 🙅‍♂️

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Restaurant Drama 🍽️💦

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Water Attack! 💧😡

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Intervention Time ⏰👬

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Invading the Group Chats 📱👩

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Never-ending Issues 🤦‍♂️🌧️

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Grow a Pair, V! 💪🗣️

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The Tough Decision 🚫👫

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Name-calling Ensues 😤

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Clarifying the Guys-Night 📅👨

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Just the 6 of Them 🚹🚹🚹🚹🚹🚹

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The Verdict: Are They in the Wrong? 🤔

So, this friend group decided they'd had enough of V's girlfriend's antics and made the tough call to stop inviting him to their events until he could sort things out with her. They've been called a**holes by V and his girlfriend, and even their own significant others seem to agree. But what do you think? Are they justified in their decision, or should they have handled it differently? Let's check out some of the top responses from the internet! 📣🌐

Guys night out ruined by controlling GF, NTA for setting boundaries 🙅

kiraIsuAlivr | kiraIsuAlivr

Friend may be in an abusive relationship, offer support carefully 🙏

Minimum-Fox | Minimum-Fox

Setting boundaries with inconsiderate friends. 👍


NTA. Friend's GF is controlling and manipulative. Reach out to him 😜

n_jobz_ | n_jobz_

Initials make my eyes cross but YTA's GF is a nightmare 😱

MaryMaryConsigliere | MaryMaryConsigliere

Important to be mindful of signs of domestic abuse 🔥

WineAndDogs2020 | WineAndDogs2020

Supportive comment urges friend to check on abused friend privately.

perhapsnew | perhapsnew

Enabling rude behavior may cost your friend his friendships 😒

Vilesnice | Vilesnice

Curious about the other side's perspective. 🤔

Bearah27 | Bearah27

Advice for cutting off friend's clingy girlfriend without making it dramatic 🙌

SticksandHomes | SticksandHomes

Don't abandon a friend in a toxic relationship 😔

dariamorgandorfferr | dariamorgandorfferr

Clingy GF ruins friend's get-togethers. NTA for not inviting him.

throwbackjaylo | throwbackjaylo

Gatecrashing psycho girlfriend ruins boys night, friend NTA for stopping invites 😱

kalamata0live | kalamata0live

Girlfriend's toxic behavior leads to justified consequences. 💯

Reddit_skywolf | Reddit_skywolf

Girls just wanna have fun... without the girlfriend 😉

The_Amazing_Username | The_Amazing_Username

Addressing girlfriend's insecurities to save friendship. NTA 👍

TrashTechy | TrashTechy

Supportive comment encourages being there for friend in abusive relationship 👍

Cleverusername18 | Cleverusername18

NTA calls out enabler behavior and predicts potential lawsuit. 🤔

KamranM5081 | KamranM5081

Excluding one SO is unfair, but safety measures are crucial 🙏

stardustnotrocks | stardustnotrocks

Engage in a friend's toxic relationship or cut him out? 🤔

CaptainHope93 | CaptainHope93

Friend's GF is controlling, NTA suggests checking on friend's happiness 😏

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Supportive comment advises to keep talking to friend in danger 🙏

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Concerned commenter suggests emotional abuse in friend's relationship 🤔

Lystrade | Lystrade

Take control of your social life and don't let anyone ruin it 💪

hunterx21 | hunterx21

Codependency or abuse? NTA makes a valid comparison 🤔

thatonepersoniam | thatonepersoniam

Encouraging support for friend in abusive relationship. 👏

iluvcats17 | iluvcats17

NTA. Adult woman should separate from boyfriend for friend bonding 👍

hazeybop | hazeybop

NTA, maturely tried talking, stopping invites next logical step 👍

sboobekili | sboobekili

NTA. 🙅 She's a horrible person, that's reason enough to ban her.

tnscatterbrain | tnscatterbrain

GF's toxic behavior is isolating V from friends. NTA.

Lilybit09 | Lilybit09

Excluding a friend's annoying and liability girlfriend is reasonable. NTA 👍

Evenoh | Evenoh

When 'guys night' turns into 'third wheel' 🙄

Pain-n-stryife | Pain-n-stryife

Friend's GF is a nightmare, NTA suggests growing a pair 😈

JLL1111 | JLL1111

NTA. Everyone needs alone time to watch their own shows 😎

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Offer support to friend privately, suspect his girlfriend is abusive 😔

Jack_Kegan | Jack_Kegan

What's the missing piece? All 5 SO's agree with V's GF 🤔

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Curious commenter questions group's unanimous judgement with confusion 😕

trytryagainn | trytryagainn

Curious about SOs' opinions on excluding friend's GF 🤔

imjustalilbot | imjustalilbot

Concerned commenter wonders if friend is being manipulated by girlfriend 🤔


NTA woman supports guys' night out and mutual respect in relationships 👏

throw-away_fri | throw-away_fri

Friend's GF is isolating him, be there for him 🚤

Allureii | Allureii

Suggesting ways to include friend without his controlling GF. 👍

MPBoomBoom22 | MPBoomBoom22

Woman defends friend's right to time away from clingy girlfriend 🙏

pcbh1 | pcbh1

Accepting that people don't like your partner is tough 😢

jamespcrowley | jamespcrowley

Friend's GF ruining his personal connections, NTA for stopping invites 😒

ThatIzWhack | ThatIzWhack

Establishing boundaries with SOs vs. jealousy and control issues 🤔

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OP's SOs siding with Needy McNeederson and Enabling BF? 🤔

Krystalline13 | Krystalline13

Friend's girlfriend ruins every get-together, NTA for wanting alone time. 😊

kaboose286 | kaboose286

Friend's GF ruins every get-together, so they stop inviting him 😬

IzarkKiaTarj | IzarkKiaTarj

Grammar advice sparks no replies, but still a NTA.

jemholo2017 | jemholo2017

NTA commenter sympathizes with friend's GF troubles 🤷‍♂️

Mareepsheep99 | Mareepsheep99

NTA for excluding friend's GF, but concern for friend's relationship 🚨

smlgirlbigworld | smlgirlbigworld

Inviting oneself to hang out? 🤔 Not cool.

earthtoeveryoneX | earthtoeveryoneX

Guys night is guys night. V's GF caused drama & complains. NTA 👍

cikanman | cikanman

Friend's GF crashes every get-together, NTA for setting boundaries 👍

bluep3001 | bluep3001

Backing away from friend prioritizing toxic relationship. Hope he realizes.

Quetzacoatyl77 | Quetzacoatyl77

Toxic GF ruins friend's social life, NTA for excluding him 😒

mrsgip | mrsgip

Respectful female perspective on clingy girlfriend taking over guy nights 👍

22feetistoomany | 22feetistoomany

Uninvited GF causing drama? NTA for keeping her out 😊

ShiNo_Usagi | ShiNo_Usagi

Friend's GF is upset for not being invited to 0.2% of the year gatherings. NTA

sshah528 | sshah528

Don't give up on your friend, he might be with an abuser 😔

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Concerned commenter suggests friend might be in abusive relationship 😟

Marerittet | Marerittet

Controlling partners can ruin friendships. NTA for not inviting.

gardenofholliess | gardenofholliess

Supportive comment about SO hanging out with friends. 👏

Jaye1013 | Jaye1013

Redditor says OP may be TA for using letters instead of names but agrees stopping to invite friend's GF is NAT.

christmasshopper0109 | christmasshopper0109

Group stops inviting friend due to toxic GF 😱

thylocene06 | thylocene06

Double standards in relationships: whipped vs dominating/isolating/abusive. Interesting perspective.

propita106 | propita106

Suggesting a girls' night out to prove a point 😎

Reddity-hot-tea | Reddity-hot-tea

Concerned commenter suggests possible abuse in friend's relationship.

velofille | velofille

GF's controlling behavior is manipulative and abusive. NTA, but worried for V's mental health. 😱

Vee-Shan | Vee-Shan

Friend's GF is a pain in the a**, NTA for not inviting.

ursadminor | ursadminor

NTA, commenter warns about unhealthy relationship and potential isolation. 😕

Gjappy | Gjappy

Guy's GF crashes every get-together, causing frustration and disrespect.

Annmenmen | Annmenmen

Recognizing toxic behavior regardless of gender is important. Support needed.

carex2213 | carex2213

NTA. Friend's GF is abusive, keep communication open to help.

TragedyPornFamilyVid | TragedyPornFamilyVid

Red flags raised about friend's potentially dangerous girlfriend. NTA.

grixisnecromancer | grixisnecromancer

Girlfriend's insecurities are causing problems, OP is NTA. 🙌

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Concerned commenter worries about friend's controlling girlfriend 😞

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