Mother's Karma? 🤔 Daughter Refuses to Help Her Live in Comfort After Years of Abuse

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Imagine growing up with a mother who constantly belittles you, controls your life, and insults you daily. 😢 That's what one woman experienced, and now she's faced with a tough decision. Her mother, who left her to struggle on her own, is now living in poverty and begging for help. But can the daughter find it in her heart to forgive and forget? Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story. 🎢

A Regina George Mom? 🤯

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Daily Insults and Belittling 😔

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Depression, Anxiety, and Body Dysmorphia 😞

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University Escape Plan 🎓

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A Helping Hand from Dad's Aunt 🙏

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Cutting Ties ✂️

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A New Life in Ireland 🍀

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Love, Marriage, and a Baby on the Way 👶

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A Content Life and a Blast from the Past 😲

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A Plea for Help and a Harsh Response 💔

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Cultural Clash and Ungrateful Accusations 🤬

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Blocking Out the Past 🚫

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A Daughter's Struggle: Forgiveness or Retribution? 🤷‍♀️

After years of torment, this woman has built a life for herself, free from her abusive mother's control. 🌈 But now, her mother is living in poverty and begging for help. Torn between her past and her present, she's faced with a difficult decision: should she forgive her mother and offer assistance, or let her experience the harsh reality she once faced? Her friends and husband support her choice to leave the past behind, but she can't help but feel guilty. 😔 What would you do in her shoes? Let's see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation... 💭

Protect your baby girl and cut ties with your abuser. 👏

IrritatedMango | IrritatedMango

Protecting your child from toxic family members is top priority. 👏

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NTA. Commenter explains cultural expectations and supports OP's decision.

cillianellis | cillianellis

Daughter sets boundaries after abusive upbringing. NTA 🙅‍♀️

danigirl_or | danigirl_or

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA. 👏

77Megg77 | 77Megg77

Overcoming abuse and standing up for yourself. 👏

jadepumpkin1984 | jadepumpkin1984

Proud of commenter for escaping abusive parent, refusing to enable them. 👏

babiedaisyy | babiedaisyy

Rooting for OP who deserves to thrive after abuse. 👏

jelephants | jelephants

Daughter stands up to abusive mother, owes her nothing. 👏

deliriousgoomba | deliriousgoomba

Cutting toxic family ties 👍🏽‍♀️

v2den | v2den

NTA commenter praises OP for overcoming abuse and toxic family dynamics. 👏

Opposite_Dragonfly39 | Opposite_Dragonfly39

Estranged daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA.

RamblingManUK | RamblingManUK

Don't let toxic people hold you back 💪

CommunitySuitable206 | CommunitySuitable206

Survivor of abusive Indian mother shares solidarity and advice.

Mood_Pleasant | Mood_Pleasant

Respect is earned, not learned. NTA for setting boundaries. 👏

Epsilon_Meletis | Epsilon_Meletis

NTAH calls out the 'respect your elders' BS. 👏

pojo1666 | pojo1666

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother in old age. Savage reply.

TexFiend | TexFiend

Inappropriate guilt for abusive mother's comfort. NTA big time. 👏

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Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA strikes back! 😎

Common_Indication773 | Common_Indication773

Daughter's true intentions revealed, NTA for cutting contact. 👏

ILoatheCailou | ILoatheCailou

User suggests sex work for entitled mother, NTA wins.

Ronenthelich | Ronenthelich

Redditor apologizes for mistake and gets downvoted. NTA.

On_The_Blindside | On_The_Blindside

Daughter refuses to support abusive mother, NTA. 💯

Imadethisformyfeels | Imadethisformyfeels

Congrats on the baby! NTA, not responsible for her choices. 👏

grayhairedqueenbitch | grayhairedqueenbitch

Don't doubt yourself, you're NTA for not supporting abusers. 👏

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Government resources available, suspicion of ulterior motives from mother.

Icedviola | Icedviola

Daughter breaks cycle of abuse, refuses to enable toxic mother. 👏

aesoth | aesoth

NTA suggests sex work as an option. Welcome to Austria! 🇦🇭

shak1071 | shak1071

Cultural norms aside, NTA for focusing on new family 💓

Bardsie | Bardsie

Taking ownership of past abuse, NTA. Inspiring Anne Lamott quote.

SillyAutodidact | SillyAutodidact

NTA: You owe your abusive mother nothing. Live your life 😊

BurgerThyme | BurgerThyme

Choosing to cut off toxic family members is self-care. ✂️

Wendellisi | Wendellisi

Breaking the cycle of abuse takes strength. Keep moving forward. 💪

Big-Tuna-for-Commish | Big-Tuna-for-Commish

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA wins approval.

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Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA. 💪

AdAppropriate3602 | AdAppropriate3602

Put yourself first 👍. NTA, don't reestablish contact with her.

Stace34 | Stace34

Daughter not responsible for abusive mother's comfort. NTA 👍

Katy_moxie | Katy_moxie

Breaking free from abuse brings guilt but also a new life 👏

whimsicaluncertainty | whimsicaluncertainty

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother, NTA. 👏

Limerase | Limerase

NTA. Protect yourself from abusive 'elders'. Congrats on thriving! 💪

swampmilkweed | swampmilkweed

Stranger on the internet praises OP for standing up to family 💖

macabre_melodies02 | macabre_melodies02

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother, cultural expectations questioned. 🤔

firefly232 | firefly232

NTA suggests cutting ties with abusive mother. Good luck wishes.

clockwork-princess92 | clockwork-princess92

NTA and don't feel guilty. Close the door to the past 🎉

Scarletzoe | Scarletzoe

Irish commenter supports abuse survivor's decision to not help mother. 🤩

gavbuzz | gavbuzz

Breaking free from cultural norms, NTA stands up for herself 🙌

naruhina29 | naruhina29

Uncomfortable truth about abusive elderly in homes. 😕

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The struggle of feeling obligated to a toxic parent 😢

lapsteelguitar | lapsteelguitar

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA. 👏

DaniCapsFan | DaniCapsFan

Choosing to cut off toxic abusers is not selfish. 🙅‍♀️

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Choose your family wisely. NTA, keep striving for better.

Alydink1 | Alydink1

User defends daughter's decision with a spicy burn 🔥

Sugarpop2715 | Sugarpop2715

Daughter stands up to abusive mother and builds her own paradise. 💪

redheadjd | redheadjd

No contact with abusive parent. NTA. You owe her nothing. 👍

NothingAndNow111 | NothingAndNow111

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother, NTA 🙅‍♀️

ElanaAnn | ElanaAnn

No sympathy for abusive mother. NTA. Congrats on success! 💯

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Breaking the cycle of abuse: Daughter refuses to enable mother's comfort. 👏

JMonComm | JMonComm

Savage yet satisfying clapback to abusive mother. 😎

FumiPlays | FumiPlays

NTA - Aunt should take responsibility if she wants to help 🤷‍♀️

equationgirl | equationgirl

Empowering response to abusive mother situation. NTA 🙌

Kittenwithawhip987 | Kittenwithawhip987

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA for setting boundaries.

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Cutting ties with abusive mother: NTA and no regrets 👏

justabitchin | justabitchin

Daughter stands up to abusive mother with refreshing response. 👏

arseholierthanthou | arseholierthanthou

Empathetic comment supports person's decision to cut off toxic mother.

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Child of abusive mother receives support for cutting ties. 🙌

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Don't bring the trash back in 👍

Hidden_Misc | Hidden_Misc

Empathetic response to daughter's decision to not help abusive mother.

Fishkimo | Fishkimo

Congrats on overcoming abuse! Heartwarming support from a stranger 💕

NeedsABreak87 | NeedsABreak87

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. Suggests sex work instead. 😱

luckydidi18 | luckydidi18

Thriving daughter receives support for not helping abusive mother. 👏

LoserOfTheLand | LoserOfTheLand

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA. 🤷‍♀️

First_Bumblebee_179 | First_Bumblebee_179

Empathetic reply shuts down inappropriate suggestion. Self-care wins! 👏

BugARug16 | BugARug16

Commiserating with a fellow survivor ❤️

alyssaxadc | alyssaxadc

Childhood abuse doesn't justify parental entitlement. NTA 👏

KnightofForestsWild | KnightofForestsWild

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