Mother’s Karma? Daughter Refuses to Help Her Live in Comfort After Years of Abuse

Imagine growing up with a mother who constantly belittles you, controls your life, and insults you daily. That’s what one woman experienced, and now she’s faced with a tough decision. Her mother, who left her to struggle on her own, is now living in poverty and begging for help. But can the daughter find it in her heart to forgive and forget? Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story.

A Regina George Mom?

Daily Insults and Belittling

Depression, Anxiety, and Body Dysmorphia

University Escape Plan

A Helping Hand from Dad’s Aunt

Cutting Ties ✂️

A New Life in Ireland

Love, Marriage, and a Baby on the Way

A Content Life and a Blast from the Past

A Plea for Help and a Harsh Response

Cultural Clash and Ungrateful Accusations

Blocking Out the Past

A Daughter’s Struggle: Forgiveness or Retribution? ‍♀️

After years of torment, this woman has built a life for herself, free from her abusive mother’s control. But now, her mother is living in poverty and begging for help. Torn between her past and her present, she’s faced with a difficult decision: should she forgive her mother and offer assistance, or let her experience the harsh reality she once faced? Her friends and husband support her choice to leave the past behind, but she can’t help but feel guilty. What would you do in her shoes? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation…

Protect your baby girl and cut ties with your abuser.

Protecting your child from toxic family members is top priority.

NTA. Commenter explains cultural expectations and supports OP’s decision.

Daughter sets boundaries after abusive upbringing. NTA ‍♀️

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA.

Overcoming abuse and standing up for yourself.

Proud of commenter for escaping abusive parent, refusing to enable them.

Rooting for OP who deserves to thrive after abuse.

Daughter stands up to abusive mother, owes her nothing.

Cutting toxic family ties ‍♀️

NTA commenter praises OP for overcoming abuse and toxic family dynamics.

Estranged daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA.

Don’t let toxic people hold you back

Survivor of abusive Indian mother shares solidarity and advice.

Respect is earned, not learned. NTA for setting boundaries.

NTAH calls out the ‘respect your elders’ BS.

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother in old age. Savage reply.

Inappropriate guilt for abusive mother’s comfort. NTA big time.

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA strikes back!

Daughter’s true intentions revealed, NTA for cutting contact.

User suggests sex work for entitled mother, NTA wins.

Redditor apologizes for mistake and gets downvoted. NTA.

Daughter refuses to support abusive mother, NTA.

Congrats on the baby! NTA, not responsible for her choices.

Don’t doubt yourself, you’re NTA for not supporting abusers.

Government resources available, suspicion of ulterior motives from mother.

Daughter breaks cycle of abuse, refuses to enable toxic mother.

NTA suggests sex work as an option. Welcome to Austria!

Cultural norms aside, NTA for focusing on new family

Taking ownership of past abuse, NTA. Inspiring Anne Lamott quote.

NTA: You owe your abusive mother nothing. Live your life

Choosing to cut off toxic family members is self-care. ✂️

Breaking the cycle of abuse takes strength. Keep moving forward.

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA wins approval.

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA.

Put yourself first . NTA, don’t reestablish contact with her.

Daughter not responsible for abusive mother’s comfort. NTA

Breaking free from abuse brings guilt but also a new life

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother, NTA.

NTA. Protect yourself from abusive ‘elders’. Congrats on thriving!

Stranger on the internet praises OP for standing up to family

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother, cultural expectations questioned.

NTA suggests cutting ties with abusive mother. Good luck wishes.

NTA and don’t feel guilty. Close the door to the past

Irish commenter supports abuse survivor’s decision to not help mother.

Breaking free from cultural norms, NTA stands up for herself

Uncomfortable truth about abusive elderly in homes.

The struggle of feeling obligated to a toxic parent

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA.

Choosing to cut off toxic abusers is not selfish. ‍♀️

Choose your family wisely. NTA, keep striving for better.

User defends daughter’s decision with a spicy burn

Daughter stands up to abusive mother and builds her own paradise.

No contact with abusive parent. NTA. You owe her nothing.

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother, NTA ‍♀️

No sympathy for abusive mother. NTA. Congrats on success!

Breaking the cycle of abuse: Daughter refuses to enable mother’s comfort.

Savage yet satisfying clapback to abusive mother.

NTA – Aunt should take responsibility if she wants to help ‍♀️

Empowering response to abusive mother situation. NTA

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA for setting boundaries.

Cutting ties with abusive mother: NTA and no regrets

Daughter stands up to abusive mother with refreshing response.

Empathetic comment supports person’s decision to cut off toxic mother.

Child of abusive mother receives support for cutting ties.

Don’t bring the trash back in

Empathetic response to daughter’s decision to not help abusive mother.

Congrats on overcoming abuse! Heartwarming support from a stranger

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. Suggests sex work instead.

Thriving daughter receives support for not helping abusive mother.

Daughter refuses to help abusive mother. NTA. ‍♀️

Empathetic reply shuts down inappropriate suggestion. Self-care wins!

Commiserating with a fellow survivor ❤️

Childhood abuse doesn’t justify parental entitlement. NTA