Bride Forgets Babysitter for BFF's Kids: Wedding Disaster or Honest Mistake? 😱

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Picture this: you're the Maid of Honor at your best friend's destination wedding, and she insists that your kids be the ring bearers. You agree, trusting her to find a babysitter for the reception. But when the big day comes, she forgets, leaving you and your husband to deal with the consequences. 😳 This is the unfortunate story of one woman who found herself in a tough spot during her best friend's wedding. After the event, the bride asked for her honest opinion, and she let it all out. But was she wrong for telling the truth? 🤔 Read on to find out!

Destination Wedding Dilemma 🏝️

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Kids as Ring Bearers? 💍

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Babysitter Promises 🤞

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Wedding Stress 😰

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Babysitter Blunder 😨

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Husband to the Rescue 🦸‍♂️

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Lonely Reception 💔

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Bride's Response 😐

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Third-Wheeling Woes 🚶‍♀️

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Bridesmaids' Support 💕

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Financial Guilt Trips? 💸

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Coffee and Confessions ☕

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Honesty Hurts 😣

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Guilt Trip Accusations 😠

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Bride's Reaction 😭

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Bridesmaids Turn 🔄

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The Aftermath: Was She Wrong for Being Honest? 🤷‍♀️

After spilling her heart out to her best friend, the bride ended up in tears, feeling worthless and like a horrible friend. The rest of the bridesmaids, who initially supported her, changed their tune and now believe she should have kept her feelings to herself. Was she wrong for telling the truth, or should she have just let it go? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🌐

Bridezilla or honest mistake? Commenter says NTA. 😊

mdthomas | mdthomas

Bride's manipulative apology earns NTA judgment from commenter.

PattersonsOlady | PattersonsOlady

Bride's friend gives honest feedback, advises apologies for lasting friendships 😊

eaglehigh42 | eaglehigh42

Honesty is the best policy, even for weddings. 👍

Pondering-Out-Loud | Pondering-Out-Loud

Bridesmaid rightfully upset after bride forgets babysitter promise. NTA 👏

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Friend's apology seems insincere, don't buy into manipulation tactics. 🙅

Jaidiee | Jaidiee

Friend forgets babysitter, gets defensive when called out. NTA.

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NTA stands her ground against emotional manipulation. 💪

ParticularReview4129 | ParticularReview4129

Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts 👍

kittykatvegas13 | kittykatvegas13

Bridesmaid uses guilt as a tool, but OP is NTA.

aabbccbb | aabbccbb

Honesty isn't always the best policy, but NTA in this case 😊

MemChoeret | MemChoeret

Wedding expenses and childcare caused a rift between friends. NTA.


Friend asks for honesty, can't handle it. 🤷‍♀️

Apprehensive_Bear498 | Apprehensive_Bear498

Toxic friendships are not worth it. You're NTA, move on. 🙌

Extreme_Confusion_33 | Extreme_Confusion_33

Honesty hurts: NTA commenter calls out manipulative friend 👍

Dogmother123 | Dogmother123

Honesty is the best policy - NTA for telling the truth 👍

Valuable_Ad_742 | Valuable_Ad_742

NTA for not staying at the reception, friend failed to arrange babysitter 🚫

Hatty_Girl | Hatty_Girl

Bride defends herself, but is asking for wedding reviews normal?

Early-Light-864 | Early-Light-864

Conspiracy theory or valid point? 🤔

ThatGirl_Tasha | ThatGirl_Tasha

Bridesmaid speaks out, betrays friends' confidence, and causes awkward situation. 😑

mouse_attack | mouse_attack

Calling out manipulative behavior. NTA wins the day. 💯

TatteredCarcosa | TatteredCarcosa

Friend accused of toxic behavior and manipulation. 🤨

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Wedding was a bore, NTA but bride is full of herself 😒

ChiPot-le | ChiPot-le

Friend tries to guilt trip OP for calling her a bad friend. 😑

BorderlineBadBrain | BorderlineBadBrain

Ouch! Harsh self-criticism with no defense from commenters. 🤨

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Friend asks for honest opinion, can't handle the truth. 😑

kcassie26 | kcassie26

OP's friend group seems toxic and unsupportive. 💯

retsnomxig | retsnomxig

Honesty is the best policy! 👍

Buddhadevine | Buddhadevine

Friend tries to manipulate after being called out for bad behavior 🤔

TeaMistress | TeaMistress

Friend plays victim to manipulate, OP NTA for calling out.

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Bride treats kids like performer monkeys, NTA for calling out

No-Bullshit-Baby | No-Bullshit-Baby

Honesty hurts: Commenter calls out bride's mistake and insincerity 😞

KittyKat18-- | KittyKat18--

Friend guilt trips and bride manipulates, everyone's an a-hole. 🤷‍♀️

az22hctac | az22hctac

Weddings are overrated and this commenter is not holding back 😱

Ben_Elf1984 | Ben_Elf1984

NTA. Honest opinion given, hope she learns from it. Eff em.

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Friend breaks promise, commenter calls entitled brat, former BFF 👍

BabserellaWT | BabserellaWT

Friend uses DARVO tactic, but commenter is in the right. 👍

BreakingPhones | BreakingPhones

Bridezilla alert! Commenter calls out selfish bride. 😱

stargazrserena | stargazrserena

Honesty is the best policy, but can it cost friendships? 😬

NowWithMoreChocolate | NowWithMoreChocolate

Supportive comment calling out bride's behavior and suggesting distancing.

Questionable_Bard | Questionable_Bard

When your friends don't have your back 😞

DMV_Lolli | DMV_Lolli

Destination weddings can be expensive and stressful for guests. NTA.


Friend forgets babysitter, uses kids as props. NTA calls out guilt-trip.

Never_Toujours | Never_Toujours

Friend asks for honesty, can't handle it. NTA 👍

diskebbin | diskebbin

Honesty is the best policy. NTA stands firm.

canuckleheadiam | canuckleheadiam

Being a good friend doesn't mean being a doormat 😏

glynndah | glynndah

Friendship dynamics and AH behavior in bridesmaid drama. 😒

mndyerfuckinbusiness | mndyerfuckinbusiness

Honesty is the best policy. NTA for giving truthful feedback 👍

EconomyVoice7358 | EconomyVoice7358

Bride's lack of apology raises red flags for commenter.

wonkybingo | wonkybingo

NTA commenter defends bride's honest mistake and advises against resentment.

crbryant1972 | crbryant1972

NTA tells spineless bridesmaids to suck it up. 😏

KnittinPizzas1 | KnittinPizzas1

Friendzilla: Manipulative bride causes financial distress for her friends. NTA.

muskiesfan1 | muskiesfan1

NTA, honesty is key. Water works and insults are manipulative 🙄

Zestyclose-Market858 | Zestyclose-Market858

Honesty isn't always the best policy 🤷‍♀️

AEmomma0601 | AEmomma0601

Bride criticized for forgetting babysitter, commenter defends her (NTA)

BananaSignificant771 | BananaSignificant771

Bridezilla called out for selfishness, denies being a bad friend 🤯

scarletnightingale | scarletnightingale

Weddings can be awful, destination weddings are the worst. NTA.

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Friend promised sitter, bride disrespected guests. NTA.

TinyTurtle42 | TinyTurtle42

Friendship over? Commenter advises finding new friends 👋

SilverPlantains | SilverPlantains

Honesty hurts: NTA asked for truth, not absolution 😞

bplayfuli | bplayfuli

Bridezilla forgets babysitter promise, friend calls her out. NTA.

WinEquivalent4069 | WinEquivalent4069

No sugarcoating: commenter says bride is emotionally immature 😱

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Friendship red flags: Exhausting, manipulative 'best friend' 😡

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Standing up for what's right! 👏

Redhead_2022 | Redhead_2022

NTA comment: Honest critique of self-centered bride's destination wedding.

samanthacarter4 | samanthacarter4

Bride puts friend in tough spot, is friendship worth saving? 🤔

silentsaturn91 | silentsaturn91

Friend flakes on babysitting, gets called out for it 😬

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Friendship warning: Beware of manipulative guilt-trippers. 🚨

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Honesty is the best policy, even with best friends! 😊

Buffy_Geek | Buffy_Geek

Best friend got everything she wanted but still blames OP? 🤔😒

purplekitty77 | purplekitty77

Friend asked for honesty, played victim when given. NTA 👏

Artistic-Race-1515 | Artistic-Race-1515

Toxic friend tries to manipulate, but commenter sees through it 😎

Im_No_Robutt | Im_No_Robutt

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