Adopted Daughter Refuses to Fund Parents' IVF Treatment 😲

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Imagine growing up knowing you're adopted, but still having a great relationship with your parents. Then, out of the blue, they decide they want a biological child and start treating you differently. That's what happened to this 23-year-old woman, whose parents' quest for a biological baby has led to some seriously hurtful requests. 😔💔 Let's dive into her story...

Adopted and Happy 😊

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Parents' Sudden Change of Heart 💔

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Hurtful Words 😢

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The Struggle for a Baby 👶

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A Shocking Dinner Invitation 🍽️

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The Real Reason for the Invite 😳

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Feeling Like an Incubator 😔

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Leaving in Tears 💔

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Grandma's Generosity 🙏

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A Financial Solution 💰

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Parents' Desperate Plea 📱

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Standing Her Ground ✋

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Family Pressure 😥

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The Money Dilemma 💸

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A Heartbreaking Dilemma 💔

This young woman's world was turned upside down when her once-loving parents became fixated on having a biological child. After a series of hurtful requests and a shocking dinner invitation, she's left questioning her relationship with her family. 😢 Now, with her grandfather's inheritance in the balance, she's faced with an impossible choice: help her parents fund their fertility treatments, or stand her ground and risk being labeled as greedy. 💸 Let's see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation...

Empathetic commenter supports daughter's decision to not be a surrogate.

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Daughter says no to funding parents' IVF treatment. NTA verdict.

LittelFoxicorn | LittelFoxicorn

NTA. Don't let them guilt-trip you for their reproductive issues 🙏

Otherwise-Drama-8586 | Otherwise-Drama-8586

Adopted daughter supports OP, condemns parents' obsession with IVF 😲

Andie787 | Andie787

NTA. Parents crossed a major boundary by asking you to carry their child, dangled your student loans as an incentive, and called you greedy for not giving them YOUR money. Surrogacy is insanely expensive in the US. Don't let anyone tell you it's not YOUR money.

Jellyfish1297 | Jellyfish1297

Family's entitlement shocks commenter, grandma is the only ally 😱

Lady_Ellie119 | Lady_Ellie119

Choosing not to be a surrogate or fund IVF treatment. NTA.

NomNom83WasTaken | NomNom83WasTaken

Adopted child empathizes with OP's nightmare. NTA.

KittlesLee | KittlesLee

Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents' IVF treatment. NTA wins.

NotTwitchy | NotTwitchy

Don't let them use you or your money. NTA 👏

SpectacularTurtle | SpectacularTurtle

Grandmother should pay loans directly and put leftover in trust fund 💸

horshack_test | horshack_test

Daughter refuses to carry parents' embryo and pays loans. NTA 👏

jazzinitup | jazzinitup

Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents' IVF treatment, NTA explains why.

Bitbatgaming | Bitbatgaming

Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents' IVF treatment. NTA and therapy needed.

MsBaseball34 | MsBaseball34

Grandma chose you over your entitled 'parents' 😊

NorthernLitUp | NorthernLitUp

Supportive comment and grandma's approval bring hope 👏

HeyKit | HeyKit

Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents' IVF treatment. NTA 🚫💰

Cactus_x | Cactus_x

Curious commenter questions adoption details and surrogacy laws.

LurkerNan | LurkerNan

Supportive comment encourages OP to prioritize her own well-being ❤️

Joxem13 | Joxem13

NTA. Infertility is emotional, but neglecting and estranging is heartbreaking. Keep money.

EntertainmentOk6284 | EntertainmentOk6284

Daughter refuses to be surrogate for parents' IVF treatment. NTA 👏

Designer-Welcome7362 | Designer-Welcome7362

Adopted daughter not obliged to fund parents' IVF treatment. NTA 👍

scc-2000 | scc-2000

Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents' IVF treatment. NTA, rightfully outraged.

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NTA commenter advises to run away from greedy parents 😱

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NTA stands up to parents' unreasonable IVF request 😊

katherinemma987 | katherinemma987

Red flags raised as parents ask daughter to be sistermom 😓

RagingBeanSidhe | RagingBeanSidhe

Daughter refuses parents' entitled IVF request, NTA wins 🙌

ForwardPlenty | ForwardPlenty

Mother's desire for IVF at 46 raises eyebrows 🤔

Useful-Commission-76 | Useful-Commission-76

NTA: Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents' IVF treatment. Enough is enough.

Helloise | Helloise

NTA. Empathetic response to parents' obsession with surrogate daughter. 🤝

Crazyhowthatworks304 | Crazyhowthatworks304

NTA tells parents they treated her poorly, not funding IVF

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Daughter refuses to fund parents' IVF treatment, keeps the money 💰

meifahs_musungs | meifahs_musungs

Adopted daughter refuses to carry 'real' child for parents. NTA.

sdpeasha | sdpeasha

Adopted daughter refuses to bear biological child for parents' IVF treatment. NTA.

Snoo_68114 | Snoo_68114

Surrogacy misconception addressed with NTA judgment 😊

FairieWarrior | FairieWarrior

NTA: Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents' IVF treatment 😲

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Adopted child shares experience, advises against IVF at parents' age. 🙏

avalonrose14 | avalonrose14

NTA for refusing to fund parents' IVF treatment. Grandma rocks! 👏

Algebralovr | Algebralovr

Grandma's decision, not Dad's. Asking to carry embryo is horrible 😱

omnomnom_104710 | omnomnom_104710

Heartwarming support for OP in a difficult family situation 😢💖

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Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents' IVF treatment. NTA. 💰

Acceptable-Abalone20 | Acceptable-Abalone20

Adopted daughter refuses to carry child for estranged parents 😱

HunterDangerous1366 | HunterDangerous1366

NTA, save an innocent child from selfish, unhinged parents. 😲

Hob-Nob1974 | Hob-Nob1974

NTA refuses to carry parents' embryo for student loan payment 😱

merme | merme

NTA, don't waste money on IVF. Grandma and OP not AH.

Senator_Bink | Senator_Bink

NTA. Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents' IVF treatment. 💰

Late_Engineering9973 | Late_Engineering9973

NTA. Commenter suggests parents get loan, not adoptive daughter's responsibility. 😲

_Volly | _Volly

NTA refuses to carry sibling, parents blinded by hope 🤯

ArcheryOnThursday | ArcheryOnThursday

Supportive commenters empathize with OP's difficult situation ❤️

mtweiner | mtweiner

A commenter expresses anger and advises to use the money for personal use and to not let the parents guilt-trip. 😠

Electronic-Ad- | Electronic-Ad-

Adopted daughter stands up to coercive and selfish parents. NTA!! 👏

biblio-ash | biblio-ash

Condolences given, NTA verdict, and advice to prioritize self-care. 🙏

Fluid_Response_6062 | Fluid_Response_6062

Protect yourself financially, don't expect inheritance or help. 👍

Jazzlike_Humor3340 | Jazzlike_Humor3340

Stranger surrogacy safer? NTA daughter refuses to fund IVF.

SuccotashSimple | SuccotashSimple

Surrogate agencies prefer unrelated and experienced surrogates. NTA.

Negative_Shake1478 | Negative_Shake1478

NTA suggests parents use surrogate money for IVF treatment 👍

LingonberryPrior6896 | LingonberryPrior6896

Cutting ties with biological family over IVF funding request 😱

forevernoob88 | forevernoob88

Supportive comment advises to prioritize own life and avoid blame. ❤️

abcwva | abcwva

Heartbreaking treatment by parents, child's perspective on their age gap 😢

Tams_G | Tams_G

Adopted parents tried to use inheritance to force surrogacy. NTA 👍

Talisa87 | Talisa87

NTA raises valid concern about parents' future expectations. 🤔

Bansky99uk | Bansky99uk

NTA suggests a way to avoid pressure from parents 🤔

unknown_928121 | unknown_928121

NTA. Commenter sympathizes with OP's situation and advises against funding.

Adelinelaughs | Adelinelaughs

US surrogacy laws unfair to childless women, NTA commenter agrees.

transport_goddess707 | transport_goddess707

Surrogacy not an option, commenter changes judgment to NTA.

IcyIssue | IcyIssue

Adopted daughter receives support for refusing to fund parents' IVF. ❤

Some_Concept_9637 | Some_Concept_9637

NTA refuses to fund parents' IVF treatment, not an incubator.

Whooptidooh | Whooptidooh

NTA shuts down parents' selfish IVF request with brutal honesty 😍

keeper_of_creatures | keeper_of_creatures

Heartbreaking comment. Adopted daughter not wrong for refusing IVF funding.

Krinnybin | Krinnybin

Supportive comment, encouraging love for grandma 😊

adefsleep | adefsleep

NTA. Parents shouldn't pressure child for elective surgery money. Outrageous behavior.

Here_for_tea_ | Here_for_tea_

Cut them out of your life because you deserve better 👏

krystalfloods | krystalfloods

Mother defends daughter's decision to not fund parents' IVF treatment.

OurLadyOfCygnets | OurLadyOfCygnets

Supportive comment. Family should accept adopted child. 👍

Trepenwitz | Trepenwitz

Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents' IVF treatment. NTA.

Pandarella2040 | Pandarella2040

Controversial comment on IVF treatment and adoption 🤔

Seer42 | Seer42

Heartbreaking comment on parents' IVF treatment rejection 😢

Jessica_Lovegood | Jessica_Lovegood

No contact with bad, irresponsible parents. NTA 👍

MacroFoto | MacroFoto

NTA for refusing to fund parents' IVF treatment and be their incubator. 👏

blackthunder021 | blackthunder021

Parents dangled a carrot, now want daughter to give up life. NTA 👏

Craptiel | Craptiel

Adopted daughter not obligated to fund parents' IVF treatment. NTA 👏

ApprehensiveSoil4847 | ApprehensiveSoil4847

NTA: Adopted daughter refuses to fund parents' IVF treatment. Period. 🙌

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Parents turn daughter into a tool for IVF funding 😡 NTA

AMCodaMonkey | AMCodaMonkey

NTA. Asking your child for money and to be a surrogate is unreasonable. Grandma can decide if she wants to fund their treatment. 😊

KKTide | KKTide

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