Dad Helps with Down Payment, Boyfriend Demands His Name on Mortgage 🏠💔

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Meet our 29-year-old protagonist, who's caught in a dilemma that's got her questioning her own reasonableness. She's moved back to her hometown for a better job, while her 30-year-old boyfriend remains in the big city, hoping to follow her soon. Our heroine is now house hunting, but with a twist: her dad is offering to help with the down payment. However, her boyfriend is demanding that his name be on the mortgage, or he won't pay rent when he moves in! 😱 Is he being controlling, or does he have a point? Let's dive into the story! 🍿

Back to Hometown 🏡

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The House Hunt Begins 🧐

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Dream House, Steep Price 💸

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Boyfriend's Demands 📝

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Buy or Not to Buy? 🤔

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Feeling Controlled 😖

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Boyfriend's Efforts 💍

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Left Out? 🥺

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A Generous Gift 🎁

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Feeling Unworthy 😔

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Drama Unfolds Over Mortgage Demands 😬

Our protagonist is in a pickle: her dad is generously offering to help with the down payment on her dream house, but her boyfriend is being stubborn about having his name on the mortgage. He refuses to pay rent unless he's on the mortgage, despite not contributing to the down payment. She's trying to see his side, but can't help feeling controlled. He's making efforts to move and propose, but is his demand reasonable? 🤷 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

NTA, boyfriend wants his name on mortgage but hasn't invested

Cherrygrove-elk | Cherrygrove-elk

NTA. Boyfriend wants name on mortgage, but Dad helped. 🚫💑

zippy_zaboo | zippy_zaboo

Protect yourself! Don't put him on the mortgage without marriage 🚫

Agreeable-Tale9729 | Agreeable-Tale9729

Engaging perspectives on buying a home without equal input 🏠

Dangerous_Prize_4545 | Dangerous_Prize_4545

Boyfriend wants name on mortgage, but NTA says no way! 🙌

DarmokTheNinja | DarmokTheNinja

Torn between NAH and ESH. Different views on homeownership and relationship.

Usrname52 | Usrname52

Boyfriend wants name on mortgage without contributing. Choose dad.


NTA, but are you letting others control your decisions? 🤔

Iron_winged_monarch | Iron_winged_monarch

NTA. Boyfriend wants house, not love. Dump him! 💔

rosearmada | rosearmada

NTA: Boyfriend demanding name on mortgage? No way! 🚩🚩

BlueLightningyt | BlueLightningyt

🚩 Red flags in relationship: buying house without joint decision. 🤔

couldwedance | couldwedance

Boyfriend demands name on mortgage without paying. NTA. 🙅

rusalkamaya | rusalkamaya

Don't let love cost you! Protect your assets. 💔

wind-river7 | wind-river7

"NTA. Don't let him mooch off your hard-earned house 💔"

BeringC | BeringC

NTA. Don't put his name on anything if he's not contributing financially 👍

handwritten_emojis | handwritten_emojis

ESH: Real discussion needed to make life plans with partner 👍

Didusayyutes | Didusayyutes

NAH if I'm being honest. Boyfriend wants equal benefits from mortgage.

MapOfProblematique | MapOfProblematique

NTA for standing up to boyfriend, consider standing up to dad

nekpeasant | nekpeasant

Boyfriend's concerns about financial investment and lack of guarantee 😩

ZerafineNigou | ZerafineNigou

NTA. Boyfriend wants benefits without contributing. 🙄

DannyBigD | DannyBigD

NTA, boyfriend wants name on mortgage. Not feeling great about entitlement 🙅

princessofperky | princessofperky

Dump the loser boyfriend! Don't put his name on mortgage! 💔

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Boyfriend wants name on mortgage but won't pay living expenses? 😑

NefariousnessGlum424 | NefariousnessGlum424

NTA. Boyfriend demanding name on mortgage before marriage 🙄

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Rent or buy? Tough decision. Low interest rates. NTA. 💔

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"NTA. Never buy a house with someone you're not married to 💔"

FleurVellichor | FleurVellichor

NTA. Boyfriend's demand for ownership is manipulative and concerning 😱

PNWPainter02 | PNWPainter02

NTA: Don't let him move in if he's controlling. 💔

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NTA. Don't let him freeload off your dad's generosity 🚫

dr-sparkle | dr-sparkle

NTA 🚩🚩🚩 - Boyfriend wants name on mortgage 🏠💔

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Boyfriend wants ownership without contributing. NTA stands their ground. 👏

brokenhousewife_ | brokenhousewife_

"NTA. Boyfriend wants control over house, protect yourself with contract!"

Special_Respond7372 | Special_Respond7372

NTA, your money, your credit...your house. 🏠 Your boyfriend needs to wise up and realize this is a good deal for him too. If he wants on the mortgage that bad, he knows what he needs to do. 💁‍♂️

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