Wife 'Voluntells' Husband to Mentor Teen, But He's Not Having It 😲

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Imagine being 'voluntold' by your spouse to do something you're uncomfortable with, without even being asked first! 😳 That's exactly what happened to one man, who has schizophrenia, when his wife agreed to have him meet her coworker's daughter - who was recently diagnosed with the same condition. The wife thought her husband could serve as a beacon of hope for the teen, but he had other ideas. Let's dive into this dramatic tale of miscommunication and boundaries. 🍿

Schizophrenia Diagnosis: A Common Bond?

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Wife Spills the Beans 🤐

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Unexpected Meeting Request 😨

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Surprise! You're a Mentor Now 🙄

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Wife's Desperate Plea 🥺

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Reasons for Refusal 🚫

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Schizophrenia: A Unique Experience

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Other Resources Available 📚

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Wife's Misjudgment 😔

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No Consent, No Dice 🤷

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Social Awkwardness Alert 🚨

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Husband's Candid Response 📣

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Coworker's Disappointment 😢

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Husband Stands His Ground, Wife Left Frustrated 😤

Despite his wife's pleas, the husband refuses to be a 'circus animal' and mentor the coworker's daughter. He explains his reasons, including the uniqueness of schizophrenia, the availability of other resources, and his wife's lack of consent. As the coworker remains disappointed, the wife is left angry and frustrated with her husband's decision. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🌐

"NTA. Respect personal boundaries. Mental health support should be voluntary."

lms2764 | lms2764

NTA: Wife created mess, husband upset, boundaries need serious talk 😲

QuixoticLogophile | QuixoticLogophile

Husband's wife signs him up without asking, he's not happy 😡

Calpernia09 | Calpernia09

Wife 'voluntells' husband to mentor teen, but he's not having it 😲. NAH, but wife's guilt-tripping makes her TA 🙄

zzzfoifa | zzzfoifa

Wife 'voluntells' husband to mentor teen, but he's not having it 😬

wendz1980 | wendz1980

> Wife voluntells husband to mentor teen, but he's not having it 😳


NTA. Set boundaries and prioritize your own decisions. 🙌

theemeraldmistress | theemeraldmistress

NTA: Wife 'voluntells' husband to mentor teen without asking. Not cool! 🙄

ApartLocksmith1 | ApartLocksmith1

NAH - Wife assumed husband would help, but he said no. Guilt-tripping ensued. 😕

schottenring | schottenring

NTA. Wife oversteps by 'voluntelling' husband, now faces coworker fallout 😲

auntadl | auntadl

"NTA. Wife crosses boundaries, uses mental illness as ice breaker. 😲"

Subarashi44 | Subarashi44

Wife 'voluntells' husband to mentor teen, but he's not having it 😠

BeckytheIceBoxOShea5 | BeckytheIceBoxOShea5

NTA. Help others even when it's uncomfortable or inconvenient 🙏

horsendogguy | horsendogguy

Wife 'voluntells' husband to mentor teen, causing an awkward situation 😬

Little-Jellyfish6167 | Little-Jellyfish6167

Wife 'voluntells' husband to mentor teen, but he's not having it 😬

kpopmafia | kpopmafia

Volunteering someone without consent? That's a**hole territory. NTA! 😲

amhran_oiche | amhran_oiche

NTA - Wife voluntells husband to mentor teen, but he stands his ground 💪

Nolan-358 | Nolan-358

NTA: Wife voluntells husband to mentor teen, but he's not having it 😲

Anonymous_coward30 | Anonymous_coward30

NTA. Wife disregards husband's feelings and volunteers him without consent 😑

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Wife 'voluntells' husband to mentor teen, but he refuses. NTA 😲

roman1969 | roman1969

NTA, but her sentiment may stem from internalized ableism. 🤔

jillwoa | jillwoa

NTA. Wife 'voluntells' husband to mentor teen, causing conflict. She's TA. 😲

Kerlysis | Kerlysis

NTA. Help the teenager in a way you're comfortable with 😊

Excluded_Apple | Excluded_Apple

NTA. Fascinating evidence suggests mindset can affect schizophrenia hallucinations 🤔

quoththeraven929 | quoththeraven929

Wife crosses boundaries, husband stands up for himself 😎

UnicornCackle | UnicornCackle

Wife 'voluntells' husband to mentor teen, but he's not having it 😠

willowgrl | willowgrl

Husband's hilarious suggestion for wife's 'amateur night' revenge 😂

kylekornkven | kylekornkven

Sharing your experience could be a lifeline for someone 💛

bichonborealis | bichonborealis

NTA. Lesson learned: ask before 'voluntelling' someone. 👍

riritreetop | riritreetop

Privacy matters! NTA for setting boundaries with your wife 😊

External_Outcome5678 | External_Outcome5678

Uncool wife, uncool. Not the a**hole. 👏

SneezyCanuck | SneezyCanuck

Be a positive influence in someone's life! 💪

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