Friend's Life-Altering Decision: A Casual Conversation or Malicious Advice? 🤔

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Imagine having a casual conversation with a friend going through a tough time. You share your thoughts, not as advice but as a hypothetical scenario. What if that conversation becomes the catalyst for a life-altering decision? This is the story of an individual, let's call him 'The Unwitting Advisor', who found himself in the eye of a storm after his friend, 'The Betrayed', took his words to heart and made a decision that rocked their entire social circle. 💔😮

The Unwelcome Visitor 🕵️‍♂️

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The Unraveling Truth 😱

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The Heartbreaking Revelation 💔

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The Isolation 🚶‍♂️

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The Legal Dilemma ⚖️

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The Emotional Breakdown 😢

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The Unintended Advice 🗣️

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The Life-Altering Decision 🚪

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The Backlash 😡

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The Blame Game 🎯

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The Final Question ❓

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When Casual Conversation Sparks a Domestic Storm 🌪️

In a tale that's sparked heated debate, 'The Unwitting Advisor' finds himself in a whirlwind of criticism after his friend, 'The Betrayed', divorces his wife, citing a conversation with him as the catalyst. The Advisor, who insists his words were merely a hypothetical scenario, is now facing the wrath of friends and family, who accuse him of breaking up a marriage and causing a child to lose their father. But was he really to blame, or was he just a friend trying to help another navigate through the stormy seas of life? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🌐

"NTA, and I feel a little like I'm taking crazy pills because you are considering taking even 1% of the blame for this. The ex wife destroyed her own marriage by cheating and having someone else's baby. End of story." 😮🔥

jeanneeebeanneee | jeanneeebeanneee

🔍 Suspicious wives, paternity tests, and a messy divorce. Drama unfolds.

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NTA: Friend sought validation and found it in OP's advice.

Lahzerban | Lahzerban

NTA. Friend's life-altering decision backfires, blaming OP for advice. 🤔

asmallman | asmallman

Defending against ex-wife's accusations. Empathy for the innocent child. 😢

iaincaradoc | iaincaradoc

NTA. You gave your input on a broken marriage. 👍

urson_black | urson_black

Supporting a heartbroken friend through a messy divorce. 💔

gimpysaviour | gimpysaviour

Supporting a friend through a messy breakup. 🙌

Amythist35 | Amythist35

NTA. Unfaithful wife set up scenario, you gave honest advice.

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"That poor f**king kid" - Heartbreaking situation for everyone involved 😢

Sagereality | Sagereality

NTA: Ex-wife blames you for their unhappiness, but she's at fault.

StandUpTall66 | StandUpTall66

NTA for expressing opinion on someone leaving a cheating partner. 👍

thegoodestwife | thegoodestwife

NTA for giving advice, friend's a**hole for dragging you in.

therealthisishannah | therealthisishannah

NTA for reacting to a deceitful spouse. Emotional health matters 🙏

mp29k | mp29k

"NTA, but consider fatherhood beyond genetics. Cheating wife's fault." 🤔

OrangeQueen_H | OrangeQueen_H

Supportive friend defends against cheating, lying wife. NTA! 👏

saapphia | saapphia

NTA! Your friend's wife's decision will have consequences 😔

Opposite_Of_Sleep | Opposite_Of_Sleep

"She cheated, lied, but *you* destroyed their happiness"? NTA 😎

Sputtrosa | Sputtrosa

Friend doesn't deserve to be used like that. NTA! 👏

CheesiestBee | CheesiestBee

You gave input, they decided. Not the a**hole. 👍

FellowHumanTraveller | FellowHumanTraveller

NTA. Validating a life-altering decision, not responsible for others' behavior. 👍

ilikemycoffeealatte | ilikemycoffeealatte

Ex-wife cheated, NTA: friend's life-altering decision. 👏

thicklover | thicklover

NTA, friend seeks advice on wife's affair and child's paternity.

mintymonstera | mintymonstera

NTA. Honest advice given with empathy for a difficult situation. 👏

dungeonthatneverends | dungeonthatneverends

Friend publicly outs advice on social media. NTA for you.

tmccrn | tmccrn

Leaving his wife but not his kid? A**hole or justified? 🤔

Ferencak | Ferencak

NTA (and, yes, the a**hole lol) - Friends discuss advice and blame

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Manipulative wife uses child as pawn, OP needs support. 🤔

themediumchunk | themediumchunk

Honesty is key: Friend not at fault for painful truth. 🤔

sovereignsekte | sovereignsekte

Supportive friend helps with life-altering decision for friend's happiness 👍

Chadth3Mad | Chadth3Mad

Shocking twist: Divorce not caused by cheating, but *your* advice! 🤯

donutmcbonbon | donutmcbonbon

Cheating wife blames OP for her own actions. 😳

broadsharp | broadsharp

Validating friend's decision, but concerned about the child's well-being. 😢

lmjacks88 | lmjacks88

NTA. Honest advice, not responsible for divorce. Cheating caused it. 👍

enette7 | enette7

NTA wife sucks and is a clear a**hole. The lies, cheating, and trying to use his friends and the child to manipulate him is awful. And bio dad for skipping town, did he just show up to drop that bomb and ditch or is he actually stepping up. The wife and anyone who defends her need some common sense slapped into them. It would have been great if he stayed in the child's life as he was the only one she knew, but wife made this mess. Plus from his ex's manipulation I'm wondering if she would have kept boundaries if he stayed and parented. She doesn't strike me as someone who would accept a no and act civil. 🙄

Pretend-Preparation | Pretend-Preparation

NTA: Exposing a cheating partner and helping a friend find truth 🤔

DrShovelFoot | DrShovelFoot

Defending against accusations of breaking up a marriage with evidence

Babycheeks80 | Babycheeks80

"NTA: Hypocrisy in divorces and the importance of fatherhood."

timleykis101 | timleykis101

No accountability for cheating spouse blaming the voice of reason. 🙄

lil_zaku | lil_zaku

OP is NTA, but friend is an a**hole for abandoning kid 😡

thiskateuntamed | thiskateuntamed

Mixed opinions on a controversial decision. Who's really at fault? 🤔

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NTA seeks justice for financial burden of raising someone else's child. 🤔

asap_fish | asap_fish

Heartbroken father faces devastating consequences of paternity revelation. 😢

MxPlume | MxPlume

OP's innocent comment leads to devastating consequences for everyone involved. 😢

cbolser | cbolser

Blamed for someone else's mistake? You're NTA! 👏

Little-bit_ | Little-bit_

NTA: Ex-wife blames you for her cheating, speaks volumes about her.

perhapsnew | perhapsnew

NTA: Bringing the kid and guilt tripping? Total a**hole move! 😡

HumbleFlo | HumbleFlo

Supporting a friend's decision to prioritize their own happiness. 👏

DubiousPeoplePleaser | DubiousPeoplePleaser

NTA, friend's advice and ex-wife's lies caused turmoil. Actions matter.

synesthesiah | synesthesiah

NTA. She's responsible for her own marriage, not you. 👍

ThorsHelm | ThorsHelm

NTA man. Wife's affair, lies, and denial. You're not at fault. 🤔

Thediciplematt | Thediciplematt

Validation and support for friend's life-altering decision. 👏

Master-Manipulation | Master-Manipulation

Friend finds support to make life-altering decision amidst social pressure. 👏

KoperKat | KoperKat

👹 NTA: Cheating, lying, and a secret child? Who's the real monster?

doney166 | doney166

Divorce drama: Ex-wife, friend, and a**hole accusations. 😳

Vena_Mala | Vena_Mala

NTA: She caused it, not you! 😂😂 WTF moments.

SnooMemesjellies7547 | SnooMemesjellies7547

Not the a**hole? Let's dive into this juicy story! 🍿

Nbc27 | Nbc27

NTA: A messy situation with accusations and broken trust. 👍

brianthebloomfield | brianthebloomfield

Supportive friend defends against family pressure. 👏

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NTA: Cheating wife's actions have devastating consequences for all involved. 😢

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