In the realm of relationships, we often find ourselves dealing with the good, the bad, and the downright messy. Today, we bring you a tale of love, understanding, and a few unexpected accidents. Our story revolves around a 22-year-old man who struggles with interoception, an issue that often leaves him unaware of his body’s signals, like hunger or a full bladder. This leads to some…well, let’s say ‘uncomfortable’ situations. Now, throw in a 24-year-old boyfriend, a long car ride, and an untimely need to pee, and we’ve got ourselves a drama that’s as relatable as it is messy.
The Struggle with Interoception

The Long Car Ride

The Unfortunate Accident

The Boyfriend’s Reaction

The Turnaround

The Retort ️

The Boyfriend’s Counter-Argument ️

The Dilemma

Bladders, Bellies, and Boyfriends: A Love Story with a Twist
In this tale of love and bodily functions, our protagonist finds himself in a sticky situation, quite literally. After an unfortunate accident due to his interoception issue, his boyfriend’s reaction leaves him feeling frustrated and embarrassed. Recalling a recent incident where he cleaned up after his boyfriend’s sickness, he retaliates with a promise not to console or clean up next time. This sparks an argument about what’s fair and what’s not in a relationship. Is our protagonist out of line for his retort, or is his boyfriend being too harsh? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA: Double standard! Boyfriend gets mad at accidents but not his own.

NTA, but your boyfriend’s a prick . Find someone supportive

Set an alarm to pee? Empty the tank before leaving!

Boyfriend judges girlfriend for peeing herself; she’s not the a**hole.
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NTA – Partner’s lack of understanding about medical issue causes tension

NTA.. keeping a discreet plastic bottle for emergencies?

Dump your a**hole boyfriend. You deserve better.

NTA. BF’s unsupportive behavior is dump and run.

“NTA. Lack of empathy. Spot-on comparison to puking incident.”

NTA, he mocked your condition, but you clapped back perfectly!

Accidental pee prank? NTA, but pun intended, he’s pissed off!

Dump the jerk, girl!

Dump the BF! Pee in a bottle for emergencies

Boyfriend’s left, NTA

Dump the jerk and find someone better!

NTA. Red flags in relationship due to health issue.

Boyfriend’s insensitivity towards medical condition, NTA. Find someone better.

NTA: Your bf should be more understanding and supportive

Seeking medical advice for a sensitive situation

Heartbreaking story with a warning: don’t ignore your health ❤️

Dealing with irritable bowel syndrome and close calls in public

NTA. Try setting timers to avoid painful accidents. Your bf sucks

Dealing with bodily functions: a messy situation for NTA

Dump him! Find a better boyfriend who understands you!

NTA. Fair comparison, hypocritical behavior. Apology or abuse pattern?

Get out of that relationship! He doesn’t respect you!

Empathy and revenge: Next time, pee on him! NTA

Dump him! Your boyfriend lacks empathy for your medical condition

♀️ NTA. Don’t settle for someone who shames your medical issue.

Be prepared for accidents on the road with a portable urinal!

Be prepared for accidents on the go!

Undiagnosed condition caused years of humiliation and misdiagnosis

Red flags galore! NTA, something’s fishy here

NTA. Sit on toilet frequently to manage bladder issues

Stay prepared, guys! Portable urinals are a discreet option

No a**hole here. A tale of love and understanding

Stand up for yourself! Your boyfriend needs some manners.

Boyfriend shames OP for bodily function, not cool

Don’t settle for someone who can’t handle your accidents.

“Your boyfriend is a gigantic a**hole. Time for self-reflection.”

NTA, but can’t you just set a pee schedule?

The urgency of nature’s call and the lack of options

NTA. Explain and educate him about your body’s functions.

NTA, but timing could’ve been better. Fair comparison, he’s an a**hole.

Embarrassing bathroom accident leads to discussion about adult diapers

ADHD: The struggle of hyperfixation and bodily neglect

Perfect comparison

NTA. Boyfriend’s cruelty: Is it worth sustaining?

Not the a**hole. Share your story of love and accidents!

NTA. Boyfriend’s hypocritical double standards: expecting partner to clean barf

Supporting each other when sick is crucial for a relationship

Dump. This. Guy. NTA

Your BF lacks empathy for your condition.
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Medical issue causing accidents, NTA. Boyfriend acting like a big baby

Supportive comment highlights lack of empathy in sickness and health

NTA. Parent shares helpful advice on resolving child’s medical issue

Dump the loser. You deserve better!
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Supportive partner needed for medical condition. Funny anecdote included

Why are you still with him? You’re definitely not the a**hole!

“Why are you still with him?” – Curiosity and Concern

NTA. Hypocritical boyfriend? Time for an upgrade!

Billy Madison > your boyfriend. NTA for calling it out!
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NTA, but boyfriend – run while you can.

Defending yourself against a partner who can’t handle the truth

Not the a**hole

Unhealthy relationship? His reaction to your medical condition says it all! NTA

NTA
Your bf lacks understanding or empathy. Consider if it’s a dealbreaker.
Adult pee pads: a solution for embarrassing accidents?

Dump the bf, find alternatives for accidents. Take precautions

A fiery response to an outrageous situation.

Dump the loser! Find a compassionate dude
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NTA questions why someone can’t control their bodily functions
