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The Unloved Child’s Unforgiving Stance: ‘I Don’t Care That Our Parents Are Dead’

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Imagine growing up feeling like the black sheep of your family, the unwanted child. For one individual, this was a harsh reality. Their father believed they were the result of an affair, and their mother blamed them for the ensuing marital strife. The emotional abuse escalated when they came out as gay at 16, leading to a painful disownment. Fast forward to today, both parents have passed away, and the siblings are planning a memorial. But our protagonist, still nursing the wounds of the past, refuses to attend. What happens next? Let’s delve into this emotionally charged story.

The Unwanted Child: A Painful Childhood

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A Mother’s Resentment

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The Black Sheep: A Lonely Existence

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The Drunken Tyrant

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The Unsympathetic Mother

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Coming Out and Getting Cast Out

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The Vengeful Father

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The Mother’s Unwavering Support… For the Wrong Side

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The End of an Era

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The Unforgiving Stance

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The Shocking Revelation

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The Sibling’s Rebuke

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A Family Fractured Beyond Repair: The Emotional Fallout

Our protagonist’s story is a stark reminder of how deep family wounds can run. The painful childhood, the emotional abuse, the disownment, and the continued torment into adulthood have left scars that refuse to heal. Now, with the parents gone and a memorial looming, the siblings insist on honouring the very people who caused so much pain. But for our protagonist, the past is not something to be forgotten or forgiven so easily. They’ve made their stance clear, sparking a new wave of conflict with their siblings. But who’s in the right here? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

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NTA. You had a different relationship with your parents than your siblings and you are rightfully staying away from a celebration that you do not feel the same about.

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NTA. Sibling understands the damage caused by abusive parents.

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“NTA: He may have been your father, but not your daddy.”

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NTA: Express your emotions without repercussions. Pursue positive relationship tactfully.

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The unloved child stands up against their deceased abusive parents. NTA

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NTA, you don’t owe your parents anything. ‍♂️ Your siblings should’ve known better.

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Seeking therapy for self-awareness and healing. ‍♂️

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Siblings expect ‘Happy Family’ after witnessing abusive parents. NTA.

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“Parents need to earn respect and praise like anyone else.”

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Unloved child seeks validation, questions absent parents. They were around.

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NTA- Siblings prodded, parents were a**holes. You’re not at fault.

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OP explains why they don’t want to celebrate their parents’ death

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NTA. Family isn’t always worth forgiving, even in death.

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NTA. Unloved child refuses to honor disrespectful deceased parents.

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NTA. Parents must earn respect. Siblings are clueless

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NTA. Dying doesn’t make them good people.

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Unloved child takes a stand: ‘They weren’t parents’

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Seeking therapy for a difficult past, NTA comment receives support ✨

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Standing up to abusive parents and clueless siblings. ‍♀️

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Disowned by dad, but siblings insist they’re still your parents

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Curious about the parents’ lack of paternity test? NTA

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Sibling betrayal and toxic parents: cutting ties for self-preservation.

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Unloved child stands firm: ‘I don’t care our parents are dead’

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