There’s no denying that weddings can be stressful, but one woman’s attempt to create a stress-free environment on her big day has led to unexpected family drama. The 27-year-old bride-to-be, planning her wedding for October, made a simple request: she didn’t want children present during the hair and makeup portion of her wedding. Now, she’s facing backlash from her own mother, who’s labeled her a ‘bridezilla’. The question is, is she being unreasonable or is it her day, her rules?
The Big Day is Coming!

A Family Affair

Family in the Wedding Party

The Bride’s Request ♀️

Focus on the Day

A Few Hours of Peace ️

Potential Childcare Options

Mom’s Reaction

Grandma’s Love for the Grandkids ❤️

Feeling Like Scum

The Sister Talk ️

The Big Question ♀️

Bridezilla or Justified? The Internet Weighs In ️⚖️
The bride-to-be’s request has certainly stirred the pot, causing a rift between her and her mother. Despite the support from her brother and sister-in-law, she’s left questioning if her request is unreasonable. The bride simply wants a few hours of tranquility on her big day, but her mother’s reaction has left her feeling like ‘scum of the earth’. Is it too much to ask for a stress-free environment on her wedding day? Or is she being a bridezilla? Let’s dive into the internet’s top responses and see what they think of this wedding day drama! ️♀️
NTA. Sister’s 2-month-old shouldn’t be around fumes. Mom’s meddling.

NTA. Reasonable bride request sparks family drama. Momzilla jokes ensue!

NTA. Enjoy adult time without kids and present a united front.

NTA. Bride’s mom is selfish; hiring a babysitter is ideal

NTA. Your wedding, your rules.

Debate over having a baby at the wedding ceremony

NTA, reasonable request sparks family drama
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Stressed bride-to-be gets support for wedding day baby drama

NTA: Sacrificing for sister’s wedding, leaving newborn for a weekend

NTA for wanting mom’s attention. Suggest separate space for baby.

NTA. It’s your wedding, do your thing!

Bride’s dilemma: compromise or risk family drama on wedding day?

Mom’s baby obsession clashes with wedding plans. Drama ensues!

NTA: Peaceful pre-wedding hours without messy toddlers? Totally justified!

NTA: Babies allowed, dads can handle older kids.

Bride’s request for personal boundaries sparks family drama. NTA!

NTA. Hire a babysitter or enlist in-laws to watch kids

No babies at the wedding! NTA wants a peaceful ceremony.

Bride sets boundaries for child-free wedding. NTA, totally justified!

NTA. Bride’s room is not child-friendly. Communicate your wishes.

NTA! It’s YOUR day, and kids demand attention

NTA. Your wedding, your rules. Don’t let mom guilt-trip you.

NTA. Toddler-free wedding? Sister’s newborn might be exception

NTA: Bride’s mom causing drama, sister should be contacted directly

NTA: Toddlers at hair & makeup session would be chaotic

“NTA. It’s a couple hours in the morning not the entire ceremony/reception etc (even if it was. Your wedding your rules) also who would want to risk a couple toddlers around a possibly white dress and other breakable messy things?? That’s a recipe for disaster! It’s a couple hours plenty of close family to keep an eye on em. And tbh I don’t trust that your mother will keep her word on the attention thing so unfortunately prepare yourself for that disappointment. And talk to your sis. She should hopefully be understanding.” – Engaging and supportive comment defending the bride’s decision.

Safety first! NTA shares a childhood wedding mishap

Set boundaries for kids during hair and makeup. NTA.

NTA! Bridezilla? These kids should be with grandparents, duh!

Removing your mother from the wedding? NTA, less stress!
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Mom of 5 supports NTA’s reasonable wedding day request!

NTA. Understandable. Baby at wedding, alternate activities, win-win for all

No kids allowed at wedding ♀️. Not the a**hole.

Former wedding photographer supports bride’s reasonable policy.
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NTA – Bride’s reasonable request sparks family drama. Grandkids vs wedding.

NTA. Your wedding, your decision. End of.

NTA. Kids during hair and makeup? No way!
