We've all heard of re-gifting, but how about re-gifting a wedding gift... at another wedding? 😲 Meet 'Jane', a high-flying financier, and her friend from pre-K who works at a non-profit. When Jane got married, her friend didn't hesitate to spend over $4k on the wedding, including a lavish trip to Spain. But when it came time for her own wedding, Jane's 'gift' was a shocking surprise... 💔

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In a shocking twist, Jane's 'joke' gift - the $200 cash our protagonist had given her at her own wedding - has left their friendship in tatters. Despite the bride's outrage and demand for an apology, Jane has remained silent. With their mutual friends split down the middle, it seems this wedding day drama is far from over. The question remains: Was the bride justified in her anger, or did she overreact? Let's see what the internet thinks... 💬
NTA. Classless friend re-gifts wedding gift to 'even the score' 😑

xpotential31 | xpotential31
Confused by a weird joke at a friend's wedding. NTA.

judysbootyy | judysbootyy
NTA - Where's the real gift? This 'joke' is insane 😳

lumpthefoff | lumpthefoff
NTA: Jane's rude behavior at your wedding deserves no apology 🙄

Slugdirt | Slugdirt
Bride re-gifts wedding money, claims it evens the score. 🎁

lockerpunch | lockerpunch
Commenter wants a Le Creuset oven as a wedding gift 😍

colleen2163 | colleen2163
Unmet gift expectations lead to a friendship on the rocks 💔

[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA. Friendships are about give and take. You're not wrong.

magnolia-22 | magnolia-22
NTA! 🙌 Stand your ground and don't let the haters win!

North-Strategy-8343 | North-Strategy-8343
NTA, but Jane's self-centered attitude is causing tension 🙄

4dxn | 4dxn
NTA. How weird. 😳

calaakla | calaakla
"NTA. All those people bitching about your wedding? Trash! 💔"

SuLiaodai | SuLiaodai
NTA and your ex-friend is a gift-giving grudge holder 😠

lisaccat | lisaccat
Assess your friendship objectively and see it under a new light 🤔

shubzy1234 | shubzy1234
Re-gifting a wedding gift? NTA, that's just plain weird 😳

SnooWords4839 | SnooWords4839
Explaining the joke: a sentimental gift turned into an absurdity 😂

saragc92 | saragc92
Sister's insulting gift on wedding day, demand apology and return!

DiscoBoi95 | DiscoBoi95
INFO: Envelope not sealed, contained same money. Insulting gesture, not about money. 🤷♀️

lady_of_thyatira | lady_of_thyatira
Re-gifted cash insulted OP, but commenters find it hilarious 🤣

palabradot | palabradot
NTA - Regifting Le Creuset? That's a friendship breaker! 😱

DebieT14850 | DebieT14850
Cutting out entitled people from your life ✊🏻

Upperclass_hobo | Upperclass_hobo
A**hole accuses friend of being cheap for re-gifting wedding gift

nataliewtf | nataliewtf
NTA: Don't invite these hypocrites to your wedding! 😱

apricotpunch | apricotpunch
"NTA and the ultimate gift fail: re-gifting your own present! 😂"

WonderfulPromotion60 | WonderfulPromotion60
NTA. Calling out a friend for re-gifting wedding presents 💔

SnooGiraffes3591 | SnooGiraffes3591
Friendship quantified. Ugly. You're not the a**hole. 💔

TryingKindness | TryingKindness
Next level regifting? Not the a**hole in this situation! 😂

chubbywhiteboy420 | chubbywhiteboy420
NTA. Choosing to spend money on friends' weddings is toxic 💔

Ok_Clock_8658 | Ok_Clock_8658
Friendship on the rocks: Re-gifted wedding present sparks fallout 🤷♀️

MajPFRT | MajPFRT
Flying across an ocean for a wedding vs. complaining about travel 🚗

WinEquivalent4069 | WinEquivalent4069
Cut ties with Jane 🚫. Move on and forget the drama.

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Friends criticizing wedding, NTA for not apologizing. 🙄

RetMilRob | RetMilRob
NTA: Lesson learned, don't waste $ on ungrateful friends. 😔

Nikthas | Nikthas
Confused about the score and gifts, NTA (Not the a**hole)

Catri | Catri
"NTA 🙌 If Jane thinks regifting $200 makes things even, she's wrong."

DirtHiker | DirtHiker
Don't let pettiness ruin your wedding memories. Be objective. ESH.

SufficientZucchini21 | SufficientZucchini21
INFO: The distinctive envelope had a beautiful Chinese wedding design 💔

imcesca | imcesca
Heartwarming story of a generous wedding gift and true friendship ❤️

Devotchka655321 | Devotchka655321
Cutting ties with a toxic friend. You're definitely NTA 👍

FrootLoop47 | FrootLoop47
NTA. Reach out and hear her side of the story 💋

Julissaherna692 | Julissaherna692
NTA. Tacky behavior! Guests should be polite for once 🙄

slendermanismydad | slendermanismydad
Curious about the wedding location? Find out in the comments! 😉

irlenysm | irlenysm
Find new friends, these ones aren't worth the drama 🙄

Frozen_Twinkies | Frozen_Twinkies
Bizarre wedding gift situation leaves friend feeling hurt and unappreciated 😪

witchbrew7 | witchbrew7
"American wedding traditions and their costs are weird, but anyway..."

Shrink83 | Shrink83
Westchester is not upstate! 🙄

m3smth | m3smth
Friendship on the rocks: Jane's entitled expectations and passive-aggressive comeback 😱

Puzzlehead_geek007 | Puzzlehead_geek007
Weddings are too expensive, I'd rather spend on bills and rent 💔

ProfessionalCar6255 | ProfessionalCar6255
Confusion over 'even the score' sparks curiosity among readers 🤔

erin_kathleen | erin_kathleen
Friendship on the rocks: NTA, passive-aggressive friend won't reconcile 🙅

hellogoodbye543217 | hellogoodbye543217
NTA - No harm in keeping score, just don't escalate.

dustyprocess | dustyprocess
NTA. Jane's an a**hole, not a friend. 😞

OurLadyOfCygnets | OurLadyOfCygnets
Re-gifting a wedding gift? That's crazy and disrespectful! NTA 😱

imabeast9000 | imabeast9000
Passive aggressive gift-giving gone wrong 😳

miraculous_milk | miraculous_milk
NTA, but why stop there? Ask for the oven and tickets! 😂

bhavm7 | bhavm7
Weddings reveal true friends. I lost 2 during mine. 😢

Leonardthecatt | Leonardthecatt
Re-gifting at a wedding? NTA, demand an apology and reassess friendships. 😞

CapsFan1066 | CapsFan1066
Wedding drama: ESH, but Jane's comment was rude and weird 😳

FerretAres | FerretAres
NTA. Jane's re-gifting created drama. Don't let her ruin your day 🙏

mfruitfly | mfruitfly
NTA but why not just call her up and hash it out if you want to continue this relationship? 👋

hammocks_ | hammocks_
Friendship on the rocks: YTA loses it over a joke 🙄

Peetrrabbit | Peetrrabbit
Wedding drama exposes toxic friend group. 💔

JalenTargaryen | JalenTargaryen
OP needs new friends, the old ones never grew up 🙄

ConferenceCreative89 | ConferenceCreative89
Congrats on your wedding! 🎉 Sorry about your inconsiderate friend.

SnooRadishes5305 | SnooRadishes5305
Not the a**hole. Drama-free comment section. 🙌

JudesM | JudesM
NTA and questionable friends 🤔

voxam72 | voxam72