A Wedding Gift Re-Gifted: A Friendship on the Rocks 🎁💔

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We've all heard of re-gifting, but how about re-gifting a wedding gift... at another wedding? 😲 Meet 'Jane', a high-flying financier, and her friend from pre-K who works at a non-profit. When Jane got married, her friend didn't hesitate to spend over $4k on the wedding, including a lavish trip to Spain. But when it came time for her own wedding, Jane's 'gift' was a shocking surprise... 💔

A Friendship Forged in Pre-K 🚸

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The Big Wedding Splurge 💸

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The Financial Divide 💰

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The Bridal Shower Gift 🎁

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A Pandemic Wedding 🦠

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The Wedding Day Drama Begins 👰

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The 'Joke' Gift 🎁😲

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The Confrontation 💥

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The Aftermath 🌪️

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The Divided Friends 🤷‍♀️

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A Friendship Teetering on the Edge: The Fallout of a 'Joke' Gift 🎁💔

In a shocking twist, Jane's 'joke' gift - the $200 cash our protagonist had given her at her own wedding - has left their friendship in tatters. Despite the bride's outrage and demand for an apology, Jane has remained silent. With their mutual friends split down the middle, it seems this wedding day drama is far from over. The question remains: Was the bride justified in her anger, or did she overreact? Let's see what the internet thinks... 💬

NTA. Classless friend re-gifts wedding gift to 'even the score' 😑

xpotential31 | xpotential31

Confused by a weird joke at a friend's wedding. NTA.

judysbootyy | judysbootyy

NTA - Where's the real gift? This 'joke' is insane 😳

lumpthefoff | lumpthefoff

NTA: Jane's rude behavior at your wedding deserves no apology 🙄

Slugdirt | Slugdirt

Bride re-gifts wedding money, claims it evens the score. 🎁

lockerpunch | lockerpunch

Commenter wants a Le Creuset oven as a wedding gift 😍

colleen2163 | colleen2163

Unmet gift expectations lead to a friendship on the rocks 💔

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA. Friendships are about give and take. You're not wrong.

magnolia-22 | magnolia-22

NTA! 🙌 Stand your ground and don't let the haters win!

North-Strategy-8343 | North-Strategy-8343

NTA, but Jane's self-centered attitude is causing tension 🙄

4dxn | 4dxn

NTA. How weird. 😳

calaakla | calaakla

"NTA. All those people bitching about your wedding? Trash! 💔"

SuLiaodai | SuLiaodai

NTA and your ex-friend is a gift-giving grudge holder 😠

lisaccat | lisaccat

Assess your friendship objectively and see it under a new light 🤔

shubzy1234 | shubzy1234

Re-gifting a wedding gift? NTA, that's just plain weird 😳

SnooWords4839 | SnooWords4839

Explaining the joke: a sentimental gift turned into an absurdity 😂

saragc92 | saragc92

Sister's insulting gift on wedding day, demand apology and return!

DiscoBoi95 | DiscoBoi95

INFO: Envelope not sealed, contained same money. Insulting gesture, not about money. 🤷‍♀️

lady_of_thyatira | lady_of_thyatira

Re-gifted cash insulted OP, but commenters find it hilarious 🤣

palabradot | palabradot

NTA - Regifting Le Creuset? That's a friendship breaker! 😱

DebieT14850 | DebieT14850

Cutting out entitled people from your life ✊🏻

Upperclass_hobo | Upperclass_hobo

A**hole accuses friend of being cheap for re-gifting wedding gift

nataliewtf | nataliewtf

NTA: Don't invite these hypocrites to your wedding! 😱

apricotpunch | apricotpunch

"NTA and the ultimate gift fail: re-gifting your own present! 😂"

WonderfulPromotion60 | WonderfulPromotion60

NTA. Calling out a friend for re-gifting wedding presents 💔

SnooGiraffes3591 | SnooGiraffes3591

Friendship quantified. Ugly. You're not the a**hole. 💔

TryingKindness | TryingKindness

Next level regifting? Not the a**hole in this situation! 😂

chubbywhiteboy420 | chubbywhiteboy420

NTA. Choosing to spend money on friends' weddings is toxic 💔

Ok_Clock_8658 | Ok_Clock_8658

Friendship on the rocks: Re-gifted wedding present sparks fallout 🤷‍♀️


Flying across an ocean for a wedding vs. complaining about travel 🚗

WinEquivalent4069 | WinEquivalent4069

Cut ties with Jane 🚫. Move on and forget the drama.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Friends criticizing wedding, NTA for not apologizing. 🙄

RetMilRob | RetMilRob

NTA: Lesson learned, don't waste $ on ungrateful friends. 😔

Nikthas | Nikthas

Confused about the score and gifts, NTA (Not the a**hole)

Catri | Catri

"NTA 🙌 If Jane thinks regifting $200 makes things even, she's wrong."

DirtHiker | DirtHiker

Don't let pettiness ruin your wedding memories. Be objective. ESH.

SufficientZucchini21 | SufficientZucchini21

INFO: The distinctive envelope had a beautiful Chinese wedding design 💔

imcesca | imcesca

Heartwarming story of a generous wedding gift and true friendship ❤️

Devotchka655321 | Devotchka655321

Cutting ties with a toxic friend. You're definitely NTA 👍

FrootLoop47 | FrootLoop47

NTA. Reach out and hear her side of the story 💋

Julissaherna692 | Julissaherna692

NTA. Tacky behavior! Guests should be polite for once 🙄

slendermanismydad | slendermanismydad

Curious about the wedding location? Find out in the comments! 😉

irlenysm | irlenysm

Find new friends, these ones aren't worth the drama 🙄

Frozen_Twinkies | Frozen_Twinkies

Bizarre wedding gift situation leaves friend feeling hurt and unappreciated 😪

witchbrew7 | witchbrew7

"American wedding traditions and their costs are weird, but anyway..."

Shrink83 | Shrink83

Westchester is not upstate! 🙄

m3smth | m3smth

Friendship on the rocks: Jane's entitled expectations and passive-aggressive comeback 😱

Puzzlehead_geek007 | Puzzlehead_geek007

Weddings are too expensive, I'd rather spend on bills and rent 💔

ProfessionalCar6255 | ProfessionalCar6255

Confusion over 'even the score' sparks curiosity among readers 🤔

erin_kathleen | erin_kathleen

Friendship on the rocks: NTA, passive-aggressive friend won't reconcile 🙅

hellogoodbye543217 | hellogoodbye543217

NTA - No harm in keeping score, just don't escalate.

dustyprocess | dustyprocess

NTA. Jane's an a**hole, not a friend. 😞

OurLadyOfCygnets | OurLadyOfCygnets

Re-gifting a wedding gift? That's crazy and disrespectful! NTA 😱

imabeast9000 | imabeast9000

Passive aggressive gift-giving gone wrong 😳

miraculous_milk | miraculous_milk

NTA, but why stop there? Ask for the oven and tickets! 😂

bhavm7 | bhavm7

Weddings reveal true friends. I lost 2 during mine. 😢

Leonardthecatt | Leonardthecatt

Re-gifting at a wedding? NTA, demand an apology and reassess friendships. 😞

CapsFan1066 | CapsFan1066

Wedding drama: ESH, but Jane's comment was rude and weird 😳

FerretAres | FerretAres

NTA. Jane's re-gifting created drama. Don't let her ruin your day 🙏

mfruitfly | mfruitfly

NTA but why not just call her up and hash it out if you want to continue this relationship? 👋

hammocks_ | hammocks_

Friendship on the rocks: YTA loses it over a joke 🙄

Peetrrabbit | Peetrrabbit

Wedding drama exposes toxic friend group. 💔

JalenTargaryen | JalenTargaryen

OP needs new friends, the old ones never grew up 🙄

ConferenceCreative89 | ConferenceCreative89

Congrats on your wedding! 🎉 Sorry about your inconsiderate friend.

SnooRadishes5305 | SnooRadishes5305

Not the a**hole. Drama-free comment section. 🙌

JudesM | JudesM

NTA and questionable friends 🤔

voxam72 | voxam72

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